Would you marry a broke man?

[abzmuumin1]

nah saxib. There is no right guy for this kind of issue. Many of these ladies grew up in broke, frugal, or struggling fams and are determined not to die that way or have their children grow up in struggle.

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You out here thinking that right guy can change a woman's mind when it comes to finances. however for women who grew up similar to my life understand that money is too valuable. They hate being broke too damn much and no guy in the entire world can convince them. there is no right guy. They don't want struggle in their future and don't want their kid to feel how they felt while growing up.

But what are women willing to put up with for a guy with money. What if the guy is not physically attractive or has bad character?

 

[Yaraye]

But what are women willing to put up with for a guy with money. What if the guy is not physically attractive or has bad character?

It's okay not to be physically attractive. Bad character is a no no. Many women will choose financial security over looks

 

[Gaarasho]

wallahi I can't think of a single guy. Many women I know can't either.

Money is a means like any other and there is no guarantee for it to be permanent best way I can describe could be to health, you can keep a good diet and exercise a lot but if it’s destined for you to have an illness then you can’t do much besides follow the doctors recommendations. Money comes and goes and if you’ve actually experienced things in life you would know this. What matters is good spirit, determination and hard work.

 

[empressjamila]

Many women are okay with a man who is currently broke but has potential- for example he is in school to get a good degree that will lead to a high paying career. Or he is in a lucrative field and just got laid off, but working hard to get a new job.

A man who is broke and comfortable with his situation? Expects the woman to be a “ride or die” and be a financial provider? That’s the biggest turn off to ANY woman, especially a woman who has something going for herself

 

[Gaarasho]

Many women are okay with a man who is currently broke but has potential- for example he is in school to get a good degree that will lead to a high paying career. Or he is in a lucrative field and just got laid off, but working hard to get a new job.

A man who is broke and comfortable with his situation? Expects the woman to be a “ride or die” and be a financial provider? That’s the biggest turn off to ANY woman, especially a woman who has something going for herself

Listen its 2023 be more open minded and let us enjoy the reversed roles.

 

[PrincessBBG<3]

When I say broke I do not mean a man who rents a small room and works as an Uber driver. I mean literally broke.

My entire career has been about doing ruthless business and getting the cash rolled. Never thought I'd live to the day I see a couple that are successful without any money.
Just today I heard this fascinating story about a couple who had nothing yet got married. They moved around and lived with a couple of relatives from both sides of the family until they finally were able to afford an apartment. Both were working of course.
Then they kept on upgrading to a house and now have been married for decades with all their children around them.

That short sweet story planted a question in my head, are there any ladies that would tolerate this in this day and age or do you expect princess treatment from the get-go?

No no nooooo never marry a broke man. Any man with any caqli knows his future role as a husband (being a provider and a protecter) if he isn’t striving towards that, what makes you think his current unambition will change? Stories like this are rare walaalo but for the most part you take them how you find them.

 

[Abdisamad]

If she takes you in when you're broke and unsuccessful, you know she really loves you.. Chicks who only want you when you're successful cannot be trusted.

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

If she takes you in when you're broke and unsuccessful, you know she really loves you.. Chicks who only want you when you're successful cannot be trusted.

The thing women don't understand.

 

[Zahra]

When I say broke I do not mean a man who rents a small room and works as an Uber driver. I mean literally broke.

My entire career has been about doing ruthless business and getting the cash rolled. Never thought I'd live to the day I see a couple that are successful without any money.
Just today I heard this fascinating story about a couple who had nothing yet got married. They moved around and lived with a couple of relatives from both sides of the family until they finally were able to afford an apartment. Both were working of course.
Then they kept on upgrading to a house and now have been married for decades with all their children around them.

That short sweet story planted a question in my head, are there any ladies that would tolerate this in this day and age or do you expect princess treatment from the get-go?

A man who isn't financially stable or so called broke isn't a problem. As long as the guy is striving for a better life and is working towards his accomplishments then that's all that matters. Any woman who doesn't except a man because he can't provide a certain lifestyle for her isn't worth marrying. Because even a man who is financially in good standing and doing well can lose it all overnight and then what. Both men and women who believe that money brings happiness is surely mistaken.

 

[Zahra]

Money is a means like any other and there is no guarantee for it to be permanent best way I can describe could be to health, you can keep a good diet and exercise a lot but if it’s destined for you to have an illness then you can’t do much besides follow the doctors recommendations. Money comes and goes and if you’ve actually experienced things in life you would know this. What matters is good spirit, determination and hard work.

Very well said!

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

A man who isn't financially stable or so called broke isn't a problem. As long as the guy is striving for a better life and is working towards his accomplishments then that's all that matters. Any woman who doesn't except a man because he can't provide a certain lifestyle for her isn't worth marrying. Because even a man who is financially in good standing and doing well can lose it all overnight and then what. Both men and women who believe that money brings happiness is surely mistaken.

Thank you for saying that you have me hope
Maybe there are good people out there

 

[Zahra]

Thank you for saying that you have me hope
Maybe there are good people out there

There are good people, sometimes people are just sometimes blinded by the realty of this world.

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

There are good people, sometimes people are just sometimes blinded by the realty of this world.

I for real thought I might have to remain single my whole life or get into a bunch of meaningless marriages but now I think I got someone out there for me that'll last a while with me

 

[Zahra]

I for real thought I might have to remain single my whole life or get into a bunch of meaningless marriages but now I think I got someone out there for me that'll last a while with me

Don't rush into marriage. The right person is out there. I'm sure your young. You have plenty of time.

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

Don't rush into marriage. The right person is out there. I'm sure your young. You have plenty of time.

I am already 18, my days are almost over gotta hurry

 

[Zahra]

I am already 18, my days are almost over gotta hurry

Oo your a baby. My son, take your time. You just learned how to wash yourself and your thinking a about a woman , relax.

 

[cooli3o]

You just learned how to wash yourself

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

Oo your a baby. My son, take your time. You just learned how to wash yourself and your thinking a about a woman , relax.

(Should I call you eedo then??)
It's not about the woman it's more about my goals. A married man is able to achieve more spiritually than an unmarried one

 

[cooli3o]

. A married man is able to achieve more spiritually than an unmarried one

is he?

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

is he?

If you've loved alone you know it ain't easy. Having a naughty in your life makes it so much easier