Do Somali girls divorce just for clout?

[bluebird]

This is very common thing with young Somali girls and guys have to be very careful marrying them young imo. A lot of them have a 1 year marriage in mind before they enter it

uh huh. We all want to leave are homes (some of us more than others) but if that thought crosses my mind I'm not just following my whim and wreck my own future and someone elses life lol. All for an escape plan out of the house.

@TheMadMullah its because they target the very small audience of western somali females. Halssa does better because she targets somal/black or anyone with curly hair viewers

 

[Samaalic Era]

Rightly so. Somali dudes that get married to these women are losers

Desperate ince1ls will line up to marry them

 

[Dino]

seriously we men here have got to stop saying divorced women are used goods. i dare you to say that Khadijah ra was used goods when the prophet married her

 

[Samaalic Era]

seriously we men here have got to stop saying divorced women are used goods. i dare you to say that Khadijah ra was used goods when the prophet married her

There are 2 types of divorced women,

How are you gonna compare Khadija RA to your average xalimo

 

[Jaydaan]

Desperate ince1ls will line up to marry them

naah they wont. desperate incel want some action. Not take on a whole other life sxb. They are not idiots

 

[Dino]

There are 2 types of divorced women,

How are you gonna compare Khadija RA to your average xalimo

there is no comparison between khdijah and any other female on earth in terms of rank

But the basic premise remains. calling divorce used goods is just iyal mentality unfitting for any man

 

[Halimak]

There are 2 types of divorced women,

How are you gonna compare Khadija RA to your average xalimo

Its simply pure sexism and has nothing to do with a woman's conduct and everything to do with the fact that she is no longer a virgin and therefore she has been 'used' by her former husband in your eyes.The fact that she has been with a man prior and the fact that YOU regard women as 'goods' basically objects is why you call them this.

How can a woman, who was once in a halal relationship, have been 'used' by her husband? Are all current wives objects that are being 'used' by their husbands?

You might not have a good grasp of English, but that is what the term means.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Its simply pure sexism and has nothing to do with a woman's conduct and everything to do with the fact that she is no longer a virgin and therefore she has been 'used' by her former husband in your eyes.The fact that she has been with a man prior and the fact that YOU regard women as 'goods' objects is why you call them this.

How can a woman, who was once in a halal relationship, have been 'used' by her husband? Are all current wives objects being 'used'?

What certainty can you give us they have all been in a halal relationship when some of them have said themselves they married against their families will?

war wuxu caqli yaraa you will probably be the next on YouTube with the caption “ my divorce story with my ex Madow husband”

 

[Halimak]

What certainty can you give us they have all been in a halal relationship when some of them have said themselves they married against their families will?

war wuxu caqli yaraa you will probably be the next on YouTube with the caption “ my divorce story with my ex Madow husband”

A lot of the girls jumping on youtube were not married interracially. Some have made videos calling out their ex Farax husband. It seems no one is safe in these streets.

Also, not all of them went against their families, believe it or not, some families are okay with interracial marriages.

Also, i'm a woman with self esteem, i don't believe my value has anything to do with what is inbetween my legs. If i was divorced or became widowed, God forbid, i'd still be me.

Also, stop being childish. I'm not married to a madow. You're being dumb now.

Its nothing but pure sexism. If you were divorced or widowed, you'd never see yourself as used goods, yet you want to mentally abuse women into thinking of themselves as objects.

 

[Jaydaan]

Its simply pure sexism and has nothing to do with a woman's conduct and everything to do with the fact that she is no longer a virgin and therefore she has been 'used' by her former husband in your eyes.The fact that she has been with a man prior and the fact that YOU regard women as 'goods' basically objects is why you call them this.

How can a woman, who was once in a halal relationship, have been 'used' by her husband? Are all current wives objects that are being 'used' by their husbands?

You might not have a good grasp of English, but that is what the term means.

I would never call a married woman used....that is sexist I agree. i would be wary of a 30 year old woman sharing all her business on youtube though. A lot of these women seem mentally stunted

 

[Halimak]

I would never call a married woman used....that is sexist I agree. i would be wary of a 30 year old woman sharing all her business on youtube though. A lot of these women seem mentally stunted

There is no denying that such behaviour is unacceptable.

