the problem with the US and the UK is that over there its so damn big you got to carve out your own identity whereas in London without even calling someone I basically know where they are all the times this level of closeness means you adopt the mannerisms of the people close to you and arabs and south asians outnumber us so much, this is the reason you see the way the somali community moves online and irl i could get into it if you want but it may take long.