Women feel jealousy too

[Sheikh Google]

The prophet(saw) was poor. Can u explain yourself out of 'considerable wealth' considering the man in question was poor with no mattress?

Leader and chieftain of entire tribes that paid taxes and gained taxes from neighbouring tribes was poor? I want to know what dugsi you learnt from...

 

[jabsveg276]

Leader and chieftain of entire tribes that paid taxes and gained taxes from neighbouring tribes was poor? I want to know what dugsi you learnt from...

He was poor for a large part of his life.

 

[Sheikh Google]

He was poor for a large part of his life.

Meh if you say so. I disagree but doesn't matter this niggas claims dont make sense. We dont live in the 7th century so why he acting all high n mighty.

 

[akaA2]

Meh if you say so. I disagree but doesn't matter this niggas claims dont make sense. We dont live in the 7th century so why he acting all high n mighty.

Youre the one who brought up a man that lived in the seventh century and used his marriage as a pivot to judge marriages in the 21st century. What are u on waryaa? U ok?

 

[Farahslayer]

Did u actually know, the prophet's(pbuh) wives gathered at a house, all of them and wanted to complain to tge prophet of their living standards. I think aisha(ra) was their spokeperson. Omar(ra) heard abt this and called his daughter Hafsa, telling her to not compare herself to aisha(ra) because the prophet(pbuh) loved her the most out of all of them and that if she even needed oil for her hair that she should go to umar(ra) and not her husband the prophet(pbuh).

The prophet got revelation abt the incident from Allah telling the prophet's wives that if they wanted the dunya and its pleasures that they should divorce the prophet and in return Allah will give them the pleasures of the dunya and that their lives will change.
When they heard this verse from the Quran, none of them came foward, they all chose the next world over the dunya.

Interesting how you don’t mention that he was forbidden from divorcing these wives that had chosen sacrifice.

Literally the opposite of polygamy that Muslim men advocate for.

The point is that superficiality is my of the sunnah. To say though that women need to lower their previous living standards goes against every madhab…

 

[akaA2]

Interesting how you don’t mention that he was forbidden from divorcing these wives that had chosen sacrifice.

Literally the opposite of polygamy that Muslim men advocate for.

The point is that superficiality is my of the sunnah. To say though that women need to lower their previous living standards goes against every madhab…

Whats funny is how the man named sheikh google didnt use it like u did. Bravo.


I never said women should lower their standards what im refuting is this, in simple terms is people using the prophet's marriages to prove their points for or against polygny without proper knowledge of the prophet's situtions and history.

 

[Wervelwind]

They can’t afford to and 99% of them do not even come close to meeting the obligations but they still do, I have seen this with my cousins. It’s terrible, unjust and haram but they don’t even care. One of my uncles married a woman back home while he has a wife here, she had a child and they got a divorce. Now he doesn’t support his child at all, even though that poor woman has never finished school, lives in a badiyo and can barely support herself. My mom pays for his daughter to go to school because otherwise she wouldn’t have an education. Disgusting, selfish garbage.

Wallahi that sound like my family. My dad had a son with a woman when he was young and left them. It does not seem like supports them at all. My mom is sending the son money. Weird that it sounds so similar. My mom and him divorced as well and my dad has a new family and wife

 

[Periplus]

The prophet(saw) was poor. Can u explain yourself out of 'considerable wealth' considering the man in question was poor with no mattress?

You do know the prophet was extremely wealthy and was the widow of a rich merchant.

He was poor from giving charity, which was his choice. He already planned that out and probably discussed with his wives regarding the loss of income. There is a difference between someone who has planned on being poor and someone who is actually poor, with no financial recourse.

Regardless, the expenses to maintain families in communes 1400 years ago is no where near the expense required for maintaining families today.

Apples and oranges.

 

[Periplus]

Let me ask. What would u do if your daughter is dating a gaal behind ur back?

The guy is not gaal tho.

Plus if she was, that's between me and her, not a random guy on SSpot trying to score a FKD point.

 

[akaA2]

You do know the prophet was extremely wealthy and was the widow of a rich merchant.

He was poor from giving charity, which was his choice. He already planned that out and probably discussed with his wives regarding the loss of income. There is a difference between someone who has planned on being poor and someone who is actually poor, with no financial recourse.

