Why is hookup culture normalised?

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jemappelle

CalmOne20#### said:
Sex with someone you love and who is also in love with you is way more fun and pleasurable. There have been surveys and studies on this. A romantic partner will wanna make sure you have the maximum pleasure,whereas a random hookup won't care about your pleasure.
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Your saying that as a women also some people enjoy the novelty of new partners, the same partner can get boring over time, and also carries responsibilty of being in a relationship, having hookups with no strings is easier and less time consuming
 
Nak-Muay-Femeu

Nak-Muay-Femeu

seldiboy said:
To be honest it is women propagating it nowadays. If you say no to a woman she will try to destroy you these days.

I was at this houseparty not too long ago. It’s getting pretty deep into the night. This cadaan girl was following me around but she was a friend of a friend so I didn’t think too much of it. Danced around and chatted a bit. Then she tells me to come upstairs with her to talk cuz its too loud. I think nothing of it because she looks innocent enough. As soon as she closes the door to the room she is getting undressed. I leave cuz i’m not trying to lose my virginity to some random bird.

Next day I find out that she is spreading rumours that I’m gay because I turned her down
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Consider yourself lucky she didn't start spreading R-word rumours, cadaan birds will blow your life up over the smallest thing. There's nothing more terrifying than an angry cadaan woman:tacky:
 
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jemappelle

CalmOne20#### said:
Do you call promiscuous men that as well? Or are they "real men" ?
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Men who are promiscous don't get diseases in there private part and leftover sperm, in a women there private area is much harder to clean and when multiple men have been with her in succesion it is unhygenic and fluids from both men mix with each other and it is disgusting, whereas a mans private area is protected and doesn't become as unhygenic as a womens.
So I wouldn't call a man that because it doesn't fit the context.
 
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CalmOne20####

Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
Nak-Muay-Femeu said:
Consider yourself lucky she didn't start spreading R-word rumours, cadaan birds will blow your life up over the smallest thing. There's nothing more terrifying than an angry cadaan woman:tacky:
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I remember when I was in college when I was 17, some lesbian cadaan girl was flirting with me and saying if we can hang out. My naive teenage self thought she meant just talking. She then told me no no,that isn't what I meant and she put her hands on my waist. I noped out of the situation and told her to get lost.
 
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CalmOne20####

Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
jemappelle said:
Men who are promiscous don't get diseases in there private part and leftover sperm, in a women there private area is much harder to clean and when multiple men have been with her in succesion it is unhygenic and fluids from both men mix with each other and it is disgusting, whereas a mans private area is protected and doesn't become as unhygenic as a womens.
So I wouldn't call a man that because it doesn't fit the context.
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Ok,so you're basically a hypocrite.
 
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CalmOne20####

Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
jemappelle said:
no their is a reason why a man can have multiple wives and a women only one husband and she needs the iddah period before remarriage but a man doesn;t
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Our prophet saws called out both male and female zaanis,he didn't just say women who are zaanis are sinning. He said regardless of their gender,male or female,zina is a major sin. Walaal,please learn about the deen before spouting Andrew Tate - ish incel nonsense.
 
Nak-Muay-Femeu

Nak-Muay-Femeu

CalmOne20#### said:
I remember when I was in college when I was 17, some lesbian cadaan girl was flirting with me and saying if we can hang out. My naive teenage self thought she meant just talking. She then told me no no,that isn't what I meant and she put her hands on my waist. I noped out of the situation and told her to get lost.
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Good for you sxb, you saved yourself from a lot of ballache and Zina. There's something unnerving about girls who are that direct lol
 
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jemappelle

CalmOne20#### said:
Our prophet saws called out both male and female zaanis,he didn't just say women who are zaanis are sinning. He said regardless of their gender,male or female,zina is a major sin. Walaal,please learn about the deen before spouting Andrew Tate - ish incel nonsense.
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That has nothing to do with what I said, I said sloppy seconds, I never said its good for men to commit zina, stop putting words in my mouth
 
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CalmOne20####

Somaliland + Ogaden Heritage
Nak-Muay-Femeu said:
Good for you sxb, you saved yourself from a lot of ballache and Zina. There's something unnerving about girls who are that direct lol
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Walaal ,guys and lesbians always be flirting with me. I don't pay them no mind. They be straight up direct too. It doesn't help that I am attractive with a nice body shape too. Even back home in Hargeisa, ciyaalsuuqs were hitting on me lol.
 
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