The Dayyuthification of modern "man"

[Xaruun]

Maybe he doesn't conceptualize her as "his" women but it's just his turn

It's a good cope

Tbh even in a marriage it’s just your turn. Somali marriages especially.

 

[Juke]

Tbh even in a marriage it’s just your turn. Somali marriages especially.

Exactly, just enjoy your time

 

[Xaruun]

Exactly, just enjoy your time

No excuse to be a dayuus ofc. If she tries anything then my turn’s up I guess.

 

[Juke]

No excuse to be a dayuus ofc. If she tries anything then my turn’s up I guess.

If you can't handle their antics anymore just abandon for a new ting

 

[Patron]

This is all due to yahuud strategies

 

[elite1337]

This is all due to yahuud strategies

Yea and even yahuudis got more self respect than these clowns

 

[The alchemist]

Maybe he doesn't conceptualize her as "his" women but it's just his turn

It's a good cope

I mean, a change in perspective has always been the ultimate cope.

 

[3leven11]

What is this new trend of Somali men online trying to push foreign arab rural traditions on Somali women?

 

[Regg]

You see those white men online saying you have insecurities etc when those subject is brought up. Meanwhile, I’m looking at their GFs, wives and sisters legs, cleavages and ass and fantasizing what I can do to them in bed like 95% of the men do.

They’ve turned their women into nothing but sex objects.

Al humdulilah for Islam.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

What is this new trend of Somali men online trying to push foreign arab rural traditions on Somali women?

 

[Omar del Sur]

It's gossiping. Occupy your time in spreading the beauty of the relgion and leave people alone. They're not obviously Muslim.

Talking about the evils in society isn't gossiping.

 

[4head]

Being jealous is not a good thing. WTF

These zoo's don't understand that jealousy is a disease kk

 

[Ibrahim hassan]

This thread should show you how close is the dajaal.

 

[greenvegetables]

Can u understand modern men don't control women? They do as they wish and there men just play along to not anger them. It's normal in the culture women have freedom to do as they wish.

 

[greenvegetables]

We men don't have any authority over women in general. I can't tell a women . Go put some clothes on. I agree with you but you can't understand that men in general don't have authority over any women. If we told women what to do we would be insulted and looked down upon. We would also be regarded control freaks and abusive. So yes and no

Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all). [4:34]

 

[repo]

We men don't have any authority over women in general. I can't tell a women . Go put some clothes on. I agree with you but you can't understand that men in general don't have authority over any women. If we told women what to do we would be insulted and looked down upon. We would also be regarded control freaks and abusive. So yes and no

You definitely can have authority if you are married to her or head of your household. Otherwise you are moving soft.

 

[genousy]

Females raised in the west are bombarded with images of men worshipping the female body(objectification) in movies, music and media.


Those images are then reinforced in public when only provocatively dressed females get all the male(simps) attention.

Unless modern males like men of old don’t come to the realization, that a woman’s beauty is in her modesty, empathy and intelligence.

Rather than her sex appeal, things will only get worse thanks to simps. who ironically are most affected by the consequences.

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

well what you called dayyuth now a days is now a “gentleman” and someone who is not, is labeled as controlling of his women, misogynistic, and among other things. it’s sad that even somali women do this, if I were to tell my cousin to dress modestly the first ones in line to be jumping on me would be the somali girls around, their favorite quote is “mind your own buisness”.

You should let them come to that realization you can't enlighten people. A lot of the liberal feminism pushed by the media contributes to this because it tells women that it is their choice to dress provocatively but it's not really their choice because they do it to please the male gaze, whether or not they can admit it is up to them.

 

[KingSomali999]

You should let them come to that realization you can't enlighten people. A lot of the liberal feminism pushed by the media contributes to this because it tells women that it is their choice to dress provocatively but it's not really their choice because they do it to please the male gaze, whether or not they can admit it is up to them.

facts they always talking about “i do it for myself” that’s cap, it might even be 10% true but it’s not the whole truth

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

facts they always talking about “i do it for myself” that’s cap, it might even be 10% true but it’s not the whole truth

Yes and with the rise of social media the male gaze isn't internalised anymore it exists. Women now actively appeal to the male gaze for validation of their beauty both on and off social media.
It's really sad tho if people just realized this they wouldn't bash Islam so much