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[Desert Flower]

Truthfully I find Somali guys weird with money. They’re not penny pinchers or stingy, but some are a little tight. They all think we’re out here trying to finesse them lool.

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[Saredo]

I didn’t read everything but @Tameable Qumayo send me the potion.

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[NotMyL]

Which is why you don’t tell anyone who you’re dating until you’re engaged. And I wouldn’t ask him to pay for anyone except me. Too many leeches and free loaders in this world.

Speaking of engagement is it a new trend that people do mehr months/years before getting married? I keep seeing people do this nowadays, it wasn’t so common in our culture. You are basically just trying to get it on but can’t afford the house and wedding yet lol

 

[Nice]

Yeah I misunderstood her post, I thought she was saying her and her friends. She should ask him money for books and book it with the trip It seems like he just doesn’t like the idea of not being on trip he is paying for lol

Smart! I was thinking that too but didn’t wanna corrupt the poor girl.

Nayada stop talking about me as if I’m not here. Thats not the reason why he said no, and even if it was, it’s very logical and I would’ve respected it also.

 

[Desert Flower]

Speaking of engagement is it a new trend that people do mehr months/years before getting married? I keep seeing people do this nowadays, it wasn’t so common in our culture. You are basically just trying to get it on but can’t afford the house and wedding yet lol

Hmm, in my circle of friends no. Most get married and move with their husbands right away. I think that’s more of a reer UK thing.

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[Desert Flower]

Nayada stop talking about me as if I’m not here. Thats not the reason why he said no, and even if it was, it’s very logical and I would’ve respected it also.

Sis na caafi laakin we are tryna school you, nothing more. We want you to shine and get what you deserve.

 

[Nice]

Speaking of engagement is it a new trend that people do mehr months/years before getting married? I keep seeing people do this nowadays, it wasn’t so common in our culture. You are basically just trying to get it on but can’t afford the house and wedding yet lol

I have seen women have their weddings years after their meher, some even pregnant during the wedding.

 

[Helios]

I didn’t read everything but @Tameable Qumayo send me the potion.

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[NotMyL]

Nayada stop talking about me as if I’m not here. Thats not the reason why he said no, and even if it was, it’s very logical and I would’ve respected it also.

Lool I thought we were trying to help you out but it seems you are whipped lol anyways how much is the trip? If it’s more than 1500 iska daaf.

Hmm, in my circle of friends no. Most get married and move with their husbands right away. I think that’s more of a reer UK thing.

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Lol I have seen it here in MN too, where they get it on at their parents house, it’s just so not our culture. I would rather live in the ghetto in one bedroom than to do it at his parents house

 

[Molotoff]

Women need to stop obsessing with marriage and spending mens money.

 

[Lostbox]

Sis na caafi laakin we are tryna school you, nothing more. We want you to shine and get what you deserve.

Earlier you said this

Truthfully I find Somali guys weird with money. They’re not penny pinchers or stingy, but some are a little tight. They all think we’re out here trying to finesse them lool.


and you wonder why?

 

[Desert Flower]

Earlier you said this

Truthfully I find Somali guys weird with money. They’re not penny pinchers or stingy, but some are a little tight. They all think we’re out here trying to finesse them lool.


and you wonder why?

Who cares, what’s your point? They’re getting married, that’s her fiancé, she can ask for what she wants and deserves. I was speaking about specifically when two people are set to be married.

 

[Abdisamad]

Truthfully I find Somali guys weird with money. They’re not penny pinchers or stingy, but some are a little tight. They all think we’re out here trying to finesse them lool.

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[Nice]

Who cares, what’s your point? They’re getting married, that’s her fiancé, she can ask for what she wants and deserves. I was speaking about specifically when two people are set to be married.

my meher is in October due to his work and my school, so we are not really married or anything, we just act like it and I have known the guy for a very long time.

 

[Desert Flower]

my meher is in October due to his work and my school, so we are not really married or anything, we just act like it and I have known the guy for a very long time.

I’m very pragmatic and honestly I think you should keep your relationship to yourself until you guys are official. Believe me even sharing what you did on this forum can bring evil eye sister, wallahi I’m serious. Just keep your relationship on the low low. Flaunt it after you have your ring lool.

 

[Helios]

Don’t worry, she’ll learn.

I was talking about that to my mom and told her that over my dead body will I ever live with her while married. I can’t imagine the awkwardness. I wouldn’t look at my husband as a man because of his inability to provide us a place to live. I’d have resentment wallahi so I don’t know how these girls do it. Couldn’t be me.

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You gotta find a Farax that can provide and get both of you out of Toronto

 

[Lostbox]

Who cares, what’s your point. They’re getting married, that’s her fiancé, she can ask for what she wants and deserves.

Only problem is his her access. Don't get why anyone would choose to restrict their livelihood like that

 

[Helios]

I thought I did? Remember the job you had with @astorecalledkmart??? Looool

Maybe

 

[Desert Flower]

Maybe

I’m disappointed in you. I thought you had my back.

 

[Nice]

I’m very pragmatic and honestly I think you should keep your relationship to yourself until you guys are official. Believe me even sharing what you did on this forum can bring evil eye sister, wallahi I’m serious. Just keep your relationship on the low low. Flaunt it after you have your ring lool.

thanks walaal, I will keep my mouth shut from now on.