Why is hookup culture normalised?

[CalmOne20####]

Because it is more fun than a relationship

Yeah,no. Unwanted pregnancy STDs,AIDS,less satisfication for women.

 

[CalmOne20####]

Thats your own personal preference, alot of people want to be sexual objects and have as much fun as possible

Tell that to the women and men who participated in hookup culture and felt unfulfilled than they were in a relationship. Are you muslim?

 

[jemappelle]

Yeah,no. Unwanted pregnancy STDs,AIDS,less satisfication for women.

Use birth control,, AIDs are very rare unless you are a homo, use protection, see clinics, STDs are kinda rare aswell.
Less satisfaction for women doesn't matter since they are the ones who signed up for it

 

[jemappelle]

Tell that to the women and men who participated in hookup culture and felt unfulfilled than they were in a relationship. Are you muslim?

All meaningless sex because unfulfilled after a while, no man or women on this earth can feel fulfilled with meaningless sex, that being said, in the first few months or years it can be quite fun for people depending on how much they indulge in it, like eating doughnuts, but after a long time, it makes you deppressed.
so short term its fun and long term it isnt
plus romance is just a lie, it also lasts for a short time, after the honeymoon phase you just go back to everyday life, with the extra difficulties of a relationship, some people are ok with that, some people don't care for it

 

[CalmOne20####]

All meaningless sex because unfulfilled after a while, no man or women on this earth can feel fulfilled with meaningless sex, that being said, in the first few months or years it can be quite fun for people depending on how much they indulge in it, like eating doughnuts, but after a long time, it makes you deppressed.
so short term its fun and long term it isnt
plus romance is just a lie, it also lasts for a short time, after the honeymoon phase you just go back to everyday life, with the extra difficulties of a relationship, some people are ok with that, some people don't care for it

Dabbling in the haram ain't nothing to brag about. Are you by any chance an incel?

 

[jemappelle]

Dabbling in the haram ain't nothing to brag about. Are you by any chance an incel?

Who's bragging about haram?

 

[hinters]

Because it's the west all kinds of shit is normalized.

 

[CalmOne20####]

Who's bragging about haram?

You literally said zina is ok. I see from your post history that your are muslim.

 

[jemappelle]

You literally said zina is ok. I see from your post history that your are muslim.

When did I ever say zina is ok?

 

[CalmOne20####]

When did I ever say zina is ok?

You said hooking up is cool,insinuating that you either partake in or are planning to partake in it.

 

[jemappelle]

You said hooking up is cool,insinuating that you either partake in or are planning to partake in it.

When did I say it was cool?

 

[CalmOne20####]

When did I say it was cool?

Read your above posts dont be obtuse. You knew what you meant.

 

[jemappelle]

Read your above posts dont be obtuse. You knew what you meant.

I said zina is fun, which it is, not cool or bragging about ti, dont put words in my mouth

 

[CalmOne20####]

I said zina is fun, which it is, not cool or bragging about ti, dont put words in my mouth

It's not fun.

 

[Nak-Muay-Femeu]

It's not fun.

It is, but then again so is railing lines of Charlie lol. Fun =/= good

 

[jemappelle]

It's not fun.

It literally is, what are you on about? Noone would ever commit zina if it wasn't pleasurable and fun.

 

[seldiboy]

To be honest it is women propagating it nowadays. If you say no to a woman she will try to destroy you these days.

I was at this houseparty not too long ago. It’s getting pretty deep into the night. This cadaan girl was following me around but she was a friend of a friend so I didn’t think too much of it. Danced around and chatted a bit. Then she tells me to come upstairs with her to talk cuz its too loud. I think nothing of it because she looks innocent enough. As soon as she closes the door to the room she is getting undressed. I leave cuz i’m not trying to lose my virginity to some random bird.

Next day I find out that she is spreading rumours that I’m gay because I turned her down

 

[jemappelle]

To be honest it is women propagating it nowadays. If you say no to a woman she will try to destroy you these days.

I was at this houseparty not too long ago. It’s getting pretty deep into the night. This cadaan girl was following me around but she was a friend of a friend so I didn’t think too much of it. Danced around and chatted a bit. Then she tells me to come upstairs with her to talk cuz its too loud. I think nothing of it because she looks innocent enough. As soon as she closes the door to the room she is getting undressed. I leave cuz i’m not trying to lose my virginity to some random bird.

Next day I find out that she is spreading rumours that I’m gay because I turned her down

This happens alot, good for you saaxib she probably has been blown out so many times you would have got sloppy seconds

 

[CalmOne20####]

It literally is, what are you on about? Noone would ever commit zina if it wasn't pleasurable and fun.

Sex with someone you love and who is also in love with you is way more fun and pleasurable. There have been surveys and studies on this. A romantic partner will wanna make sure you have the maximum pleasure,whereas a random hookup won't care about your pleasure.

 

[CalmOne20####]

To be honest it is women propagating it nowadays. If you say no to a woman she will try to destroy you these days.

I was at this houseparty not too long ago. It’s getting pretty deep into the night. This cadaan girl was following me around but she was a friend of a friend so I didn’t think too much of it. Danced around and chatted a bit. Then she tells me to come upstairs with her to talk cuz its too loud. I think nothing of it because she looks innocent enough. As soon as she closes the door to the room she is getting undressed. I leave cuz i’m not trying to lose my virginity to some random bird.

Next day I find out that she is spreading rumours that I’m gay because I turned her down

I agree to some extent. However in my opinion, both men and women promote it. The misogynistic incels (e.g Andrew Tate) say women can't be trusted and they insult promiscuous women saying they aren't wife material yet they praise men who sleep around. Then,on the other hand,you have SJW far left feminists promoting hookup culture saying it's fun and empowering.