Thanks for taking the bait and stepping into the light and it only took one comment to show your true self
First I fully agree with you, Somalis adopt AA culture of single mum plus state depend
Why is divorce so common in the Somali community?
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waraabe
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Several reasons to why diaspora community is suffering from high divorce rate.
The biggest reason why somali get married is for sex. There isn't love, knowledge or something they share.
Another reason is the welfare state. no reason why a woman needs a man if the government is gonna come thru with the monies. Similarly, no reason why a lazy man would work for his family if he knows the tax payer is going to bring up his offspring. In short, socialism is bad for the institution of marriage.
There is a lack of a shame factor abroad. Back home you can't get away with this but here you can
The biggest reason why somali get married is for sex. There isn't love, knowledge or something they share.
Another reason is the welfare state. no reason why a woman needs a man if the government is gonna come thru with the monies. Similarly, no reason why a lazy man would work for his family if he knows the tax payer is going to bring up his offspring. In short, socialism is bad for the institution of marriage.
There is a lack of a shame factor abroad. Back home you can't get away with this but here you can
I'll tell honestly and succinctly the reason why there is high divorce rate in our community is because of Somali men.
Somali men believe the idea of 'been kuso celi, run kudhakh' means tell her as much as lies as you can to marry her. When you marry her treat her like you wish basically meaning he treats you like a xaar, dog etc. This makes the woman feel not loved after marriage which she interest in the man and how much effort she should make for him.
They are not ambitious and only want easy life just chilling, relaxing all day everyday, chewing Khat and sheeko makhayada.
They don't help their wives with the house work, they don't do shit with their shit life. They don't know how to value a woman they see us as a cooking machine. How many times a day do you hear Somali men asking, what can you cook? Can you cook Cambuulo or Malawax? They ask us many questions which symbolise that they are in fact the ones who are looking for a save haven from us.
I personally think that Somali men only want us for themselves because they believe that they can get away with stuff. I mean, the power dynamic of the traditional Somali household really does benefit the Somali man. I mean, we cook, clean and take care of the kids too.
Ohh how could i forget the massive abuse, beating ,killing etc.
After all they are worthless. The worst is they will get angry and all defensive when someone points out the issue.
Somali men believe the idea of 'been kuso celi, run kudhakh' means tell her as much as lies as you can to marry her. When you marry her treat her like you wish basically meaning he treats you like a xaar, dog etc. This makes the woman feel not loved after marriage which she interest in the man and how much effort she should make for him.
They are not ambitious and only want easy life just chilling, relaxing all day everyday, chewing Khat and sheeko makhayada.
They don't help their wives with the house work, they don't do shit with their shit life. They don't know how to value a woman they see us as a cooking machine. How many times a day do you hear Somali men asking, what can you cook? Can you cook Cambuulo or Malawax? They ask us many questions which symbolise that they are in fact the ones who are looking for a save haven from us.
I personally think that Somali men only want us for themselves because they believe that they can get away with stuff. I mean, the power dynamic of the traditional Somali household really does benefit the Somali man. I mean, we cook, clean and take care of the kids too.
Ohh how could i forget the massive abuse, beating ,killing etc.
After all they are worthless. The worst is they will get angry and all defensive when someone points out the issue.
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Wake up and smell the coffee nayaa, it's been like that since the beginning of time, who are we to change that
Gibiin-Udug
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@waraabe has a shitty personality too. He's hot and cold, he will compliment you with a follow up of insults. One day he will take the kids to playground next day he want to take dna of them. Imagine the constant headaches!
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Lol. Fair point, some farahs also do have shitty personalities.
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!
waraabe
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Wth
I am funny, good looking, smart, good hearted, classy. I don't like to talk up myself but I expect the lady to end who gets with me to make lots of dikir and thank Allah sw every second of her life. I am rare.
Gibiin-Udug
Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!
You will kiss her on the mouth after that?
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!
I thought siil feels better than head?
Head is only needed if their head game fire. Somali girls can't give head anyway
waraabe
Your superior
Why u actin like you received madax.
waraabe
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Looool did she bite you or something
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