Somali women back home are very strong and opinionated, don't know where this idea came from that they're helpless victims.
As for the topic, most Farahs - including Muslim males born in the west when it comes to marrying from back home - don't want to bring a girl over due to culture clash and lack of familiarity.
I know a guy who did this and he bitterly regrets his decision, he thought he could play around with this xalimo and then get married back home, seeing as they were dating and talking of marriage since their teens, she was devasted once she found out he got married back home, but years later she went on to find a better more high quality guy and today her marriage is going strong while his continues to be miserable. Now his days consist of a overbearing wife, in laws that despise him and always pining over her thinking 'what if', that's karma right there.