Would you marry a fob wife/husband?

[Kaafiye]

@AbdiJohnson answer the man.

He knows I'm telling the truth.

Idol, if you knew how many beautiful and available Somali women there are in Canada you would be shocked.

Abdi has no game. Maybe he's lacking in the looks department. Maybe he can't strike up a conversation with a woman without stuttering and making a fool out of himself.

 

[Inactive]

I guess so.

 

[Reddington]

@Kaafiye @Idol

I agree. There are so many beautiful, educated Somali women from Canada. Single Somali Canadian guys have no excuse.

 

[Geeljire]

Naw! I'll marry my future xusul baruur from the west. Inshallah!

 

[Forfon]

I guess so.

I'm sure if you came back to Islam, the noor of your face would come back and you'd find you soul mate all thanks to Allah swt.

 

[John Michael]

Ummm why do you need a somali girl?

You hate somalis! Please go for white or native.

You'll be seen as throughly assimilated as well, which is your goal. You don't have much in common with even the most 'westernised' somali girls.

 

[Hafez]

White girls

 

[Hafez]

Only fear I have of marrying a white woman is my kids would probably look full white.

 

[Kaafiye]

@Kaafiye @Idol

I agree. There are so many beautiful, educated Somali women from Canada. Single Somali Canadian guys have no excuse.

There's no excuse. A Somali-Canadian man who willingly ignores the thousands of single Somali women in his vicinity and instead chooses to marry some girl from back home.....is concealing something and is insecure over something.

 

[Jubba_Man]

He knows I'm telling the truth.

Idol, if you knew how many beautiful and available Somali women there are in Canada you would be shocked.

Abdi has no game. Maybe he's lacking in the looks department. Maybe he can't strike up a conversation with a woman without stuttering and making a fool out of himself.

You sound like an incredibly naive and young man. I'll let you in on a secret: those many beautiful and available women would not be interested in someone like AJ. An established, middle-class, law-abiding average Joe like AJ doesn't tickle most of their fancies. Most, including the so-called educated and successful ones, want a thug who deals hard drugs and has been in and out of prison for the past decade. I have one cousin who fits this exact description, and its shocking to see how many different xalimos he has on rotation including those who are supposedly "professional women". I suppose they love that "swag".

Most of the Somali dudes I know that are like AJ are either married ajnabis (mostly Muslims from other immigrant communities), or they went back to Somalia to marry a girl from their tol. It's easy to be a white-knight by trying to explain this phenomenon away by saying they don't have "game" or "swag", or are lacking in the looks department. Most of these mischaracterizations couldn't be further from the truth, and the reality is a lot more complex than that simplistic worldview would lead you to believe.

 

[Bahal]

Nah but then again you might end up wit a who had more trains run on her than a railroad on the low



Ilahay baan ka magan galnay kuwasi

 

[John Michael]

You sound like an incredibly naive and young man. I'll let you in on a secret: those many beautiful and available women would not be interested in someone like AJ. An established, middle-class, law-abiding average Joe like AJ doesn't tickle most of their fancies. Most, including the so-called educated and successful ones, want a thug who deals hard drugs and has been in and out of prison for the past decade. I have one cousin who fits this exact description, and its shocking to see how many different xalimos he has on rotation including those who are supposedly "professional women". I suppose they love that "swag".

Most of the Somali dudes I know that are like AJ are either married ajnabis (mostly Muslims from other immigrant communities), or they went back to Somalia to marry a girl from their tol. It's easy to be a white-knight by trying to explain this phenomenon away by saying they don't have "game" or "swag", or are lacking in the looks department. Most of these mischaracterizations couldn't be further from the truth, and the reality is a lot more complex than that simplistic worldview would lead you to believe.

Yeah the problem with AJ is his lack of swag.

 

[Kaafiye]

You sound like an incredibly naive and young man. I'll let you in on a secret: those many beautiful and available women would not be interested in someone like AJ. An established, middle-class, law-abiding average Joe like AJ doesn't tickle most of their fancies. Most, including the so-called educated and successful ones, want a thug who deals hard drugs and has been in and out of prison for the past decade. I have one cousin who fits this exact description, and its shocking to see how many different xalimos he has on rotation including those who are supposedly "professional women". I suppose they love that "swag".

Most of the Somali dudes I know that are like AJ are either married ajnabis (mostly Muslims from other immigrant communities), or they went back to Somalia to marry a girl from their tol. It's easy to be a white-knight by trying to explain this phenomenon away by saying they don't have "game" or "swag", or are lacking in the looks department. Most of these mischaracterizations couldn't be further from the truth, and the reality is a lot more complex than that simplistic worldview would lead you to believe.

And I have cousins who are well-established and who have Somali women throwing themselves at them left and right. Even the Somali MP Ahmed Hussen has women in their 20's chasing after him despite the fact that he's already married and has two kids!

No Somali man who makes a decent income and has acceptable social skills should have any problem finding himself a wife. No problem whatsoever.

Even I had several older Somali women shukaansi me when I was only 20 years old and still in school. I've had Somali fathers approach me in the Masjid and ask me to marry their daughter---in all seriousness.

So what are you even talking about? Finding a wife in Canada is so unbelievably easy, you could easily ask your parents or uncles to hook you up with someone.

 

[Inactive]

I have many problems:

1)I am dark as night
2)I am morbidly obese
3)I'm a loser
4)I'm unemployed by choice and refuse to work
5)I am ugly
6)I am uneducated

No girl here wants me which is why I am looking for a Somalia girl

 

[John Michael]

You're also gaal you kisses white peoples bums that should be top.

Edit: youre whiny like a teenage girl on the rag.you also attention seek.

 

[Inactive]

You're also gaal you kisses white peoples bums that should be top.

Yes also that.

Also my parents think I'm a disappointment

 

[Forfon]

Fob is just another word for people more in tune with their calture #realtalk

 

[Kaafiye]

I have many problems:

1)I am dark as night
2)I am morbidly obese
3)I'm a loser
4)I'm unemployed by choice and refuse to work
5)I am ugly
6)I am uneducated

No girl here wants me which is why I am looking for a Somalia girl

You have no game. Admit it.

You don't know how to talk to women. The prospect of meeting a beautiful woman and getting her phone number is something that frightens you.

Don't worry, you'll learn. I can teach you.

 

[Kaafiye]

I would assume that because Abdi is an Atheist, it would make sense for him to marry a non-believing Somali woman or even a non-Muslim Ethiopian or Eritrean girl.

But no, he wants to marry a devout Muslim girl from a tiny village in Somalia. A woman who doesn't share the same values as him.

Something doesn't add up. Something ain't right.

 

[ciddhartha]

I would like for my kids to have a mother like mine, so yes.