Mixture of Somali mothers babying their sons while disciplining their daughters and the lack of fathers. Especially if the son is the baby of the familyThis is actually true, i heard many aunties wants their girls to marry Somali ciyaal casiir, or a somali man in diaspora or Somalia who they actually know his akhlaaq. if that wasn't found then an ajnabi who is muslim.
Somali men reputation as ciyaal suuq and dead beat is widespread. Which is weird, like why Somali women are more sane, stable and successful by a big margin than Somali men?
Yeah that gave it away. And the double 'i'That double i in Amiin at the end shows that it is a Somali who wrote it
Yeah that gave it away. And the double 'i'
A somali woman with cuqdad probably.
How is this "ajnabi" so aware of Somalis, lmaoo its literally a Somali
I hope the gen z somali men will be better.I think Somali men are the least abusive in the Muslim community. One of the reasons why I’m not an advocate for IR is because for Somali women the grass isn’t greener. If you think Somali men are a problem, other Muslim communities are even worse. Unfortunately misogyny is the bread and butter of Eastern societies including our own but Asiatics take the crown and make Somali men look miskeen. So for her to say that Somali men are the most abusive is ridiculous and I’m not saying this to be charitable to Faraxs. I’m just honest and many on here can’t take my honesty.
However, we definitely have issues with dead beat men and neglectful ones. We also have issues with lack of loyalty and many men have one foot in and one foot out. I think anyone that has an atom’s worth of honesty would admit this.
Part of the blame also has to go to Somali women and now they raise their sons as well. Hence women aren’t innocent in this. I think us women not to stop being xasid towards each other and raise our sons the way we would want our daughter’s husband to be like. Instead, there is a conflict. Somali mothers (not all) baby their sons and couldn’t care less about their son’s future responsibilities towards their wife and kids but get mad when their daughter is married to an irresponsible man.
Somalia by every metric isn't really that much better than the Middle East when it comes to woman's rights, not sure why this is such a reoccurring argument on this site but I think it's completely baseless and harbors extreme generalizations. Most Middle Eastern countries with the exception of Afghanistan and some places in South Asia have lower rates of FGM and fertility with higher rates of literacy and educational attainment. In places like Tunisia, Turkey and the Levant it's completely common for woman to not wear hijab and not face absurd level of harassment. So given all of this what are you even basing this argument off of? Just because some Somali men are being neglectful towards their wives and daughters isn't giving them "freedom" nor is it harboring a positive culture for woman, it's quite literally just being neglectful lol.I think Somali men are the least abusive in the Muslim community. One of the reasons why I’m not an advocate for IR is because for Somali women the grass isn’t greener. If you think Somali men are a problem, other Muslim communities are even worse. Unfortunately misogyny is the bread and butter of Eastern societies including our own but Asiatics take the crown and make Somali men look miskeen. So for her to say that Somali men are the most abusive is ridiculous and I’m not saying this to be charitable to Faraxs. I’m just honest and many on here can’t take my honesty.
However, we definitely have issues with dead beat men and neglectful ones. We also have issues with lack of loyalty and many men have one foot in and one foot out. I think anyone that has an atom’s worth of honesty would admit this.
Part of the blame also has to go to Somali women and how they raise their sons as well. Hence women aren’t innocent in this. I think us women need to stop being xasid towards each other and raise our sons the way we would want our daughter’s husband to be like. Instead, there is a conflict. Somali mothers (not all) baby their sons and couldn’t care less about their son’s future responsibilities towards their wife and kids but get mad when their daughter is married to an irresponsible man.
I think Somali men are the least abusive in the Muslim community. One of the reasons why I’m not an advocate for IR is because for Somali women the grass isn’t greener. If you think Somali men are a problem, other Muslim communities are even worse. Unfortunately misogyny is the bread and butter of Eastern societies including our own but Asiatics take the crown and make Somali men look miskeen. So for her to say that Somali men are the most abusive is ridiculous and I’m not saying this to be charitable to Faraxs. I’m just honest and many on here can’t take my honesty.
However, we definitely have issues with dead beat men and neglectful ones. We also have issues with lack of loyalty and many men have one foot in and one foot out. I think anyone that has an atom’s worth of honesty would admit this.
