Are Somali men more sexist than other?

[BebsiBolice]

I was watching sheeko sheeko, lol I'm hocked, and I couldn't stop wondering. Why are Somali men so concerned with Somali women's vaginas? What's it to you if a Somali woman is sexually active or not? I keep seeing Somali men question and try to keep trace on Somali women's activities yet I never see Somali women that invested in Somali men and what they're doing with their genitalia. Perhaps the recent outbreak of Somali women marrying ajanib is because they're tired of Somali men and their backwards old fashioned barbaric, sexist ways of thinking?

 

[Bielsa]

South Asians and Middle Eastern men are 100 times more misogynistic. Trust me.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

@Barni giiiiiiiiirl you know damn well I agree with you on most things but let's be honest for once here. Yes Somali men can sometimes be chauvinistic assholes, yes they sometimes joke about Somali women a little too much but they're not the most sexist men. South Asian and Arab women would love to trade places with us. Our men are saints compared to some west African and other Countries.

 

[Rooble]

Barni i remember reading a Somali women from Beligium got offered the biggest meher ever by a White man. Like 300k or some shit. If you go please go for a lot of money. Make us proud baby.

You see to foreigners Somali women are exotic. They are like that Black women every man desires. Real hair, big booty and nice face. Well fed.

To achieve such a fine specimen these people turn to deluted blooded negroids. In Somalia though they are in the many. Its like heaven for them.

Thats why I never understood why they set their own bar so low.

Waa iga talo

 

[John Michael]

I never understood why women get so offended at what men say, especially in regards to their sexual activity etcetc.
If you have no fear of Allah, no fear of disappointment of your parents why in the world should you care about what some strange man says? Messed up priorities if you ask me.

It's just words, and if the shoe doesn't fit then there's no reason to give that nonsense any attention.

Typical feminist behaviour, obsessed with getting the approval of men but at the same time shouting about not needing their approval.

Somali women and men marry ajanabis because that's who they wanted to marry, it shouldn't have anything to do with anyone else.

 

[Al Dhoobe]

Arab men beat their women

Pakis/Indians throw acid at them

Whites: kill them and their children or sleep with their sisters, mothers , steps etc. etc

Afro-American : Just look at rap/hip hop, known as hoes in area codessiilaanyolaugh

Chinese: sell/eat the fetus

 

[Canuck]

I was watching sheeko sheeko, lol I'm hocked, and I couldn't stop wondering. Why are Somali men so concerned with Somali women's vaginas? What's it to you if a Somali woman is sexually active or not? I keep seeing Somali men question and try to keep trace on Somali women's activities yet I never see Somali women that invested in Somali men and what they're doing with their genitalia. Perhaps the recent outbreak of Somali women marrying ajanib is because they're tired of Somali men and their backwards old fashioned barbaric, sexist ways of thinking?

In old job I had two co workers (Korean and Indian)and we became friends you will never believe the stories that they told me about their community the least one is theses two educated working women do not own their bank card every pay check goes to husband and stories that they do to hide the money from them. You will be amazed if you talk to them the other communities. Trust me the Somali men are very good men

 

[John Michael]

Your DP.

Why don't you get a mold done of your personal one. Yaac

 

[Rooble]

Barni the type of Halimo to slice her husbands gus off while he sleeps

 

[Sufiyan]

Go on any mainstream black forum and you will see no shortage of relatively well-off AA dudes who refuse to marry women that have been run through by the entire block or have different kids by different fathers. And those folks come from a matriarchal society that has been ravaged by feminism. They are generally the most feminist black folks you will find.

No man of real value wants to invest his blood and sweat into what bums and losers were getting for free for years. If you want our community to end up like the AA community where 70% of kids are born out of wedlock and 70% of the women never getting married then just say so. Thats where your feminism will take us.

 

[Game]

LooL Somali men aren't worse than others.

 

[Salih]

So it's better to marry a feminist ?

 

[BebsiBolice]

I never understood why women get so offended at what men say, especially in regards to their sexual activity etcetc.
If you have no fear of Allah, no fear of disappointment of your parents why in the world should you care about what some strange man says? Messed up priorities if you ask me.

It's just words, and if the shoe doesn't fit then there's no reason to give that nonsense any attention.

Typical feminist behaviour, obsessed with getting the approval of men but at the same time shouting about not needing their approval.

Somali women and men marry ajanabis because that's who they wanted to marry, it shouldn't have anything to do with anyone else.

Who said it's about approval or validation? The problem is with the constant shaming and belittling of women. Aren't you as a woman tiered to only being reduced to your genitalia, something that men wanna control, use, abuse and shame? It's not about approval it's about women's right to their own agency, something we've never had.

 

[BebsiBolice]

So it's better to marry a feminist ?

How muslims of you to use the word .

 

[BebsiBolice]

Go on any mainstream black forum and you will see no shortage of relatively well-off AA dudes who refuse to marry women that have been run through by the entire block or have different kids by different fathers. And those folks come from a matriarchal society that has been ravaged by feminism. They are generally the most feminist black folks you will find.

No man of real value wants to invest his blood and sweat into what bums and losers were getting for free for years. If you want our community to end up like the AA community where 70% of kids are born out of wedlock and 70% of the women never getting married then just say so. Thats where your feminism will take us.

Why are some of yall so obsessed with other africans or AAs? feminism has been working well in Europe. Try rebutting that.

 

[Al Dhoobe]

Somali men are no different then your brothers & aabo. They'll treat you like family always because at the end of the day all somalis waa ilmadeer iyo ilma abti. Your hooyo becomes his, and his yours. If the relationship goes sour, the baby always has a connection and is forever trusted with the other side of the family. I will only trust to plant my seed in a somali womb

 

[John Michael]

Who said it's about approval or validation? The problem is with the constant shaming and belittling of women. Aren't you as a woman tiered to only being reduced to your genitalia, something that men wanna control, use, abuse and shame? It's not about approval it's about women's right to their own agency, something we've never had.

Live your life is all I'm saying.

Words only have power if you give them power. No man will abuse, use or shame me because I don't tolerate it. I have my own 'agency' but I'd like to know why you feel you've lost your agency from somali men, if you don't mind.

 

[Figo]

We're obsessed with your .... Cause we're the rightful owners.

 

[Sufiyan]

Why are some of yall so obsessed with other africans or AAs? feminism has been working well in Europe. Try rebutting that.

Are you European??? What do you possibly have in common with them at all??? At least with other Africans and even AAs there is a great deal of overlap between cultural expectations and values that are greatly motivated by our religious beliefs. All of that aside where do you think the population issues and the need for massive immigration levels comes from??? Many European ethnics will be minorities in they're own countries because of this. This can all be attributed to feminism and the shift in values it has caused in these countries.

 

[BebsiBolice]

Live your life is all I'm saying.

Words only have power if you give them power. No man will abuse, use or shame me because I don't tolerate it. I have my own 'agency' but I'd like to know why you feel you've lost your agency from somali men, if you don't mind.

From Somali men? From men in general. Women have almost no control of their bodies. Laws are put up to make it harder for women to decide for their own. Abortion is seen as murder. Rape is not taken serious anywhere in the world. Most governments speak of women's agency and anatomy but do nothing to give women power instead they take it away.

Overall sex shaming is just a small problem but it still bothers me. Somali men speak a lot about Somali women. They shame and try to use religion our culture as a mean to dictate over Somali women. I just don't understand why their so invested.