All of them needed some ass beating with no guns involved. I once had man at work approach me like that I backed up like a scared puppy he noticed himself and backed off from and went back to his car. I think some people don't know how confrontation they are to others however these neighbors were intimidating each other on purpose.
Not being confrontational is the best way to go. They immediately see their own reflection in the mirror if u do not engage. I sometimes smile, and say ,, i am sorry, u r so adorable.
They look at me and say u r fcuking crazy
and i look back and say -- u got that right honey bunny