Part of the blame also has to go to Somali women and how they raise their sons as well. Hence women aren’t innocent in this. I think us women need to stop being xasid towards each other and raise our sons the way we would want our daughter’s husband to be like. Instead, there is a conflict. Somali mothers (not all) baby their sons and couldn’t care less about their son’s future responsibilities towards their wife and kids but get mad when their daughter is married to an irresponsible man.
I think Somali men are the least abusive in the Muslim community. One of the reasons why I’m not an advocate for IR is because for Somali women the grass isn’t greener. If you think Somali men are a problem, other Muslim communities are even worse. Unfortunately misogyny is the bread and butter of Eastern societies including our own but Asiatics take the crown and make Somali men look miskeen. So for her to say that Somali men are the most abusive is ridiculous and I’m not saying this to be charitable to Faraxs. I’m just honest and many on here can’t take my honesty.
However, we definitely have issues with dead beat men and neglectful ones. We also have issues with lack of loyalty and many men have one foot in and one foot out. I think anyone that has an atom’s worth of honesty would admit this.
Part of the blame also has to go to Somali women and how they raise their sons as well. Hence women aren’t innocent in this. I think us women need to stop being xasid towards each other and raise our sons the way we would want our daughter’s husband to be like. Instead, there is a conflict. Somali mothers (not all) baby their sons and couldn’t care less about their son’s future responsibilities towards their wife and kids but get mad when their daughter is married to an irresponsible man.
Somalia by every metric isn't really that much better than the Middle East when it comes to woman's rights, not sure why this is such a reoccurring argument on this site but I think it's completely baseless and harbors extreme generalizations. Most Middle Eastern countries with the exception of Afghanistan and some places in South Asia have lower rates of FGM and fertility with higher rates of literacy and educational attainment. In places like Tunisia, Turkey and the Levant it's completely common for woman to not wear hijab and not face absurd level of harassment. So given all of this what are you even basing this argument off of? Just because some Somali men are being neglectful towards their wives and daughters isn't giving them "freedom" nor is it harboring a positive culture for woman, it's quite literally just being neglectful lol.
Low cases of forced marriages compared to other Muslim communities.Somalia by every metric isn't really that much better than the Middle East when it comes to woman's rights, not sure why this is such a reoccurring argument on this site but I think it's completely baseless and harbors extreme generalizations. Most Middle Eastern countries with the exception of Afghanistan and some places in South Asia have lower rates of FGM and fertility with higher rates of literacy and educational attainment. In places like Tunisia, Turkey and the Levant it's completely common for woman to not wear hijab and not face absurd level of harassment. So given all of this what are you even basing this argument off of? Just because some Somali men are being neglectful towards their wives and daughters isn't giving them "freedom" nor is it harboring a positive culture for woman, it's quite literally just being neglectful lol.
Holyshit you’ve been holding this in for awhileMixture of Somali mothers babying their sons while disciplining their daughters and the lack of fathers. Especially if the son is the baby of the family
lots of the older generation men in the community are horrible fathers man. Either they just leave their wives for god knows what reason, or spend most of their time sipping tea at Tim Hortons having irl #FKDspot meetings instead of taking care of their kids lol. I can only think of 2 older Somali couple pairings in my life that have functioning loving marriages. The rest are moshup.
Sons in their teenage years need their fathers more then mothers. I know that in and out cause I was like that. It was so stressful choosing what my path in life would be after high school without a father to talk about it to Alx after some calcaling I had an adeero who acted like a father figure for me that helped me out in that regard but many niggas don’t have that option.
now to the hooyo bit. They treat their sons like ciyaal. Even my hooyo god bless her soul but she’s like this too can’t even cook cunto on my own without her trying to take control. Sometimes I come home from college or work and see my whole room rearranged and cleaned of all my papers and textbooks on the ground like I’m some 9 year old child kkk. I try my best to be independent but Somali hooyo are gonna Somali hooyo. Meanwhile the daughters are thrown to the woods the moment puberty hits this type of parenting leads to boys who can’t take of themselves. Imagine 25 year old Hibaaq marrying a nigga who can’t even wash his clothing properly? Wallahi I can’t imagine the utter turn off that is
TLDR: Somalis are Muslim AA’s.
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I like to yapHolyshit you’ve been holding this in for awhile