Why Do Western women Look Down Upon Women Back Home

[Calaf]

I’m thankful that I was born and raised in the west. Alhamdulilah. If I was in Somalia, I’d have no rights and I’d be a mother of 8+ children.

I get the first part, the west does indeed have its advantages (and disadvantages) but this "they have no rights" talk is merely hearsay. In a way, they have more rights then the ones in the west. They have the deen, the daqan and the dastuur to protect them. The rare cases it fails, the outlash is VERY high, and then kicks in the social factor. The whole community as a whole has your back, unlike the west. This connotation that Somali men are abusive and neglectful is outright wrong. A bunch of minority shouldn't be the trademark for all men.

Our Parents, grandparents. great-grandparents all lived through these periods, there are some outdated daqans yes (such as FGM), which is dying out, but allahimdullah that you/we ain't of another ethnicity with more extreme views. Would you have said this as a Pakistani? Or as a Chinese?

Also, what's wrong with having 8+ kids consensually? No offense, but I actually don't understand how being a mother of 8+ kids is in violation of the rights or is a negative thing.

 

[Desert Flower]

I get the first part, the west does indeed have its advantages (and disadvantages) but this "they have no rights" talk is merely hearsay. In a way, they have more rights then the ones in the west. They have the deen, the daqan and the dastuur to protect them. The rare cases it fails, the outlash is VERY high, and then kicks in the social factor. The whole community as a whole has your back, unlike the west. This connotation that Somali men are abusive and neglectful is outright wrong. A bunch of minority shouldn't be the trademark for all men.

Our Parents, grandparents. great-grandparents all lived through these periods, there are some outdated daqans yes (such as FGM), which is dying out, but allahimdullah that you/we ain't of another ethnicity with more extreme views. Would you have said this as a Pakistani? Or as a Chinese?

Also, what's wrong with having 8+ kids consensually? No offense, but I actually don't understand how being a mother of 8+ kids is in violation of the rights or is a negative thing.

I’m not interested in your mansplaining. As a man, it’s not your place to tell me what I know to be true of women in Somalia.

 

[Angelina]

I get the first part, the west does indeed have its advantages (and disadvantages) but this "they have no rights" talk is merely hearsay. In a way, they have more rights then the ones in the west. They have the deen, the daqan and the dastuur to protect them. The rare cases it fails, the outlash is VERY high, and then kicks in the social factor. The whole community as a whole has your back, unlike the west. This connotation that Somali men are abusive and neglectful is outright wrong. A bunch of minority shouldn't be the trademark for all men.

Our Parents, grandparents. great-grandparents all lived through these periods, there are some outdated daqans yes (such as FGM), which is dying out, but allahimdullah that you/we ain't of another ethnicity with more extreme views. Would you have said this as a Pakistani? Or as a Chinese?

Also, what's wrong with having 8+ kids consensually? No offense, but I actually don't understand how being a mother of 8+ kids is in violation of the rights or is a negative thing.

Women there are marrying for survival. You Abdis know it. There has even been an increase of forced marriages as some fathers want less mouths to feed. Hardly any 15 year old wants to marry 50+ men, unless you want to argue that women desire wrinkles and saggy bellies. Wouldn't put it past you 'know it all' men.

 

[Calaf]

I don't know why they are lying. I know plenty of Somali families that have used girls raised back home as rehabilitation centres for their wayward sons. What happened? The girls are divorced now as their wayward sons just want to chill in the West and now its their ex mother in law that sends them money.

What with the, oh I know a couple of cases, so it must be common phenomenon. Generalising all men for a couple of cases is just plain wrong. For every single dayuuth and wayward, there is 5 other men who are pious, halal and not abusive.

I’m not interested in your mansplaining. As a man, it’s not your place to tell me what I know to be true of women in Somalia.

My bad then.

