what if you become impotent or have fertility issues

[Shimbiris]

I was talking about Somali couples, not ajanabis or gaalos. At least with non Somalis, they’re more likely to stay together because it’s the love that’s holding them together. Forget kids, they usually never divorce if kids are in the picture and would rather thug it out until the kids are at least past 18.

Yes, but I was talking about how even people who marry for love (in general) can end up leaving each other if kids aren't in the picture for a long time, many gaalo included as just a side note. So kudos to them for the loyalty and imaan.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

i don't like how the attention shifts to the kid after marriage, call me immature/selfish or whatever, this is facts. If wifey wants to have a kid she needs to guarantee the attention i get does not diminish in anyway or its a no.
Fullstop.