Looks like a deeper lying issue here when you infer it!
What the F moment
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Unfortunately this mindset is what @Inquisitive_ warned about, thats western xalimoz for u folks.
Maybe your father wants to behave less like a tom boy. Go paint your nails today.
Muji
VIP
Same thing women from Somalia do. At least this way you won’t be used for a passport.
Western halimas are bae
Halimas back home are bassbort bandits
Halimas back home are bassbort bandits
If you feel suffocated by your family, then find freedom within your heart. No need to rebel against them on the surface, just be free on the inside. Meaning your inner being.
I thought the post mentioned how the father did not know his friend was doing that. It would be difficult to imagine a father accepting someone of his own family doing that much less than him accepting someone outside the family watching on the family network.
Your question about how common is it among Somalis to watch on other people's home networks, I don't know and I never think about Somalis to be of one mind(except clan) and of one person. It is like asking how common this would be among Americans and Australians. The question presupposes Somalis do the same thing always. People think like this when they are prejudiced against certain folk and they put a blanket judgement on them whereas they afford themselves the benefit of the doubt as an individual. White bigoted people commonly engage in this hypocrisy where a white man's misdeeds are confined to the white dude committing the offenses but a black person's failures reflect on all Africans.
I wouldn't say all diaspora born and raised Somali females think that way. A female has to be angry and past certain age to think like that. The ones I encountered who thought like that were usually above 30 in age and single. The type you feel bad for and pretend you are interested with that fake smile and wink. It is nice to be charitable to them poor ladies. Keep that in mind.
I used to make fun of @Inquisitive_ but wllahi the shit he used to say is actually turning to be true from what I can see in my life. sbx.
Nope my wife doesnt even want one gaalada wey ka faantay thats why I love her.
Alright then that’s girls off the list. Chase the money ‘till I die!!!
Timo Jareer and proud
2nd Emir of the Akh Right Movement
You done enough explaining replying to me at 1 am Miss Sleep deprived.
@ZakWantsToPlay
The white “Boogeyman”!!!
In Toronto, Somalis are 1% of the population and yet, 20% of homicide are among Somali men. In London and Minneapolis, Somali men are butchering one another like no other ethnic group. In all these crisis of biblical proportions, we are obsessed with the length of a skirt of a Halima and who she marries. These “evil white men” are destroying us.
You have a point in the sense we must lay the blame on the offending party. With that said, it is true you as a Somali male are judged similarly to the criminals whose ethnicity you share even though you are not affliated with gangs. No religion teaches collective guilt. That is the hypocrisy I pointed out. Why are there anti discrimination laws in America you think? Innocent people were being denied the right to dignity.
As far as being obsessed with who some Somali women choose to marry, it is unique to this website and on Twitter.
Most somalis back home have very low opinion of us in the west much less worry about who is having sex with a halimo. They are too proud to care about triviality.
I understand where you’re coming from, it’s frustrating. Where can I relax if not at my home. Instead, I have to worry about how sexually provocative my body is. For me it’s not my father that’s constantly telling me to cover up, it’s my mother. No, I’m not talking about wearing booty shorts at home but instead maybe sweatpants or tights with a long t-shirt. I fail to see what is so sexually provocative about my body. I don’t see why I have to cover up in front of every man that exists whether that be my uncle who lived with us for years to my dad. They can keep their eyes off my body. There’s also a problem with me sleeping over at my cousins house, the cousins I’ve played with since I was a kid because of my male cousin. She was telling me to cover up in front of the kid I considered to be a little brother. I understand that she doesn’t mean it from a bad place, but it doesn’t make it any less annoying. She’s just trying to protect me but doesn’t understand that she’s making me uncomfortable. Try to see where he might be coming from, he probably isn’t coming from a bad place. Wow, I treat this place like my diary.
According to the shafi'i madhhab, a mahram's privates are whats between the naval and the knees. The females can essentially be kumbaya shirtless in the house. But anything between the naval and knees is indecent and the father has an obligation to tell her to wear looser fitting pants.
All fun and games till he starts domestic violence.
I am just guessing here but. It sounds like your fuuto was looking waayn in those pants and it got your abo horny so instead of reflecting about it he tells you dress more modestly in is home.
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