The biggest problem between Somalis is that there is no understanding between men and women

Shogun

Shogun

Waa anaga orodneey, nabad doonaney
They understand each other loud and clear. They just want and expect far too different things from each other, and that is fine. They have simply reached what is bordering on an ideological impasse stemming from the failures of the previous generation.
 
Mercury

Mercury

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Angelina said:
Yep, that is true. Very rarely are Somali women back home expected to do everything on their own when kids are involved. But the problem with the a some young Somali men is that they lack critical thinking or respect for women. They aren't going to take reality into account, because once they do, they will have to question themselves which they don't want to do. Constantly bashing women is a much easier approach to dealing with their frustrations and inadequacy.
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I read somewhere in a article that a person whose narcisst will never admit theyre faults or take responsibility for theyre mistakes cause it will ruin the illusion of them being perfect so maybe these guys are bashing women to defend their image
 
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Chase

Angelina said:
@Chase only very recently have Somalis been able to get their own category. Most of us born and raised in the UK ticked 'black british', so I fail to see how those stats can give us a clear picture of young Somali men and women born and raised in the UK.
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Fair point, I think Somalis born in the west are doing okay, not great but definitely could use some improvement. It takes 3 generations for a migrant group to get accustomed to a foreign country and find their footing, hopefully it pans out well for our community.
 
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Desert Flower

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Angelina said:
Things have definitely changed with the younger generation, however at one point Somali guys were not doing as well as Somali girls. The girls kept on pointing it out, Somali guys started to get mad.

Now we have some Somali guys who love to talk about traditionalism. They want a stay at home wife who does all the cooking and cleaning. However, many cannot afford to do this in the West. They cannot sustain a family with one income. Due to their frustrations, they proceed to bash Western girls.

If you have common sense. You would silently go back home and marry rather than bashing women in the West, just because you cannot afford to be a breadwinner in the West. The economic situation really isn't our fault, nor is it our fault that some of you lot failed to take advantage of the free education that the West offers. Some Somali men lack self reflection and accountability.
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That’s why they’re obsessed with women bashing. It makes them feel better. Many don’t want to acknowledge that they failed to become something in life. Truth hurts.
 
Waaqmasho

Waaqmasho

Somali woman are brainwashed by feminism, BLM and other liberal BS. I cringe whenever they try to relate their experiences to what other women/ethnic groups experienced. There was a thread I saw here some time ago that claimed nomadic life was actually unfair to women as they did most of the work while the men relaxed. I really cringed reading that, because it was a sad and pathetic attempt at trying to relate to oppression faced by women of other ethnicities. After all, you can't cry "me too" and participate at oppression olympics if you weren't oppressed, you have to create something. And I won't even mention the narrative of how somalis were enslaved that some people run with to try and relate with "blacks". I really find it disgusting and repulsive whenever people try too hard to fit in with others.

For somali men, they really need to educate themselves and stop this whole gang thing and acting like madows. That's another thing that is repulsive to me. Your parents did not run away from somalia so you can die in a dumb way defending a postcode. You're no different to the jar33rs you insult. Get a grib. Somali girls are also not exempt from this, as some of them join the guys in this crime. While many sleep around with ex convict or gangster Madows. I suppose out of a feeling of closeness that they are the same "people". The guys also need to understand if you don't have money, your wife working is not a problem. As long as she follows the rules of islam when she does. If you don't like it get enough money that she doesn't need to work.

I feel like both genders would really be fine, if they just follow the religion. And stop emulating other people.
 
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cawaale

cawaale

Amirah said:
Lol it’s both ways, Somali guys are awkward asf! Sometimes they lack subtlety or finesse. They either flirt so openly it’s kinda gross or they act really awkward. It’s like they lack that easy casual “let’s built rapport before I ask you out” vibe. For ex, few days ago I was jogging at river nearby. I sat down at a bench to feed the ducks. A mixed Persian guy sat down some distance and then at some point walked over and striked a conversation about the ducks. Then he casually moved on to the history of the state and the river. Then reveled his ancestry, asked about mine. He says he loves Somali food... etc. Before I know it’s been an hour and we covered so many topics. He then casually invites me to Persian cultural event and asked for my number. It happened so casually, it felt normal. A faraax could never pull that off in a million years lol.
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If a farax had the exact same approach, you wouldn’t be so welcoming. It’s involuntary subconscious behaviour of western xalimos to put ajnabis on a pedastel.
 
