When your parents grow old, will they move in with you?

[Someone]

AUN. What age was that?

98

 

[Hilaac]

If home is where the heart is, then my parents owned it first and will always do so Inshallah khayr.

 

[Malcolm X]

It's in my list of questions to ask potential spouse.

Say no to living with my parents is saying no to marriage

 

[Jjero]

yes

 

[Haggiss]

Ayeyos are like a second hoyo. Their love for a grandchild is second to none. I'm glad both of my ayeyos had a role in my upbringing.

 

[Steamdevolopment]

This will be a first marriage question.

Anything but a yes is disqualification

 

[Nural Aiyn]

My mom is still young she can take care of my dad for the next 30yrs coming insha allah ...and I will always be there to help with whatever else

But I can tell you I'm not sharing a house with my future evil mother-in-law......

 

[YoungFarah]

98

AUN Mashallah she had a long life.

 

[paramedic]

What if it's your mother in law who clearly despises you but dotes on your spouse and kids?

 

[YoungFarah]

My mom is still young she can take care of my dad for the next 30yrs coming insha allah ...and I will always be there to help with whatever else

But I can tell you I'm not sharing a house with my future evil mother-in-law......

Naayaa ceeb iskuxishoo

 

[Someone]

What if it's your mother in law who clearly despises you but dotes on your spouse and kids?

I'd just have to get used to her

 

[YoungFarah]

I'd just have to get used to her

She'll be like a second mother anyways unless she's some type of qumayo

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Lately, Somalis who work in retirement homes have discovered other Somalis who have been left there by their family, who have never visited since.

One report in particular is a Somali girl who worked as a nurse in a retirement home who found a coherent Somali male who was unkempt. He sobbed as he told her that his kids left him here when his wife died, and his bad English couldn't save him from being declared incapable.

I know Somalis aren't like Indians or Pakistanis who make their parents move in with them after their honeymoon but is there a point in your life where you will care for your parents or leave them in the care of others?

Excellent topic

 

[paramedic]

Excellent topic

Ngl I was expecting some very caasi answers but I'm pleasantly surprised.
Or maybe it's bc all the xolos have me blocked by now

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

My 88 year-old grandmother lives with my family. We could never imagine otherwise.
She's full of tender loving stories and she's a great family historian.

Of course she's at times grumpy old lady where the slightest things bother her. It's comes with the territory. It's return to childhood at this point. We treat her like the nephews when it comes to certain things because now she has a loose tongue where nasty ladies dig into from her whenever they call or visit and like in any family we got private situations happening at times that is none of anyone's business

 

[Zeus]

No

 

[Someone]

No

Why?

 

[Zeus]

Why?

Because they don't want to.

 

[YoungFarah]

My 88 year-old grandmother lives with my family. We could never imagine otherwise.
She's full of tender loving stories and she's a great family historian.

Of course she's at times grumpy old lady where the slightest things bother her. It's comes with the territory. It's return to childhood at this point. We treat her like the nephews when it comes to certain things because now she has a loose tongue where nasty ladies dig into from her whenever they call or visit and like in any family we got private situations happening at times that is none of anyone's business

How does a 71 year old have an 88 year old grandma???

 

[embarassing]

of course. both of my grandma's lived with my family all my life.

anyone who says otherwise is a serious qasaaro