What do you think?

[Toriye]

That is wrong Would you want your daughter to treated that way or your sisters
My honest option I would never marry my daughter to A Man that has mindset as your father
No hate

Bro, you need to beat it with that western mentality. This is caado somali iyo dhaqan

 

[Shmurda]

I don't think she would be comfortable. She has never had kids now she is marrying a man who already has a wife and 8 kids. That's a lot to handle.


30? Ma sha Allah. How many wives did aabo have?


We want to hear it.

Her marriage is destined to fail because she may like the man for who he is but still deep down she is using him for his money and she is facing pressure from her parents to get married

The man is also to blame because his 1st wife is getting less appealing to him so he wants to get a 2nd one so he can add some spice to his sex life I also suspect that he tried to get younger women than 28 but that failed for whatever reason

 

[Basra]

What should she do? I was thinking it could work and doesn't seem that bad till I read 8 children subhanallah. ABORT
You are going to be the first wife's personal slave. You also might as well never have kids because YOU now already have 8.

She is a 28 educated & Stupid.

 

[haqiiiiiin]

Bro, you need to beat it with that western mentality. This is caado somali iyo dhaqan

That goes against islam males that divorse woman so eazily and quick are not fit for marriage

 

[a y a n]

she is 28 and educated?
either she’s really ugly or is slow asf
she could easily find someone better

 

[Medulla]

It's on her if she wants to but I don't see the attraction aside from money. The allure of lacag is actually insane the things people are willing to overlook over some paper smh . He has 8 kids and is NGO worker the latter is a bigger sin but regardless what kind love is she in?

It actually works. Once a woman has your kids, she is yours forever unless she wants to be garoob with baggage. Once she realizes this she will make sure to please her xaaji. Our somali dhaqan is really wonderful walahi.

That sounds like emotional blackmail LOL

 

[Basra]

she is 28 and educated?
either she’s really ugly or is slow asf
she could easily find someone better

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

She should just swallow her pride and marry him

She's not 20 anymore

 

[tima]

Her marriage is destined to fail because she may like the man for who he is but still deep down she is using him for his money and she is facing pressure from her parents to get married

The man is also to blame because his 1st wife is getting less appealing to him so he wants to get a 2nd one so he can add some spice to his sex life I also suspect that he tried to get younger women than 28 but that failed for whatever reason

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[haqiiiiiin]

She should just swallow her pride and marry him

She's not 20 anymore

Nah she shouldn't a

 

[Toriye]

That goes against islam males that divorse woman so eazily and quick are not fit for marriage

Not easily but if she is constant buuq there is no choice.

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

Nah she shouldn't a

If she can find better then by all means.

But she should get married and have kids quick before 30.

 

[tima]

It's on her if she wants to but I don't see the attraction aside from money. The allure of lacag is actually insane the things people are willing to overlook over some paper smh . He has 8 kids and is NGO worker the latter is a bigger sin but regardless what kind love is she in?



That sounds like emotional blackmail LOL

Exactly and what ever love she had is going to slowly dissipate when she's raising 8 kids that aren't hers and the wife is abusing her

She should just swallow her pride and marry him

She's not 20 anymore

She's only 28 lol that's not old.

 

[Basra]

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If I were her, I would marry him, & have two kids. Give birth in the west. Get papers and go back every summer to make babies.

I would hire maids and baby sitters from Somalia too.


But she is stupid to ask this question.


I love him kulaha. That statement made me think she is stupid.


There is no such thing as "Love"


Lets get together, what do u bring to the table? That is what she should ask. Use his richness

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

Exactly and what ever love she had is going to slowly dissipate when she's raising 8 kids that aren't hers and the wife is abusing her

She's only 28 lol that's not old.

In Faarax minds she's not 28 she's 48.

She's already 3 years too late sis lol.

 

[haqiiiiiin]

Not easily but if she is constant buuq there is no choice.

Buuq is not the reason to divorse her unless she is Hurting him physicial or if she abuse him

 

[Toriye]

That sounds like emotional blackmail LOL

It is not blackmailing women just realize the consequences haday reerkooda burburiyan

 

[Al-Burcaawi]

Buuq is not the reason to divorse her unless she is Hurting him physicial or if she abuse him

Constant buuq is valid grounds for a divorce if they can't stop it.

 

[tima]

If I were her, I would marry him, & have two kids. Give birth in the west. Get papers and go back every summer to make babies.

I would hire maids and baby sitters from Somalia too.


But she is stupid to ask this question.


I love him kulaha. That statement made me think she is stupid.


There is no such thing as "Love"


Lets get together, what do u bring to the table? That is what she should ask. Use his richness

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[haqiiiiiin]

Constant buuq is valid grounds for a divorce if they can't stop it.

If so same goes For the man if he buuq to much divorce