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if u wanna get married, first u have to stop being so obsessed about it

 

[Yibir_]

if u wanna get married, first u have to stop being so obsessed about it

Thoughts are not a driving force of reality but merely a by-product of external impressions, ceasing obsessive thoughts over a goal gives the perception of it coming sooner than it actually is, that is if it even comes about at all. The only benefit to being aloof is that it frees up considerable mental bandwidth, allowing for greater focus which can be used in pursuit of said goal.

Your statement reeks of apathy, there are no shortcuts and certainly no ease without employing maximal effort and even then the trials morph and take other forms. Do you want an easy life or a good life?