There's ayahs in the Qur'an that can heal that.
Nope.
I would be secretly happy knowing I can have something something anytime I want without worrying about her being pregnant.
Mashallah thats amazing it shows how strong their imaan is some couples that struggle to conceive usually family start telling the couple to get a divorce and marry someone elseAn uncle and aunt of mine didn't have their twin daughters until they were both pushing 50 or so. Was some surprising as f*ck shit for the whole family but god bless them both for standing by each other for decades of having trouble conceiving before that.
Warya, anyone can and spread their seed. You can still impart your will and your ways and the fruits of your labor to the next generation. Niggas and niggettes could be talking about you and your teachings and exploits and the love you showed them for generations, maybe a thousand years after you're dead. Leave a mark on the world, abowe. A good one. It doesn't have to be passing on your Y-DNA even though that'd be ideal.
Mashallah thats amazing it shows how strong their imaan is some couples that struggle to conceive usually family start telling the couple to get a divorce and marry someone else
I have another uncle who has been married to his wife for like 20-30 years or so now. Very loving and devoted but still no children even though they have wanted to conceive from what I know. Some people have some extremely admirable imaan and loyalty, wallahi. Personally I would have at least broached the subject of adoption after a while (lots of Somali orphans or relatives with one too many kids around) but god bless them.
Wdym?how can you adopt your nephew/neice
It’s like the first response to any hardship is to get a second wife “by any means necessary.” Somali men never fail to amuse me.Why would you get a second wife if you're impotent? Isn't that just redundant?
It’s prob because they actually love each other and married for that reason, rather than just to have a bunch of kids that neither are equipped to handle (a shocker, I know).I have another uncle who has been married to his wife for like 20-30 years or so now. Very loving and devoted but still no children even though they have wanted to conceive from what I know. Some people have some extremely admirable imaan and loyalty, wallahi. Personally I would have at least broached the subject of adoption after a while (lots of Somali orphans or relatives with one too many kids around) but god bless them.
It’s all about imageSecond wife ? What is the purpose when you know your ass can’t reproduce ? Unless you want the whole community to know you are infertile
Adoption is the only option
You are the problem if you get two wives and no kids. Your image is ruined regardless of how you spin itIt’s all about image
If your shooting blanks you don’t want anyone else to know so she gotta take the fall
She got fertility issues not you so you marry a second wife...
The nerveIf I was impotent, I would give my wife the choice to divorce me or stay.
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It’s prob because they actually love each other and married for that reason, rather than just to have a bunch of kids that neither are equipped to handle (a shocker, I know).
I was talking about Somali couples, not ajanabis or gaalos. At least with non Somalis, they’re more likely to stay together because it’s the love that’s holding them together. Forget kids, they usually never divorce if kids are in the picture and would rather thug it out until the kids are at least past 18.Well... Duh, abaayo. Not a shocker at all. But yeah, genuine love or no, even many gaalo couples who married for love eventually end up with a strained and failing relationship without kids in the picture so god bless them and their loyalty and imaan either way.