The Dayyuthification of modern "man"

[greyhound stone]

Backwards mentality. Why do you need to control a grown woman? Insecure men need to severely dominant their women. I can understand guidance but..

I agree with u

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

Can u understand modern men don't control women? They do as they wish and there men just play along to not anger them. It's normal in the culture women have freedom to do as they wish.

well, it's sad to me that women aren't realising this whole feminism and sexual freedom movement is against their nature as women (giving them depression, etc)... it harming them much more than it harming any man. but would you watch your beloved doing something that can harm them "just because they have the freedom to do it" ... if yes you are a hypocrite and evil. ...

 

[Xaruun]

Being jealous is clearly wrong bro I don’t have to be an atheist to know that.

Protective jealousy isn’t the same as jealousy. Are you ok with your female relatives being sharmotas?

 

[Netflix]

Protective jealousy isn’t the same as jealousy. Are you ok with your female relatives being sharmotas?

I said before I can’t police my female relatives I can only do so much.

 

[Netflix]

Protective jealousy isn’t the same as jealousy. Are you ok with your female relatives being sharmotas?

Better question would you do to your female relatives if they were sharmotas

 

[KingSomali999]

well, it's sad to me that women aren't realising this whole feminism and sexual freedom movement is against their nature as women (giving them depression, etc)... it harming them much more than it harming any man. but would you watch your beloved doing something that can harm them "just because they have the freedom to do it" ... if yes you are a hypocrite and evil. ...

they are so far off gone that no amount of evidence or convincing will do you any right. if they choose to do it than you can’t control that, you can divorce or if it’s a family member refuse to be around them.

 

[greyhound stone]

well, it's sad to me that women aren't realising this whole feminism and sexual freedom movement is against their nature as women (giving them depression, etc)... it harming them much more than it harming any man. but would you watch your beloved doing something that can harm them "just because they have the freedom to do it" ... if yes you are a hypocrite and evil. ...

We men don't have any authority over women in general. I can't tell a women . Go put some clothes on. I agree with you but you can't understand that men in general don't have authority over any women. If we told women what to do we would be insulted and looked down upon. We would also be regarded control freaks and abusive. So yes and no

 

[greyhound stone]

Better question would you kill your female relatives if they were sharmotas

No

 

[Xaruun]

Better question would you kill your female relatives if they were sharmotas

I’d stop associating with them.

 

[IstarZ]

not really walal... I feel sorry for Muslim thinking that kind of behaviour is normal... I pray for Allah guidance for us all... but recognising the problem is the first step to find the cure. ...

I don’t see the point of this thread. You see it as a problem but they don’t. They have a different way of life to us. This just seems like another thinly-veiled attempt at denigrating women.

Lets talk about the issues plaguing our own community and finding solutions to that.

 

[Netflix]

I’d stop associating with them.

Ok simple question if you had a step-dad would you be jealous of his relationship with your mom. Because this what this Hadith is talking about.

 

[__08]

I don’t see the point of this thread. You see it as a problem but they don’t. They have a different way of life to us. This just seems like another thinly-veiled attempt at denigrating women.

Lets talk about the issues plaguing our own community and finding solutions to that.

This ^

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

This problem is mainly affecting non-Muslim men, but slowly it will affect the Muslim world.... we have seen since the past 3 0r 4 years Muslim women on Instagram showings their beauty (thigh clothes, suggestive poses, heavy makeup) with more than a million followers (majority male followers) and their husband being proud of that independent wife.

 

[Amirah]

What always cringed me is when western girls specifically cadaans dress in their prom dresses that show off most of their chest, all of their back and/or it’s so short it’s can be worn as a blouse as their dads watch them come down the stairs to take picture of her and her prom date! Or when they wear a bikini in front their fathers, brothers, cousins! Or you see their wives go on date with them with half of her chest hanging out. It’s unbelievable! I legit get 2nd hand embarrassment! Idk how they can handle it smh

 

[__08]

This problem is mainly affecting non-Muslim men, but slowly it will affect the Muslim world.... we have seen since the past 3 0r 4 years Muslim women on Instagram showings their beauty (thigh clothes, suggestive poses, heavy makeup) with more than a million followers (majority male followers) and their husband being proud of that independent wife.

I kinda get your point. Like if your lady is sharing herself with millions of people it will feel less special or intimate.

 

[Netflix]

A pious Muslima shouldn't occupy her time by gossiping about strangers. Let Allah swt deal with them, you're basically backbiting while hiding behind the religion. It's not a good look ya ukhti.

Ok simple question if you had a step-dad would you be jealous of his relationship with your mom. Because this what this Hadith is talking about. Backwards so say the least.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

A pious Muslima shouldn't occupy her time by gossiping about strangers. Let Allah swt deal with them, you're basically backbiting while hiding behind the religion. It's not a good look ya ukhti.

I didn't name anybody... just shared a general kind of behaviour I observed. There is nothing vulgar about this thread but just advice or an important subject we could debate about.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

Ok simple question if you had a step-dad would you be jealous of his relationship with your mom. Because this what this Hadith is talking about. Backwards so say the least.

warya ... stop with this nonsense.... we are talking about protecting your beloved one from eventual harm, even if they will not understand or be against you at first....

 

[dr.leorio]

I always chuckle when a dayooths girl looks at me up and down like a chocolate bar right in front of him. Poor loser can't say anything to her so the most he does is stand in front of her to block her view. These modern gaalo chicks don't respect their men at all

 

[AbdiS]

As much as we hate on our people back home, we must admit that they're far less degenerate and mentally tougher than we are. They may seem like tribalistic morons, but at least they're not attending cross-dressing performances and can actually take a bullet when asked to.