Why is divorce so common in the Somali community?

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Thanks for taking the bait and stepping into the light and it only took one comment to show your true self :ohreally:
Strong patriarchal cultures and collectivist values. Somalis are unfortunately very libertarian relative to most other eastern cultures and that is one of the driving reasons explaining the turmoil we find ourselves in the diaspora and back home.
First I fully agree with you, Somalis adopt AA culture of single mum plus state depend
 

waraabe

Your superior
Several reasons to why diaspora community is suffering from high divorce rate.

The biggest reason why somali get married is for sex. There isn't love, knowledge or something they share.

Another reason is the welfare state. no reason why a woman needs a man if the government is gonna come thru with the monies. Similarly, no reason why a lazy man would work for his family if he knows the tax payer is going to bring up his offspring. In short, socialism is bad for the institution of marriage.

There is a lack of a shame factor abroad. Back home you can't get away with this but here you can
 

Nabeel786

Southie pride
Because they quick get flirt on Xaliimo so easily and get married with out using their "dickhead".
AbdiJ. Do you divorced your " Kasband"? Just asking.
 
Reason why 'Divorce is so common in the Somali community', is because too many good looking Xaliimo and Faarax appear behind the scenes after marriage.
 
I'll tell honestly and succinctly the reason why there is high divorce rate in our community is because of Somali men.
Somali men believe the idea of 'been kuso celi, run kudhakh' means tell her as much as lies as you can to marry her. When you marry her treat her like you wish basically meaning he treats you like a xaar, dog etc. This makes the woman feel not loved after marriage which she interest in the man and how much effort she should make for him.

They are not ambitious and only want easy life just chilling, relaxing all day everyday, chewing Khat and sheeko makhayada.
They don't help their wives with the house work, they don't do shit with their shit life. They don't know how to value a woman they see us as a cooking machine. How many times a day do you hear Somali men asking, what can you cook? Can you cook Cambuulo or Malawax? They ask us many questions which symbolise that they are in fact the ones who are looking for a save haven from us.

I personally think that Somali men only want us for themselves because they believe that they can get away with stuff. I mean, the power dynamic of the traditional Somali household really does benefit the Somali man. I mean, we cook, clean and take care of the kids too.
Ohh how could i forget the massive abuse, beating ,killing etc.
After all they are worthless. The worst is they will get angry and all defensive when someone points out the issue.
 

Sixth

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Divorce is high in every ethnic community so whats ur point?
It's as simple as people getting married for the wrong reasons.
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Bohol

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Alot of halimos have shitty personality. Who will put up with 24hrs nagging? Single life
is much preferable to that. Marriage is suppose to be good life not a scene from hell.
 

Siddhartha

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I'll tell honestly and succinctly the reason why there is high divorce rate in our community is because of Somali men.
Somali men believe the idea of 'been kuso celi, run kudhakh' means tell her as much as lies as you can to marry her. When you marry her treat her like you wish basically meaning he treats you like a xaar, dog etc. This makes the woman feel not loved after marriage which she interest in the man and how much effort she should make for him.

They are not ambitious and only want easy life just chilling, relaxing all day everyday, chewing Khat and sheeko makhayada.
They don't help their wives with the house work, they don't do shit with their shit life. They don't know how to value a woman they see us as a cooking machine. How many times a day do you hear Somali men asking, what can you cook? Can you cook Cambuulo or Malawax? They ask us many questions which symbolise that they are in fact the ones who are looking for a save haven from us.

I personally think that Somali men only want us for themselves because they believe that they can get away with stuff. I mean, the power dynamic of the traditional Somali household really does benefit the Somali man. I mean, we cook, clean and take care of the kids too.
Ohh how could i forget the massive abuse, beating ,killing etc.
After all they are worthless. The worst is they will get angry and all defensive when someone points out the issue.

Wake up and smell the coffee nayaa, it's been like that since the beginning of time, who are we to change that
 

Hemaal

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Somali females sex game is wack. They need to start giving head, bring some else to the table aside from the 'ol missionary position
 
I think Somali girls from our generation give their husbands head and husbands eat them out.

I thought siil was better anyway. Men dont need head if they got siil
 

Gibiin-Udug

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Alot of halimos have shitty personality. Who will put up with 24hrs nagging? Single life
is much preferable to that. Marriage is suppose to be good life not a scene from hell.
@waraabe has a shitty personality too. He's hot and cold, he will compliment you with a follow up of insults. One day he will take the kids to playground next day he want to take dna of them. Imagine the constant headaches!
 

Bohol

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@waraabe has a shitty personality too. He's hot and cold, he will compliment you with a follow up of insults. One day he will take the kids to playground next day he want to take dna of them. Imagine the constant heading!

Lol. Fair point, some farahs also do have shitty personalities.
 

Hemaal

Jet life till my next life
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I think Somali girls from our generation give their husbands head and husbands eat them out.

I thought siil was better anyway. Men dont need head if they got siil
:angryman:
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!
 

waraabe

Your superior
@waraabe has a shitty personality too. He's hot and cold, he will compliment you with a follow up of insults. One day he will take the kids to playground next day he want to take dna of them. Imagine the constant headaches!
Wth

I am funny, good looking, smart, good hearted, classy. I don't like to talk up myself but I expect the lady to end who gets with me to make lots of dikir and thank Allah sw every second of her life. I am rare.
 

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
:angryman:
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!
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You will kiss her on the mouth after that? :wtf:
 
:angryman:
Madax is an essential part of sex! What do you mean men don't need it? I prefer madax because even if you don't pull out you don't have to worry about a baby!

I thought siil feels better than head?

Head is only needed if their head game fire. Somali girls can't give head anyway
 
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