what age would you put the hijab on for your daughters inshallah?

[Samaalic Era]

Mash'Allah akhi, follwing the ways of the Salaf. May Allah bless you with chaste and modest daughters

Ameen, may Allah swt bless you with chaste and pious daughters aswell

We can no longer follow the elder Somali cuck way. They let loose their women and have no gheerah

 

[Xasusi]

My son can decide if he wants to be a girl.

 

[Cyrus]

@Cyrus can you put a no clue option?

Its too late to edit bro hahaha, maybe just say you have no clue idk

 

[Faahiye]

I personally want my daughter to wear it early on so she can acclimatize to it and it can be second nature to her by the time she goes to school. I see many girls on twitter who dont wear hijabs use 'im struggling with it' as an esxcuse to get sympathy points & likes so ideally would want to avoid such a s scenario. An ideal age for me to start putting the hijab on for my daughters insahllah is around 6/7 years old as anything younger than that is weird.

Answer honestly and keep this discussion civil and to the topic pls

@Cyrus,

Probably when she's 6 or 7 so she gets used to it.


Best,

Faahiye

 

[Cyrus]

Ameen, may Allah swt bless you with chaste and pious daughters aswell

We can no longer follow the elder Somali cuck way. They let loose their women and have no gheerah

You never really see such things with Arab/Paki/Bengali women akhi, because they know how to have gheerah for their women whereas somali dayuusin let their womenfolk free where they bring all sorts of garacs at home. Its reached the point where Somali dayuusin celebrate and brag about the kufr marriage between the likes of Idris and Sabrina, Ilhan and her Jewish husband and now Halssa. You will never see other communites take pride in their dayuusnimo

 

[Cyrus]

@Cyrus,

Probably when she's 6 or 7 so she gets used to it.


Best,

Faahiye

Ma Ugaadhyahan bad tahay?

 

[karkaar]

My house my rules sxb- in my house we follow the quran and sunnah to the T as the way of the Salaf. No 'choosing and deciding' bs. I have seen many girls who dont wear the hijab come on twitter and act like they are struggling with it to get a few likes and RTs and then posting a non hijab pics a few hours later. Over my dead body is that happening with my daughters

Strict parents create sneaky kids.No matter how well you raise them, they are bound to get into a mish especially in the west.The keys is to create an environment where they aren't scared to tell you what's going on and how they fucked up.Living like a full blown Salafi will in most cases make your kids uncomfortable to approach you with certain issues they are facing.

 

[Cyrus]

Strict parents create

Strict parents create kids.No matter how well you raise them, they are bound to get into a mish especially in the west.The keys is to create an environment where they aren't scared to tell you what's going on and how they fucked up.Living like a full blown Salafi will in most cases make your kids uncomfortable to approach you with certain issues they are facing.

So is having a laissez faire approach to parenting sxb, infact ur almost guaranteed having degenrate/dysfunctional kids if you let them run loose with no religous grounding. Whats next you give your children a choice in whether or nor they can drink, smoke, eat bacon etc and ay you wont force them to change their ways??

I dont plan on raising them here anyways, we will move to Carabaha inshallah

 

[Faahiye]

Ma Ugaadhyahan bad tahay?

@Cyrus,

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Best,

Faahiye

 

[karkaar]

So is having a laissez faire approach to parenting sxb, infact ur almost guaranteed having degenrate/dysfunctional kids if you let them run loose with no religous grounding. Whats next you give your children a choice in whether or nor they can drink, smoke, eat bacon etc and ay you wont force them to change their ways??

I dont plan on raising them here anyways, we will move to Carabaha inshallah

fair but firm,'ll obviously set up ground rules, but im not super religious myself so I'll give them some flexibility.

 

[Cyrus]

fair but firm,'ll obviously set up ground rules, but im not super religious myself so I'll give them some flexibility.

what if they were to trangress on these 'ground rules'? Would you give them a slap on the wrist or rethink your approach to parenting?


Like your daughter bringing a boyfriend home when she is 15 etc

 

[karkaar]

what if they were to trangress on these 'ground rules'? Would you give them a slap on the wrist or rethink your approach to parenting?


Like your daughter bringing a boyfriend home when she is 15 etc

Thats when the firmness kicks in I will use everything in my power to prevent myself from being a dayuus

 

[Jungle]

It all depends on the mother and what example she sets for her dsughter when it comes to things like this. If the mother is in public with her skin out, hair out then you know what to expect.

I think alot of these girls out here saw their mums aunts etc dressin sleazy, twerkin on wedding and houseparty vhs tapes from the 90s think imma do the same while im young

 

[CaliTedesse]

Guys can people here recommend me Muslim countries

 

[Xasusi]

Guys can people here recommend me Muslim countries

Gulf but you need money and you need to expose to the west so that they don't idealise it.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Gulf but you need money and you need to expose to the west so that they don't idealise it.

Bro it's so hard man smh.

 

[AishaBarri]

Coercing you’re daughters is never a good idea especially when you’re living in an environment where wearing hijab is not the norm. My dad tried forcing me in my early teens but I threw it off the second I had a chance and haven’t worn it to date. Honestly teaching kids deen (without violent or dictatorial methods ) is the better option then she can understand the importance.

 

[Cyrus]

Guys can people here recommend me Muslim countries

UAE, Saudi Arabia, Qatar, Kuwait all enforce sharia and are the closest countries in adjucating according to full and total islamic law. These countries are also very lenient on income tax and in places like Dubai their isnt even any Income tax whereas in Saudi you only pay 5% tax to the government. Women are beautiful and you dont have to worry about haram food at all.

 

[Farabuuto]

You cannot enforce the hijab on your daughters, that’s not how it works huuno. That‘s something a girl should decide and choose for herself cuz only then she will truly wear the hijab and honor it. She shouldn’t wear it to please her parents and the muslim society. She should wear out of love for Allah swt and with conviction. Otherwise it‘s meaningless and the hijab will slip (turban style) and eventually she will take it off. Happens a lot. I grew up never wearing the hijab and decided to put it on in my late teens. Best decision of my life and it’s still properly on alhamdulillah. What you can do is convince your daughters and put the love of Allah in their hearts.

shush

 

[Cyrus]

Coercing you’re daughters is never a good idea especially when you’re living in an environment where wearing hijab is not the norm. My dad tried forcing me in my early teens but I threw it off the second I had a chance and haven’t worn it to date. Honestly teaching kids deen (without violent or dictatorial methods ) is the better option then she can understand the importance.

well you are now a khasaaro who shameleslly brags about tossing away something Allah made fardg upon her let alone sneakdissing your dad showcasing your caasinimo. May the most high protect us from having daughters like you ameen