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Chase

Waaqmasho said:
Somali woman are brainwashed by feminism, BLM and other liberal BS. I cringe whenever they try to relate their experiences to what other women/ethnic groups experienced. There was a thread I saw here some time ago that claimed nomadic life was actually unfair to women as they did most of the work while the men relaxed. I really cringed reading that, because it was a sad and pathetic attempt at trying to relate to oppression faced by women of other ethnicities. After all, you can't cry "me too" and participate at oppression olympics if you weren't oppressed, you have to create something. And I won't even mention the narrative of how somalis were enslaved that some people run with to try and relate with "blacks". I really find it disgusting and repulsive whenever people try too hard to fit in with others.

For somali men, they really need to educate themselves and stop this whole gang thing and acting like madows. That's another thing that is repulsive to me. Your parents did not run away from somalia so you can die in a dumb way defending a postcode. You're no different to the jar33rs you insult. Get a grib. Somali girls are also not exempt from this, as some of them join the guys in this crime. While many sleep around with ex convict or gangster Madows. I suppose out of a feeling of closeness that they are the same "people". The guys also need to understand if you don't have money, your wife working is not a problem. As long as she follows the rules of islam when she does. If you don't like it get enough money that she doesn't need to work.

I feel like both genders would really be fine, if they just follow the religion. And stop emulating other people.
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You guys seriously need to get madow dick out of your mouths, is it everyday with this? It's embarrassing and cringe AF.
 
Shogun

Shogun

Waa anaga orodneey, nabad doonaney
Chase said:
You guys seriously need to get madow dick out of your mouths, is it everyday with this? It's embarrassing and cringe AF.
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I don't think they realize how embarrassing it sounds. Not to mention that it's a narrative entirely fabricated online.

They spread that among themselves and took it to heart.
 
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SOMALIKNIGHT

Golan Heights belong to Syria
Unwed Somali girls today are very immature. They make no plans in marriages. They want to spend money today but don't think about tomorrow. They don't know how to build a future.
 
Macalin dheerow

Macalin dheerow

This forum takes the so called ”somali gender divide” to extremes and also other topics. The divide exist online and on a much smaller scale in real life. Truth is that some individuals harbor negative opinions on the opposite gender. This then flames up on the internet and other people join in. In real life we see the opposite genders being friends.

No offense to older folks here (23+) but this is largely affecting this age group. Somalis born after the 1998 don’t have this much divide.
 
The alchemist

The alchemist

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All these broad "men", "women" and "Somalis" statements are often times concluded from groupthink perspective concocted on the obscure parts of the internet. Some of you niggas need to shut the f*ck up and get some actual proper life experience.:mjlol:
 
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Chase

Shogun said:
I don't think they realize how embarrassing it sounds. Not to mention that it's a narrative entirely fabricated online.

They spread that among themselves and took it to heart.
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Even if what they are saying is true (it's not), what is complaining about it online going to achieve anyway?

If some Somali women choose to date out more time they are generally open to anyone, and for a fair amount that doesn't mean they've cancelled Farahs, they're just expanding their options.
 
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قوة الشرطة الصومالية

I’m just tired of the double standards of these western ethnic women. I’m supposed to fork out my savings to please an ethnic woman but she wouldn’t demand the same from white or black. It’s as if they think they can play us for a fool. Most wouldn’t bring this housewife bullshit to foreigners. The relative ones I’ve seen with foreign men work their weekly 40hrs and pay up half the rent/bills. They think they can get away with disrespecting ethnic men.

I’m not willing to slave away for an ethnic woman.
 
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