what age would you put the hijab on for your daughters inshallah?

[Saredo]

Agree that's why communication is the best.

yes exactly

that's the fathers fault he should not let her use the phone

ok

 

[Cyrus]

6?? too young .

The problem with this and I have explained it many times on sspot, is that the hijab is so much more than hiding your hair. It's better to teach them the deen and akhlaq and when they reach puberty they can wear the hijab. Otherwise it becomes a uniform. How many hijabis are twerking on insta while wearing it ? It has lost its meaning because parents don't explain properly or they don't wait till the girl is mature enough. And you have no guarantee that she will remove it one day. It's better to teach them the basis, work on the fundamentals of the deen, show them the beauty of islam and the rest will follow.

Im sorry but that seems like a big big excuse and failure. What if they dont wear hijab by the time they reach puberty after you have taught them the basic of the deen akhlaq etc?? The responsibility on yawmul qiyama is on me as her father sxb. You can teach them basics while they wear the hijab- its not one or the other. Btw, its funny how ppl nowadays seem to trivialise the hijab a piece of garment you have to be 'ready' to wear while conveniently dismissing the fact thats its fardh.

I know many non hijabs who twerk on lives than hijabis who do so- that excuse is possibly the worst i have seen been regurgitated on social platforms these days. 'Hijabis twerk and around so they arent all perfect and non hijabis are pure and pray 5 times a day blablabla'. Its a coping mechanism used by non hijabis who are actually guilty of what they accuse hijabis of doing to make themsleves feel better about their haram lifestyle.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Im sorry but that seems like a big big excuse and failure. What if they dont wear hijab by the time they reach puberty after you have taught them the basic of the deen akhlaq etc?? The responsibility on yawmul qiyama is on me as her father sxb. You can teach them basics while they wear the hijab- its not one or the other. Btw, its funny how ppl nowadays seem to trivialise the hijab a piece of garment you have to be 'ready' to wear while conveniently dismissing the fact thats its fardh.

I know many non hijabs who twerk on lives than hijabis who do so- that excuse is possibly the worst i have seen been regurgitated on social platforms these days. 'Hijabis twerk and **** around so they arent all perfect and non hijabis are pure and pray 5 times a day blablabla'. Its a coping mechanism used by non hijabis who are actually guilty of what they accuse hijabis of doing to make themsleves feel better about their haram lifestyle.

Akhi maybe I should make her wear the hijab at early age? This is so hard man!

 

[Saredo]

Im sorry but that seems like a big big excuse and failure. What if they dont wear hijab by the time they reach puberty after you have taught them the basic of the deen akhlaq etc?? The responsibility on yawmul qiyama is on me as her father sxb. You can teach them basics while they wear the hijab- its not one or the other. Btw, its funny how ppl nowadays seem to trivialise the hijab a piece of garment you have to be 'ready' to wear while conveniently dismissing the fact thats its fardh.

I know many non hijabs who twerk on lives than hijabis who do so- that excuse is possibly the worst i have seen been regurgitated on social platforms these days. 'Hijabis twerk and **** around so they arent all perfect and non hijabis are pure and pray 5 times a day blablabla'. Its a coping mechanism used by non hijabis who are actually guilty of what they accuse hijabis of doing to make themsleves feel better about their haram lifestyle.

Allah SWT said when they reach puberty. which means when she has her first period. I didn't invent it.

 

[Samaalic Era]

I personally want my daughter to wear it early on so she can acclimatize to it and it can be second nature to her by the time she goes to school. I see many girls on twitter who dont wear hijabs use 'im struggling with it' as an esxcuse to get sympathy points & likes so ideally would want to avoid such a s scenario. An ideal age for me to start putting the hijab on for my daughters insahllah is around 6/7 years old as anything younger than that is weird.

Answer honestly and keep this discussion civil and to the topic pls

When she is 5 and I will marry her off to my nephew when she is 15 just like the sahaba Masha'Allah

 

[Warlaabe]

@CaliTedesse what are you gonna do if she doesn't want to wear it ma indhahaa ku dhufan or become a dayuus

 

[Dino]

You cannot enforce the hijab on your daughters,

Actually we can......

 

[Cyrus]

You cannot enforce the hijab on your daughters, that’s not how it works huuno. That‘s something a girl should decide and choose for herself cuz only then she will truly wear the hijab and honor it. She shouldn’t wear it to please her parents and the muslim society. She should wear out of love for Allah swt and with conviction. Otherwise it‘s meaningless and the hijab will slip (turban style) and eventually she will take it off. Happens a lot. I grew up never wearing the hijab and decided to put it on in my late teens. Best decision of my life and it’s still properly on alhamdulillah. What you can do is convince your daughters and put the love of Allah in their hearts.

My house my rules sxb- in my house we follow the quran and sunnah to the T as the way of the Salaf. No 'choosing and deciding' bs. I have seen many girls who dont wear the hijab come on twitter and act like they are struggling with it to get a few likes and RTs and then posting a non hijab pics a few hours later. Over my dead body is that happening with my daughters

 

[CaliTedesse]

@CaliTedesse what are you gonna do if she doesn't want to wear it ma indhahaa ku dhufan or you become a dayuus

My dream is to raise them in a Muslim country akhi. So I can dirbaax them without law getting in my way.

 

[Warlaabe]

When she is 5 and I will marry her off to my nephew when she is 15 just like the sahaba Masha'Allah

exactly so that she doesn't even have a chance to think about zina child marriage is a blessing in disguise

 

[Cyrus]

Allah SWT said when they reach puberty. which means when she has her first period. I didn't invent it.

Allah tells us to inform our daughters, wives and mothers to be modest and wear the hijab. The understanding within the shafi school is that you should put on the hijab for your daughters as early as possible so that they accilimatize to it.

Hijab is a fardh and is ordained by Allah in the quran their is no running away from that

 

[Cyrus]

When she is 5 and I will marry her off to my nephew when she is 15 just like the sahaba Masha'Allah

Mash'Allah akhi, follwing the ways of the Salaf. May Allah bless you with chaste and modest daughters

 

[Saredo]

Allah tells us to inform our daughters, wives and mothers to be modest and wear the hijab. The understanding within the shafi school is that you should put on the hijab for your daughters as early as possible so that they accilimatize to it.

Hijab is a fardh and is ordained by Allah in the quran their is no running away from that

I agree with what you say, you should inform and teach. I don't agree with putting it that early.

 

[Xasusi]

Should I give my children the option to pray? What about the option to eat pork?

 

[Helios]

@Cyrus can you put a no clue option?

 

[Samaalic Era]

exactly so that she doesn't even have a chance to think about zina child marriage is a blessing in disguise

Zina only becomes prevalent when marriage is delayed or made difficult. It is the responsibility of the father to find a good husband for his daughter. The sahaba would find husbands for their daughters such as Umar RA when his Daughter Hafsa became a widow

Early marriage is a blessing and would protect your women from Zina

 

[Ayaanle__]

Not too early maybe a year or two before she has to but the thing is girls start puberty at different times so it’s difficult to guess.

As long as you tell her the benefits of the hijab and the deen I don’t think it’ll be a big step for her hopefully.

 

[karkaar]

around 13(when she comes of age),and I wont impose it.I'll ask her if she wants to wear it, if she doesn't its her choice

 

[Cyrus]

Should I give my children the option to pray? What about the option to eat pork?

Exactly akhi, they try to forge that Hijab is wajib just as is not eating pork, alcohol etc

 

[BetterDaysAhead]

That’s for her to decide if she wants to wear it