Thoughts on my husband requirements?

[DojaKhat]

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Perfectly reasonable list. Strong standards but not weirdly picky like "Must be 6 foot 4!"

Just adjust the "no second wife" to "no additional wife" so he doesn't get any ideas...

 

[Basra]

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Too much demand. And by the way- u dont need protection. Your tom boy a$$ is enuf

 

[Nin123]

She said “well mannered/kind hearted” you don’t fit that

This nin123 is only real in Somalispot but Yusuf is completely different man. His well mannered and kind man.

 

[onEdge]

Reasonable. I personally advise you to ask Allah to choose for you.

 

[Bari]

Pretty reasonable

 

[Hmohamed54]

Why does he need to have a degree?

 

[Omar del Sur]

very reasonable list, masha'Allah.


I urge everyone reading to make dua that Allah grants OP a spouse who is the coolness of her eyes (or any dua to ask Allah to bless her with a spouse she is happy with)- insha'Allah Allah will bless you as well

Abu Darda reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “No Muslim servant supplicates for his brother behind his back but that the angel says: And for you the same.”

-Saheeh Muslim

 

[Wervelwind]

Surprisingly reasonable

You don't want him to be goodlooking? Funny? Social etc etc

 

[cow]

What does "wants to get married for the sake of allah"

Even mean? Can you expand on that.

 

[Aseer]

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damn thats actually really good I was expecting pink g wagon, large mehr and so much other BS but these requirements are good I mean the only thing is the degree part are you fine with him being in a trades job as long as its stable or is degree a strict requirement?

 

[Aseer]

Just adjust the "no second wife" to "no additional wife" so he doesn't get any ideas...

we got a halimology legal advisor here

 

[Gacmeey]

What’s with the degree thing tho? My mate is a sparky and makes ton of money and the dude dropped out year 10

 

[Rayaale]

Not bad

write Ogaden. As one of the requirements too
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What makes Ogs tall I’ve never seen one under 5’10 are they proto-Somalis

 

[Rayaale]

Why coastal city

My list is basically yours but he can’t be younger than me .

Wedding is NOT optional

He has to come from a coastal city or town

 

[Rayaale]

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Perfectly reasonable list. Strong standards but not weirdly picky like "Must be 6 foot 4!"

Just adjust the "no second wife" to "no additional wife" so he doesn't get any ideas...

6’4 is damn tall you want some geeljire genes

 

[Homerlilian]

What makes Ogs tall I’ve never seen one under 5’10 are they proto-Somalis

pretty much just diet, environment and genetics . A lot of the men are jealous of Ogaden beauty so they spread rumours that the men are abusive .

 

[Wonyluvr]

Why coastal city

I like the beach

 

[Rayaale]

I’ve heard the rumors of Ogs been abusive to their spouses but it’s not true most of the times

pretty much just diet, environment and genetics . A lot of the men are jealous of Ogaden beauty so they spread rumours that the men are abusive .

 

[Homerlilian]

I’ve heard the rumors of Ogs been abusive to their spouses but it’s not true most of the times

Yeah jealousy saxiib

 

[Bari]

pretty much just diet, environment and genetics . A lot of the men are jealous of Ogaden beauty so they spread rumours that the men are abusive .

waxasuu dumar uun baan ka maqlay, never heard a nigga say that laaakin have heard several women