It goes beyond obesity now, to like such feminine soft looking male that can't even protect you in SHTF scenario is an indication of a lot of masculinity in you.
But for some reason I don't find this masculine tone in your posts which is rampant among the other Xaalimo's on her
Which makes me believe your one of those nerdy type girls who are exposed to such males a lot and as a result grew affinity for them, in which case there is still hope for you.
Wow I’m touched beyond words inquisitive