To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?

[Lum]

Haye

Akhi, fear Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala). We should not insult one another.

 

[Xaruun]

Akhi, fear Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta’ala). We should not insult one another.

He literally said ‘okey dokey’???

 

[Lum]

he is right. You only converted to get a submissive Muslim women under your control hence why you’re here.

Any proof?

«As the poet said; ‘My enemy to bite me is more beloved than harming with his tongue, since teeth marks eventually fade away but how would I remove what has entered the hearts of people!’.

Some of these tale-carriers may be a friend or family member; some may be oblivious of this trial that Allah has tested them with. They are oblivious to what they are doing. So when you encounter such people, advise them, maybe Allah will save them by way of you, otherwise stay away and save your community.»

Source:
http://dusunnah.com/article/pay-att...re-more-worse-than-magicians-in-some-aspects/

 

[Omar del Sur]

he is right. You only converted to get a submissive Muslim women under your control hence why you’re here.

I invite any woman here who has any DMs from me to post them. I'm not DMing any women on here. I think it would be haraam for me to DM the opposite sex on here.

As for your claim, it is a lie. If I was just following my desires, my life would be very, very different.

 

[Muji]

I invite any woman here who has any DMs from me to post them. I'm not DMing any women on here. I think it would be haraam for me to DM the opposite sex on here.

As for your claim, it is a lie. If I was just following my desires, my life would be very, very different.

I’m not surprised that the women are repulsed by you and wouldn’t want to dm you.

You’re a disgusting sexist pig who advises men to rape their wives and leave their wives who have recently given birth. I wonder what attracted you to Islam, did you think it encourages and allows misogyny? Do you think Islam allows men to treat women like objects as you describe. Nasty man with mother issues. Did mommy not give you enough attention growing up?

 

[Hodan from HR]

That's not the issue for me sahib. I am tired shattered and exhausted after a long day job. But when i come home, sometimes i won't eat until late at night just so i can give her a break. I will be feeding the child, changing nappies and playing with him as she sleeps for a few hours. No issues there.

The issue is just the mindset of complaining. If the child is awake all night, that makes both of us awake. And by the time he goes to bed i would have couple of hours of sleep before i need to leave the house. But i am like shit happens let's roll with it. Maynot have slept but i am grateful i gotta a beautiful kid.

And she though she aint gonna work she is complaining about not having enough sleep. Like c'mon now. I am in the same boat. You are at home, i gotta survive 10 hours of mayhem outside.
I just want her to be grateful and take things into perspective

The suggestions everyone gave you is on point so far. I'll just add my two cents.

Maybe help each other in your spirituality if the problem does not seem physical or psychological.

Do something to remind yourselves the importance gratitude like watching an islamic lecture together about the virtue of shukr. She might not even realize she is complaining too much.

 

[Omar del Sur]

I’m not surprised that the women are repulsed by you and wouldn’t want to dm you.

You’re a disgusting sexist pig who advises men to rape their wives and leave their wives who have recently given birth. I wonder what attracted you to Islam, did you think it encourages and allows misogyny? Do you think Islam allows men to treat women like objects as you describe. Nasty man with mother issues. Did mommy not give you enough attention growing up?

Yes, this is the kind of thing that the radical feminists say if you don't share their views. "You're a horrible, evil, sexist pig!" and all sorts of hyperbolic claims.

 

[Inquisitive_]

The only male comment concerned for the wife, that is, after he told him to pretend he was marrying a second wife and mentions 4s. That’s the closest/best we get on here

I’m not so impressed, but at least it’s somewhat humanized, unlike the others.

I never said any of those things, that's your own false interpretation of it.

I disagree.
This man reffered to me a 'pump and dump' feminist after my thread yesterday.
I haven't slept well xaleey


@Inquisitive_ I was waiting for you to make a misognistic or obese halimo post today.
I promise to qashim rate you whenever you post an inappropriate comment.

Na heedhe iska key cafi.

I was attacking an idealogy and mindset not a person

Im sorry you feel that way

@Inquisitive_ that was harsh.

It was a general statement laakin islaanta il kuluul bey lehdahay, darteed ban u jabay xalay

 

[Hodan from HR]

Na heedhe iska key cafi.

I was attacking an idealogy and mindset not a person


It was a general statement laakin islaanta il kuluul bey lehdahay, darteed ban u jabay xalay

loool I'm lowkey happy.

Waan ku cafiye walaal

 

[blade99]

EAT HeR OUT GOOD AND SHE WILL CALM DOWN YOU MUST EAT THE PUSSY MY BROTHERS