It really isn't that deep, don't let a bunch of annoying 16 year old Xalimos who in 10 years time will cringe at the thought of being with an ajnabi, fool you. In real life, most of the Somali girls I know dislike the idea of being with a non Somali. I at one point as a young teen, was very into the idea of interracial marriages, now i'm at an age where I actually want to marry, the idea of being with a non Somali man makes me feel very uncomfortable. When girls become adults, things like language, relatablity, being able to banter with someone in Af Somali becomes so attractive to them.
Xalimos, what double standard/privilege that Faraxs have do you hate the most?
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It really isn't that deep, don't let a bunch of annoying 16 year old Xalimos who in 10 years time will cringe at the thought of being with an ajnabi, fool you. In real life, most of the Somali girls I know dislike the idea of being with a non Somali. I at one point as a young teen, was very into the idea of interracial marriages, now i'm at an age where I actually want to marry, the idea of being with a non Somali man makes me feel very uncomfortable. When girls become adults, things like language, relatablity, being able to banter with someone in Af Somali becomes so attractive to them.
I dont deny your and your friends truth but the highlighted point is kinda the point isnt it? And 10 years later is just too late.
Its not too late because at 14- 16, I was a childish highschool student who had no intentions of getting married any time soon as I saw marriage as a distant fareaway thing. I didn't even speak to boys!
I wasn't in my prime at 14- 16, I was GCSE student still wearing baby hijabis who giggled at the idea of talking to guys seriously. So i'm confused about your point. If I was in my late teens and twenties only dating ajnabis then you would have a point. By the the time I started talking to guys, i was exclusively only talking to Somali guys.
Come one, that is a level of hurt someone must be harboring to not understand teens can be senseless. Its part of human nature to develop and see things differently once you enter your 20s and things you used to think about as the distant future becomes a lot less distant.
Its like me getting upset over the idea that a Farax who once had a thing for Latinos as a teen, despite the fact that now as a fully fledged adult he prefers and desires Somali girls. At this rate, it is just jobless behavior.
The internet is really doing a number on you lots psyche. In the real world, Abdis are doing very well with Xalimos and vise versa.
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I am not talking about your situation. Completely disregard your sole experience and think across huge numbers in the community please.
I am also not talking about teen desires but only when they come of age into the dating scene. The highlighted point is my point! You are completely correct in that the majority of Somali girls are loyal and have the very same mindset/approach as you did/have but there is also a huuuge chunk that did not and do not. When they tell you this over social media do you think theyre just talking?
Again tho its perfectly fine because they then crawl back to a Somali man later to just 'settle with' and as a 27 year old male who is a serial dater these are the women I enjoy playing the most truth be told. The miskeen girls and girls who only dated somali guys I treat decently of course.
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Why play them? Why don't you just let them go, whilst you do something productive and find a decent Somali girl to marry?
Anyways, I suppose you and I have different ways of looking at the world. I wish nothing but the best for Abdis who are married to ajnabis. I also don't assume these men are not attracted to Somali women as people have the capabilities of being attracted to different types of people.
Also its calaf.
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Ibrahim hassan
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This mindset is what led to the fall of alot of Western Somali women.The obsession in womens affairs.
KingSomali999
UNKOWN.
if u r muslim and somali it’s our business. f*ck all that mind ur own business shit that’s how they get taken advantage of
No sane naag wants filthy community g*sHow can you be a 'town bike' as a man. Fucking hell man
Men can catch AIDS and shit too, stop acting as if you lot have immunity to it.
If you're batty boi... other than that it doesn't make sense
Men having a lot of sex and women having a lot of sex is different, you xalimos want to make it the same but it isn't
No one likes community dick.
Funny how that doesn't extend to fellow men. I never see Somali guys speak harshly about trapper, gangbangers, ex cons ect. All their energy is towards Somali women.
Its your obsession with women and nothing to do with morality.
It's the same sin under Allah S.W.T.
Ahlie, women can get sex anytime they want but men have to work for it
Xaruun
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They do, all the time
Lol, lets not lie. Hood Faraxs and rappers get love and then get hailed as inspirational when they change their ways.
Lets be honest. No one is swearing at them and calling them xyz.
That's because men are judged for their future and women by their past
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