This is going to be another controversial topic. Most of you will probably not agree with this and that is fine. I'm not talking about bookworms like @sahersi or basement dwelling alphas like @Inquisitive_ . I'm talking about diasporan Somalis who hang out at shisha joints and most of you would call "outgoing" or social butterflies.
Just go to a large gathering of Somalis and observe the way they carry themselves: their body language, eye contact, voice inflection, social awareness, and overall demeanor. For people who have actual social skills will notice something is off, they feel out of place,
The interesting thing is this seems to be an exclusively diasporan issue. You'll see fobs who have no issue working an entire room of strangers even with a thick heavy accent, while say wallahi kids can hardly handle themselves outside of their comfort zones. What happened? It would seem that the previous generation largely failed to instill imperative social skills needed to navigate the world.
Just go to a large gathering of Somalis and observe the way they carry themselves: their body language, eye contact, voice inflection, social awareness, and overall demeanor. For people who have actual social skills will notice something is off, they feel out of place,
The interesting thing is this seems to be an exclusively diasporan issue. You'll see fobs who have no issue working an entire room of strangers even with a thick heavy accent, while say wallahi kids can hardly handle themselves outside of their comfort zones. What happened? It would seem that the previous generation largely failed to instill imperative social skills needed to navigate the world.