Somali sheikh bans interracial relationships

[Nilotic]

@convincation

Is your half-Moroccan friend half Dinka? I ask because we have the largest Muslim community, so I can see a Dinka Muslim man marrying a Moroccan woman and a Dinka Muslim woman marrying an Egyptian man.

 

[convincation]

@convincation

Is your half-Moroccan friend half Dinka? I ask because we have the largest Muslim community, so I can see a Dinka Muslim man marrying a Moroccan woman and a Dinka Muslim woman marrying an Egyptian.

I’m not sure about his ethnicity but his south Sudanese side is also muslim so he might be

 

[Nilotic]

I’m not sure about his ethnicity but his south Sudanese side is also muslim so he might be

I suspect that he's Dinka; we occupy the overwhelming chunk of the border with the North and have far more adherents of Islam; it's funny because we were the biggest opponents and obstacles to Khartoum during the war despite our extensive interaction. My maternal grandmother's family has Muslims in it, so I know it first hand.

 

[Xanibacal bin Barqa]

This thread is just wow

Just another normal day at sspot
discussing our favorite topic

 

[Nilotic]

Just another normal day at sspot
discussing our favorite topic

Why is he struggling so hard to put it on?

 

[Xanibacal bin Barqa]

Why is he struggling so hard to put it on?

It's even funnier in the video , another competent and overqualified African leader.
a face mac.

 

[Nilotic]

It's even funnier in the video , another competent and overqualified African leader.
a face mac.

Cadaan reach space and we can't even reach face

 

[freedomrider]

Cadaan reach space and we can't even reach face

is the asians, you only see white managmenet.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

A lot of you here saying Somali women are easy or abandon their families for reverts are full of sh!t and you know it. Leave it to pathetic ignorant faraxs to disparage xalimos at every chance they get!

The main reasons why xalimos marry these reverts/ajnabis and loser faraxs the same is because Somali families unlike Asians or Arabs do not look for suitable partners for their daughters. They may do it sometimes for their sons but rarely for the girls. If their families were involved most wouldn’t marry out. And let’s not pretend the ones marrying within are any better off. We have extremely high divorce rate for conservative Muslim community…mostly because there are no fathers, brothers, or uncles involved in the avg xalimo’s decisions or daily life. Faraxs neglect & are very passive when it comes to their female relatives interests and then wonder why they marry out or end up with losers.

 

[Unionist1960]

Far too many people care about what others do with their lives.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Lmaooo they're not victims, it's what those women want

This is ultimately true. It takes two to tango.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

I blame no one other than the women. They chose them. Kudos to the Sheikh for stopping the madness, but y'all are living in the West and it's the 21st century, if you brought an ex convict to your home to convince the fam to let you marry him, that's your L and only your L. That's where I stand on it.

In my personal opinion, if a man or woman says they specifically want someone from a culture that's not their own, that's a red flag and the person has a lot of self hate issues.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

A lot of you here saying Somali women are easy or abandon their families for reverts are full of sh!t and you know it. Leave it to pathetic ignorant faraxs to disparage xalimos at every chance they get!

The main reasons why xalimos marry these reverts/ajnabis and loser faraxs the same is because Somali families unlike Asians or Arabs do not look for suitable partners for their daughters. They may do it sometimes for their sons but rarely for the girls. If their families were involved most wouldn’t marry out. And let’s not pretend the ones marrying within are any better off. We have extremely high divorce rate for conservative Muslim community…mostly because there are no fathers, brothers, or uncles involved in the avg xalimo’s decisions or daily life. Faraxs neglect & are very passive when it comes to their female relatives interests and then wonder why they marry out or end up with losers.

Let me get this straight: because a woman's family isn't gonna set them up, it's their fault for marrying a loser?

If a man or woman chooses a bad partner, that's on them.

 

[Macalin dheerow]

inshallah wa gu fahmay walaal

No problem bro, just certain things can’t be joked about, a lot of people will interprit it as truth rather then as a joke.

 

[Macalin dheerow]

Honestly atleast 5 I personally know who forced their families hand

I blame their fathers, whether they were absent or present. They should have not been able to force their family to accept it. Its on them.

 

[Macalin dheerow]

You can always count on the topic of interracial unions to go more then 8 pages kkkk this is interesting

 

[Ozworld]

Will these bloody topics ever finish

 

[Amirah]

Let me get this straight: because a woman's family isn't gonna set them up, it's their fault for marrying a loser?

If a man or woman chooses a bad partner, that's on them.

As Muslims, a girl’s mahram is supposed to help her find a suitable match. You all were saying xalimos are “easy” compare to Asian or Arab women, and I was pointing out that their mahrams are often very involved whereas xalimos are left to their own devices. Women are more vulnerable and easily manipulated - so without any mahram involved, there’s higher chance they’ll end up with losers. A girl has to get a permission from her father to get married for a reason, but most Somali fathers nvm finding a suitable match but don’t even take enough care to seriously investigate who their daughter brings before allowing the marriage to go forward. I have seen so many lopsided marriages, where you wonder why the hell didn’t the girl’s father object.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

As Muslims, a girl’s mahram is supposed to help her find a suitable match. You all were saying xalimos are “easy” compare to Asian or Arab women, and I was pointing out that their mahrams are often very involved whereas xalimos are left to their own devices. Women are more vulnerable and easily manipulated - so without any mahram involved, there’s higher chance they’ll end up with losers. A girl has to get a permission from her father to get married for a reason, but most Somali fathers nvm finding a suitable match but don’t even take enough care to seriously investigate who their daughter brings before allowing the marriage to go forward. I have seen so many lopsided marriages, where you wonder why the hell didn’t the girl’s father object.

I agree that taking a protective stance as a father is important. However my point was more around the fact that personal accountability is a big variable. I think we can both agree that if you are interested in marriage, you need to have your affairs in order, and demand standards becoming of the life you desire before choosing a partner.

Ex-convicts. Reverts with a shady past. Men with fetish complexes. Men with inferiority complexes. These things need to be viewed by the woman. That's my point in a nutshell.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

As Muslims, a girl’s mahram is supposed to help her find a suitable match. You all were saying xalimos are “easy” compare to Asian or Arab women, and I was pointing out that their mahrams are often very involved whereas xalimos are left to their own devices. Women are more vulnerable and easily manipulated - so without any mahram involved, there’s higher chance they’ll end up with losers. A girl has to get a permission from her father to get married for a reason, but most Somali fathers nvm finding a suitable match but don’t even take enough care to seriously investigate who their daughter brings before allowing the marriage to go forward. I have seen so many lopsided marriages, where you wonder why the hell didn’t the girl’s father object.

Some Somali womans refuse when their fathers brothers adeers abtis and other male family members Who are their guardians that trying to find them good muslims somali mans that marry them but some they say it is arranged marriage and they dont want their fathers or male family members to find them good man and say they will find it themself thru shukaansi which is haram those womans went to masjid i think without their male family members knowing and bring bring non somali mans to their fathers and male family members saying they want to marry them say they cant refuse it or u racist or hatefull or nationalism and then go marry non somali mans without their fathers or male family members
So it is not their fathers or male family members fault but their own fault and the scholar tht marry to them to non somali mans without guardians