 

[Angelina]

What with the, oh I know a couple of cases, so it must be common phenomenon. Generalising all men for a couple of cases is just plain wrong. For every single dayuuth and wayward, there is 5 other men who are pious, halal and not abusive.


My bad then.

My whole point is that women back home are marry western men for survival. Hence why you see 18 year olds with 65+ men. So all your talk of rights is meaningless.

I'm fully aware that not all men that go back home are xyz. Its a mixed bag.

 

[Mercury]

Wallahi I'm so happy that more people have figured out @Mercury is a woman. "he" always attacks men. A woman can be a murderer and "he" will blame the man who was murdered and say the woman is innocent. I have never seen an feminist extremist like "him". "He" has been acting like a man for years to spread the feminist agenda.

I remember you posting in here about how you lost respect for your friend cause he didn't wake up his sleeping wife instead he made tea for you guys and that made you angry

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

I remember you posting in here about how you lost respect for your friend cause he didn't wake up his sleeping wife instead he made tea for you guys and that made you angry

Were you the sleeping wife?

 

[Mercury]

Were you the sleeping wife?

now your acting like a 10 year old

 

[Juliet]

Women back home can cook a full course meal and take care of the house and they surprised niggas want to marry them instead

cooking isn't rocket science nor is it much of an achievement, my little brother can do that. Are you ashy lipped losers that lazy?

 

[Amirah]

I know someone who got finessed by a Somali girl back home the guy was going to marry her but before that he was sending money to her they met on facebook he went to visit her to find out she was already married and she told her husband and his friends to beat him up man came home bleeding so Somalis back home are not dumb and don’t say her husband made her she used the money on herself

and the farax your talking about must be a farax that was born and raised in Somalia and lived in america for a while

Ilhan Omar’s brother became gay after she brought him here I’m telling you the west wa some fuckry

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[Metal Magician]

thats what we faraaxs are good at we are too scared to fight 1 on 1 so we gang up with our sxb's

that dont make us feminne though dont get it twisted astaghfirullah youre in the presence of a real nigga

stop speaking for somali men nacasyahow yu fruity mfcker

 

[Metal Magician]

Is that all a woman is good for? Smh somali men and misogyny man im so fucking happy i was born in canada i hve a law degree im about to buy my house n independent af

your ghetto i know yu dont have a law degree

 

[Hassan11]

cooking isn't rocket science nor is it much of an achievement, my little brother can do that. Are you ashy lipped losers that lazy?

I’m an abdi of course i’m that lazy lmao, go chef up some baris huuno

 

[Metal Magician]

I went back 2 times never once did I get jealous of them instead I felt sorry for them and thanked Allah for taking me out of that shit hole country theyre oppressed I never believed it when gaalo said that but hey even the devil tells the truth sometimes they were right all along. help the oppressed if youre true muslim otherwise your should be ashamed of yourself.

sharmota

 

[World]

How common is FGM in big cities back home? That is a big negative to marrying someone back home for me even though I would like settle there eventually.

 

[Halimo-2018]

sharmota

my point exactly.

 

[Juke]

Western xalimos want to limit your options so placate to them more therefore increasing their standards

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

sharmota

My favorite female incel karbasher

tell em to go back into the kitchen

 

[Fay]

your ghetto i know yu dont have a law degree

Wallahi i have a forensic combined with criminal law degree, ghetto? Learn the meaning of ghetto u dont know me... im ghetto because i dont engage in the anti blackness that goes on here and i check u for that?

Im soon to be a homeowner alx wallahi everything for me planned out well its time to live it up life is too short choose ur lane and work hard to all my younger brothers and sisters

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

Wallahi i have a forensic combined with criminal law degree, ghetto? Learn the meaning of ghetto u dont know me... im ghetto because i dont engage in the anti blackness that goes on here and i check u for that?

Im soon to be a homeowner alx wallahi everything for me planned out well its time to live it up life is too short choose ur lane and work hard to all my younger brothers and sisters

Barry Allen