I wonβt be doing all that. Nor will I ask him for any tests. As for money I work. I can make my own. He already impressed with his character. Peace.
35 year old woman and 50 year old man.
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I didnβt see that coming. AT all.
To each their own. Like I said a 35 yr old know their own mind.
As for the rest of you ladies out there, please take @πππππππ πππππ advice and value yourselves. Your health is incredibly important. I donβt even think a high Mehr is all that vital, just as long as heβs a generous provider, but take care of yβall health. Itβs imperative!
No one said anything about paying bills. I donβt like your narrative and assumptions. Calm down and drink water.
but how do you even go about saying that without being rude
but how do you even go about saying that without being rude
You'll say that there are conditions for marriage, which is for BOTH of you, to go get tested together and also it allows you to prepare for family planning. For example, trying to see if there are existing fertility issues that need to be tackled early on. If a man refuses, run for your life.
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These girls just hating on you. Us Guys would be gassing each other up
No guy would gass up a man with a 50 yr old woman. You lot would mock each other ruthlessly.These girls just hating on you. Us Guys would be gassing each other up
You lot already insult women that are like a day over 29. You expect me to believe youβre okay with an Islaan?
Khaem
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Don't assume, if my boy likes a MILF what can I say against him? Banter is obvious but none of this.
Again don't assume things about me
they dont like the fact older men can easily get younger women. they need to accept their husbands can bag any woman even at 50
the game is the game
they dont like the fact older men can easily get younger women. they need to accept their husbands can bag any woman even at 50
the game is the game
If this was the case, we'd see a lot of old men with younger women. When in reality, it's either a girl from a poor country with an older man, or it's a sugar baby with a sugar daddy, or some other wealthy man + young woman scenario.
Very few men, possess the looks and charm, to attract women into their 50s. Just look around at the odays you know and try to see what is appealing. And ask yourself this, have you ever seen a Somali oday with a first/second/third wife that is much younger AND from the diaspora?
If this was the case, we'd see a lot of old men with younger women. When in reality, it's either a girl from a poor country with an older man, or it's a sugar baby with a sugar daddy, or some other wealthy man + young woman scenario.
Very few men, possess the looks and charm, to attract women into their 50s. Just look around at the odays you know and try to see what is appealing. And ask yourself this, have you ever seen a Somali oday with a first/second/third wife that is much younger AND from the diaspora?
you dont see them because they dont operate in the same circles or the man is already in a relationship and is satisfied
all I know is younger women is way more open to the idea of large age gap than vice versa. whether its money or charm, the odds are on mens favor
Doesnβt happen a lot in the West. The fact that OP a 35 yr old woman is asking us what we think of her relationship says it all. If she was with a 37 yr old, would she ask us how we feel about it? The thing is amongst Milenials and Gen Z gaps over 7 years are incredibly rare in the West.
Even data backs my point. In developed countries age gaps are like less 8% and most women are married to men who are 2-7 yrs older.
Create a poll and ask the females here. Most of us are all under 35 and ask us if weβd be with someone near enough our dads age.
The odds are no longer in menβs favor as much. In the age of women working, education and the list goes on, what value is a significant age gap? Obviously itβs one thing if people fall deeply in love but in developing countries like Somalia, there is a clear reason and understandable motive as to why women marry older men.
The only times I have seen a young women, into an older man is when he's very handsome. Like those movie stars, it's so rare, you have to see a genetic freak on television or an advertisement, to see the appeal of an older man. And that's just superficial 'lust' talk. But in real-life, odays are NOT cute and a lot of them don't have money. And the ones that have money, are in Africa, trying to stretch it between multiple families, so the juice is not even worth the squeeze.
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What's wrong is how long you took with Lucci, bro. 'Sup with that, wallahi? I've read the recent SPOILERs too and that nigga still basically standing after your recent maneuver. All this while the cook recently yeeted an Admiral's laser and got that nigga staring in shock. What you got to say to this state of affairs, saaxiib?
What circles are you talking about? Where on earth, is it normal for old men to be with much younger women? It's not normal anywhere on earth, and when it happens, it's either an exploitative relationship with a poor girl. Or it's clearly based on financial incentives/proximity to power etc.
The truth is, a lot of older men are NOT attractive, NOT rich, and NOT charming. We're not on a hollywood movie set. And even those unrealistic relationships in movies, are the work of fantasists.
Yes please.
I may do that, with an open-poll so we can see all the names of the women that have answered, because LMAO.
Vote ladies, and let's see what the responses are
Ladies only poll: Would you ever marry a much older man?
I'm talking 10 years, 15 years, etc. And if you select 'yes', please make it clear in your response what your reason or condition is.
www.somalispot.com