Regardless, the expenses to maintain families in communes 1400 years ago is no where near the expense required for maintaining families today.

Apples and oranges.

When it comes to the prophet baayo. They is no gray area, there is no 'probably' its either he did or said it.

 

[Periplus]

When it comes to the prophet baayo. They is no gray area, there is no 'probably' its either he did or said it.

I am a man and it is clear through the seera of the prophet that he was rich but gave a lot of money to charity, so much so that his financial situation was perilous at times.

 

[akaA2]

I am a man and it is clear through the seera of the prophet that he was rich but gave a lot of money to charity, so much so that his financial situation was perilous at times.

Youre a kadhaab, and lying abt the prophet's seerah for some likes. You know nothing abt his history. The prophet was poor for the majority of his life. He passed away a poor man. U did a quick google search abt his history just to argue your baseless, slanderous points. I should slap u boy.

 

[Sheikh Google]

Youre a kadhaab, and lying abt the prophet's seerah for some likes. You know nothing abt his history. The prophet was poor for the majority of his life. He passed away a poor man. U did a quick google search abt his history just to argue your baseless, slanderous points. I should slap u boy.

If you carry on like this ill buss in your morning cornflakes.

 

[Periplus]

Youre a kadhaab, and lying abt the prophet's seerah for some likes. You know nothing abt his history. The prophet was poor for the majority of his life. He passed away a poor man. U did a quick google search abt his history just to argue your baseless, slanderous points. I should slap u boy.

His tribe were one of the richest in Arabia, his wife was a wealthy merchant, he himself was also a successful businessman. Fellow Meccans used to give him their finances to hold to as he was considered trustworthy.

I did not say he was never poor, I said he was a wealthy man who gave his most of his money away to charity. There is a difference between someone like that and someone that does not have money to begin with.

Do you understand?

 

[akaA2]

If you carry on like this ill buss in your morning cornflakes.

U cannot be older than 13.

His tribe were one of the richest in Arabia, his wife was a wealthy merchant, he himself was also a successful businessman. Fellow Meccans used to give him their finances to hold to as he was considered trustworthy.

I did not say he was never poor, I said he was a wealthy man who gave his most of his money away to charity. There is a difference between someone like that and someone that does not have money to begin with.

Do you understand?

Im not here to give u a history lesson.

 

[Periplus]

Im not here to give u a history lesson.

I said he was a rich man at one point that became poor through giving charity and other means.

By taking the opposing argument, you are asserting that he was poor his entire life.

Who is in the wrong here.

 

[Baarisiyomoos]

Dont bring a garac to ur parents.

You sound awfully obsessed heal from this

 

[Angelina]

Exactly my point. They like bringing khadija and the prophet(pbuh) knowing well that khadija was a rich woman that married firstly a poor man that was her employee and that was very much younger than her and also contributed alot to the prophet's campaign. When she passed away he married the other women while he had nothing. Not even a joodari. They lkke talking abt his marriage with khadija, idolizing them and not the others that were still around even when he was poor with nothing to his name.
Now answer me this, will a 21st woman marry not only a broke dude but one that is 25 yrs her junior???


That a big NO.

It is haram for a man to marry more than one if he cannot afford to do so. Its as simple as that. Talking about 21st this or that isn't going to change that.

Learn your deen before ranting.

 

[TekNiKo]

It is haram for a man to marry more than one if he cannot afford to do so. Its as simple as that. Talking about 21st this or that isn't going to change that.

Learn your deen before ranting.

Can you please tell us what “provide” entails this guy brought us a good point the best generation lived in poverty with some of them having to tie rocks on their stomachs to stave off hunger pains. They considered eating meat a luxury and lived a minimilist lifestyle, only a few Sahabah were wealthy like Abdrihman ibn Awf RA

 

[Angelina]

Can you please tell us what “provide” entails this guy brought us a good point the best generation lived in poverty with some of them having to tie rocks on their stomachs to stave off hunger pains. They considered eating meat a luxury and lived a minimilist lifestyle, only a few Sahabah were wealthy like Abdrihman ibn Awf RA

Do you want to argue for the sake of arguing?

Scholars are pretty clear what you as a man have to provide. You know what it entails, but you want to twist things to your advantage.

If you don't know, educate yourself. Clearly this polygamy conversation isn't a conversation you should be having.

Bye!