about the zinna part, women hold the key to sex, so a guy usually has to convince and work for the pussy unless she is some cheap , on the other hand a women can get dick whenever she wants, even the ugly ones that’s why women r held to higher standard when they sleep around.
second of all i ain’t scared of no nigga i always got a strap oh me even when i’m checking the mail. protection wise i was talking about the miskeen people who aren’t capable of violence but get targeted by other gangbangers.
If we talking about strictly morality, which is the angle Somali guys take when lecturing girls, then that reasoning is B. S. If we think about it logically, surely a person trying their hardest to fall into sin and actual 'work' to commit a grave sin is worse as they are being very intentional from the get go, rather than falling into it due to ease? We can all spin arguments if we wanted to.
But at the end of the day, haram is haram and if you don't have that energy when it comes to yourself or your fellow men, then don't bother lecturing or even coming for women. Its reasoning like this as to why women can't take it seriously when men try to advice them. A wise person once said, assess yourself before assessing others. Some Somali men have literally made it seem as though the deen of Allah is only for women and that only women will be judged. You can have 101 excuses, but it doesn't change the fact that it is ridiculous.