@Xalimos Is this true?

[Amirah]

I just outlined the bare minimum a woman needs to do to make her man happy.

You live in la la land, iA you’ll grow up and find out just how hard the “bare minimum” is.

Some men can be househusbands and women can be the breadwinners its a role thats interchangeable

Relationship isn’t role defined. It’s not a rigid military unit, it’s relationship build on love and trust and hopefully you want it to last a lifetime. Becaus of those things you help each other and give it your 100% in all areas. It’s men or women that think like xaruun that usually find themselves in divorced or in loveless marriages. Somali community has lot of divorces because of this type of thinking. If you noticed his entire comment was about what she can do for him! And he feels so entitled to it too tf? without once indicating what he’s bringing to the table Smh

 

[Material]

You live in la la land, iA you’ll grow up and find out just how hard the “bare minimum” is.

Relationship isn’t role defined. It’s not a rigid military unit, it’s relationship build on love and trust and hopefully you want it to last a lifetime. Becaus of those things you help each other and give it your 100% in all areas. It’s men or women that think like xaruun that usually find themselves in divorced or in loveless marriages. Somali community has lot of divorces because of this type of thinking. If you noticed his entire comment was about what she can do for him! And he feels so entitled to it too tf? without once indicating what he’s bringing to the table Smh

I like western marriages more to be honest. where it feels more modern but ig the same thing could happen that @Xaruun is talking sabout

 

[KingSomali999]

its because we live in the western world. if we were brought up in somalia it would be different

yeh the west tends to feminize men and make women more masculine. Look how cadaan guys are, you can’t lie they are so soft,gentle, miskeen, over all carrying a soyboy energy, not a single men bone in their body. not all of them of course but majority of them are like that. That’s why their women go after every other race.

 

[Netflix]

that dynamic can’t last long. A women has to be admiring and looking up to her husband for it to work long term. If husband is taking in feminine roles permanently than she will lose interest/respect in you, she might love you, but won’t respect you. This is the hardest pill for any men to swallow. that’s why it’s so important you build yourself up in order to keep a women for a long time.

Unlikely physical attraction goes a long way, unless your one of those idiot that believes you can just game a woman.

 

[Xaruun]

its because we live in the western world. if we were brought up in somalia it would be different

Yeah the older generation had way tougher lives. A lot of us are sheltered in comparison so we’ll naturally be more jileec.

You live in la la land, iA you’ll grow up and find out just how hard the “bare minimum” is.

It’s hard not to cheat and be a kind person?

 

[Material]

yeh the west tends to feminize men and make women more masculine. Look how cadaan guys are, you can’t lie they are so soft,gentle, miskeen, over all carrying a soyboy energy, not a single men bone in their body. not all of them of course but majority of them are like that. That’s why their women go after every other race.

Some caadan girls like that soyboy energy. and some faraxs in reer uk act like that cus their mums are so dominant they act like pussies everytime they come near a guy

 

[KingSomali999]

Some caadan girls like that soyboy energy. and some faraxs in reer uk act like that cus their mums are so dominant they act like pussies everytime they come near a guy

yeh they might date them but they always almost cheat on them.

 

[KingSomali999]

Unlikely physical attraction goes a long way, unless your one of those idiot that believes you can just game a woman.

physical attraction is a big role, it all ties in together.

 

[AbdiS]

Brace yourself, my #GeeljirePride trainees, for the rabid Xalimos will arrive very shortly.

 

[KingSomali999]

Some caadan girls like that soyboy energy. and some faraxs in reer uk act like that cus their mums are so dominant they act like pussies everytime they come near a guy

What a fucking L. their moms thinking they are helping them in life while in fact doing the complete opposite. they need to stand up for themselves, Many xalimos will claim that their moms r more strict on them than their male sibling. It has to be like that tho, They unfortunately stunn his masculinity growth if a mom controls a son too much, specially 18+. She is just preparing him for a long miserable life of being dependent on the mother.
Think about it, when a men marries a women, all the responsibilities that her dad had is past over to the husband,not the other way around.

 

[Xaruun]

yeh they might date them but they always almost cheat on them.

Cadaan women cheat on other races too. It’s why black men always splash acid on their face.

 

[Basra]

She is right. Women can’t have everything. Neither can men tbh. Life is about choices. You can’t be working 70 hours a week and have kids and be there for them. Someone else will end up raising them. You can’t have a healthy relationship and not spend time and effort on it

DO u dream of a partner?

 

[KingSomali999]

that only happens with women who were raised in those enviroments. i tell you cadaan women are different when it comes that

wym they are “different” when it comes to that? do you mind elaborating

 

[Material]

wym they are “different” when it comes to that? do you mind elaborating

cadaan women r raised diff compared to us geeljires. they dads probs cucks or smth so they will be more accepting yfm

 

[KingSomali999]

cadaan women r raised diff compared to us geeljires. they dads probs cucks or smth so they will be more accepting yfm

that even makes em crave raw masculinity even more. this shiit is hardwired into women.

 

[Material]

that even makes em crave raw masculinity even more. this shiit is hardwired into women.

it isnt for most genz ones

 

[KingSomali999]

it isnt for most genz ones

it is bruh, They r never satisfied with the soyboy. what cadaans do is they use the soyboy for paying dinner dates, using him for love and attention, while she fucks the other guy on the low. soyboys r emotional so they won’t find out and if they do, the women just says sorry and they r back together.
Why do you think being “choked” is popularized among them? Every women lowkey want a guy they can trust to dominate them

 

[Xaruun]

it is bruh, They r never satisfied with the soyboy. what cadaans do is they use the soyboy for paying dinner dates, using him for love and attention, while she fucks the other guy on the low. soyboys r emotional so they won’t find out and if they do, the women just says sorry and they r back together.
Why do you think being “choked” is popularized among them? Every women lowkey want a guy they can trust to dominate them

That’s disgusting behaviour though. The problem with cadaans is nobody checks cadaan women. Women don’t shame each other like they do in other communities and the men are dayuus who’re desperate for pussy and don’t try to set any standards (even the ‘alpha’ ones are complicit because they’re liberal and will tolerate anything). In the Somali community jileec people can still get fucked over but we have the deen and a strong shaming culture to prevent xalimos from wilding out like cadaan women do.

 

[KingSomali999]

That’s disgusting behaviour though. The problem with cadaans is nobody checks cadaan women. Women don’t shame each other like they do in other communities and the men are dayuus who’re desperate for pussy and don’t try to set any standards (even the ‘alpha’ ones are complicit because they’re liberal and will tolerate anything). In the Somali community jileec people can still get fucked over but we have the deen and a strong shaming culture to prevent xalimos from wilding out like cadaan women do.

give us 40-50 years. well reach that spot. Somalis men r labeled the way r are cuz we really do check that behavior and we r than shamed and they use cadaan men as the standard. This is it’s important to marry a xalimo with deen and make sure her mindset and ahklaq isn’t shaped by cadaan women

 

[elite1337]

What if i as a man wanna be a "housewife" no woman would take me seriously and would probably never want that so how therefore if i make enough money i should be able to have the choice to have a housewife