Why older Somali men so secretive about their second wife?

[Glizzo da Goat]

I personally don’t rock with the whole multiple wives thing but as long as he treats them equally and can provide for both then there’s no problem. He shouldn’t have been secretive about it. That’s my verdict!

How can old ass niggas with erectile dysfunction marry young gazelles and expect to not be cheated on anyway? ( This is the case in most Somali second marriages lmfao)

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[Guardafui]

I don’t think any first wife with strong self worth would be going crazy about it, besides most old men 45+ are not the most virile, young women share beds with old men with stubborn fixed ways deep down they wish it was different they’re mostly suffering silently this is why a lot of them request divorce. A lot of women with older husbands cheat.

 

[Helios]

I personally don’t rock with the whole multiple wives thing but as long as he treats them equally and can provide for both then there’s no problem. He shouldn’t have been secretive about it. That’s my verdict!

How can old ass niggas with erectile dysfunction marry young gazelles and expect to not be cheated on anyway? ( This is the case in most Somali second marriages lmfao)

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Money talks

 

[Guled111]

Because most Somali women wouldn't accept even the notion of their husbands marrying a second wife.

Heedhe dee is dadji nayaa...

 

[Ramen]

Men are so lucky.
They can cheat on their wife and marry the side chick if their wife finds out.

I can already hear them scream

" waa halaaal gabartaan oo 17 jir ah waa xaaskeyga if u dont like it waan ku furaya nacaladyahee !! "

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

It's fine and acceptable Morally and Religiously. In fact, wealthy Males are encouraged to have more wives so they can increase the Muslim population.

The keyword is wealthy, I noticed rich Muslim men don’t marry more than 1 wife, it’s always the broke, uneducated Somali man who seeks multiple wives.

 

[Céleste]

Absolutely true @Gibiin-Udug. It's never the wealthy one that marries multiple women it's the cayr sucking leach who wants 4 wives.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

It’s best I don’t tell.

What do you want to happen to me? You want me dead from poison! Ofc I ain’t telling them

(I told my family abt kids all over the place in case I disappear)

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

Absolutely true @Gibiin-Udug. It's never the wealthy one that marries multiple women it's the cayr sucking leach who wants 4 wives.

Wooow! Easy buddy! I don’t take no ceyd


(I prey on single mothers with pre-existing Ceydh diagnosis)

 

[Xaruun]

It's allowed in Islam. My grandfather married 2 women at the same time and they are neighbours. As far as I know, they are very close to each other and even have iftar when it's Ramadan and celebrate eid together. Personally tho I wouldn't like it if my husband married another woman without informing me and asking me for my opinion, but even if he did that I wouldn't want to share him.

Also, why is he hiding it? It's not like it's haram...

100%, there are at least two people using this account.

 

[Xasusi]

If your wife says you cant have another wife, and you accept what she say. Thats simping, islamically.

 

[Exodus]

It’s a pain in the ass, I’m planning to just get a mistress when I want a piece on the side

 

[Xasusi]

The keyword is wealthy, I noticed rich Muslim men don’t marry more than 1 wife, it’s always the broke, uneducated Somali man who seeks multiple wives.

Gulf arabs destroy your theory. People who are actually rich (not only a high salary) take multiple wives.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Gulf arabs destroy your theory. People who are actually rich (not only a high salary) take multiple wives.

Every rich Somali man has multiple wives.

Let these xalimos comfort themselves sxb

 

[Helios]

The keyword is wealthy, I noticed rich Muslim men don’t marry more than 1 wife, it’s always the broke, uneducated Somali man who seeks multiple wives.

Why replace my #1 if you went through everything together. Thats love

 

[Mercury]

He doesnt tell his other wife cause its cheating even if its halal to have multiple wives

at the end of the day its cheating cause he went behind her back and broke the trust they have by secretly getting married

 

[Dalmoor]

I never seen that happen

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I have no idea about this. I don't even see older somali men with more than one wife in my city

 

[Kamma]

It shouldn't be a secret though... He should have announced it to everyone its not like its an affair/fornication. I have an aunty whose husband married their somali cleaner. She gets so angry if anyone mentions the seconds wife's name. Her husband meets her once a year on the small eid whilst he goes to the second wife's home apparently on the big eid and plus extra days and she's also young. This guy claims to be a very religious man?!?

Nowadays men should stick to 1 wife if they ain't gonna be fair..

 

[Lostbox]

The keyword is wealthy, I noticed rich Muslim men don’t marry more than 1 wife, it’s always the broke, uneducated Somali man who seeks multiple wives.

Absolutely true @Gibiin-Udug. It's never the wealthy one that marries multiple women it's the cayr sucking leach who wants 4 wives.

That would be a reason action to takebut even the best of people are known at times to not make the best judgement

 

[Samaalic Era]

It shouldn't be a secret though... He should have announced it to everyone its not like its an affair/fornication. I have an aunty whose husband married their somali cleaner. She gets so angry if anyone mentions the seconds wife's name. Her husband meets her once a year on the small eid whilst he goes to the second wife's home apparently on the big eid and plus extra days and she's also young. This guy claims to be a very religious man?!?

Nowadays men should stick to 1 wife if they ain't gonna be fair..

A man has to be fair or he will be held to account by Allah swt. He must divide his time equally