However, clout has become a drug for most men and women and we live in an age in which people do not value the importance of privacy.

By all means you can criticise them for airing their dirty laundry, but saying they are 'used' for being once married is retarded.

 

[TheMadMullah]

A lot of the girls jumping on youtube were not married interracially. Some have made videos calling out their ex Farax husband. It seems no one is safe in these streets.

Also, not all of them went against their families, believe it or not, some families are okay with interracial marriages.

Also, i'm a woman with self esteem, i don't believe my value has anything to do with what is inbetween my legs. If i was divorced or became widowed, God forbid, i'd still be me.

Also, stop being childish. I'm not married to a madow. You're being dumb now.

Its nothing but pure sexism. If you were divorced or widowed, you'd never see yourself as used goods, yet you want to mentally abuse women into thinking of themselves as objects.

I had a lot to say but since it’s ramadan I will have reservations for another day

but what i picked from you is some leftist sentiments and more so a feminist vibes... the stepping stone to the same result as the xalimos above

 

[Halimak]

I had a lot to say but since it’s ramadan I will have reservations for another day

but what i picked from you is some leftist sentiments and more so a feminist vibes... the stepping stone to the same result as the xalimos above

So having self esteem is a form of feminism? Do the women in your family think of themselves as 'used' since that is what you advocate?

You don't strike me as the type that would care, Ramadan or not. You've already illustrated you're not a man with manners.
So good for you.

As Muslim women, our honor is in the way we conduct ourselves, not in whether we are married, divorced or widowed.

If you want to argue otherwise, then just know, you have been influenced by sexist alt right gaal propaganda.

 

[TheMadMullah]

So having self esteem is a form of feminism? Do the women in your family think of themselves as 'used' since that is what you advocate?

You don't strike me as the type that would care, Ramadan or not. You've already illustrated you're not a man with manners.
So good for you.

As Muslim women, our honor is in the way we conduct ourselves, not in whether we are married, divorced or widowed.

If you want to argue otherwise, then just know, you have been influenced by sexist alt right gaal propaganda.

Interested how you switching lanes between leftist feminism and salafism all at the same time.

and being influenced by sexist alt right gaal propaganda lol. Such thing doesn’t cross my mind... but if you mean secularism then yes I’m staunch secularist

 

[Samaalic Era]

Interested how you switching lanes between leftist feminism and salafism all at the same time.

and being influenced by sexist alt right gaal propaganda lol. Such thing doesn’t cross my mind... but if you mean secularism then yes I’m staunch secularist

Didn't you all feminist are well versed in hadith sxb

They have all sorts of hadith ready to deflect their actions

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

I haven't given my opinion on the topic of divorce, I just commented on a vlogger that immensely agitates me due to her inauthenticity. I know you're wary and quite unwilling when it comes to marriage, thats why I never cut too deep in our friendly exchanges on this topic.

I disagree with your view on divorce. You're giving marriage a much higher status than it deserves. You elevate it to the point that disappointment is bound to happen. I'm belong to the school of thought that if it is not working out, walk away. No need to uphold the illusion that marriage is a lifelong endeavour, sometimes it's temporarily. Don't fight for a life God hasn't chosen for you.



Youre too positive in everything. She's not comfortable speaking English, she's holding back to speak Somali.

Arguments happen in every marriage.

 

[Halimak]

Didn't you all feminist are well versed in hadith sxb

They have all sorts of hadith ready to deflect their actions

Its Ramadan bro.

If you think women are objects that are used by their husbands/ex husbands, that is your own retarded view.

Also what exactly am I deflecting?

Am I a doqon to think so low of myself and fellow women that I deem myself as an object and that marriage is basically men using women?

At this rate, saying women are humans makes us feminists.

 

[Abdisamad]

It’s Ramadan ilahey ka cabsadaa. How are they used goods? These women were married acuthubillah.

@Samaalic Era Marriage stunted their growth = they did not grow and still remained childish because they got married young. So they haven’t yet matured compared to a girl who didn’t get married very young. There r exceptions though.

The marriage of naag nool was invalid.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Its Ramadan bro.

If you think women are objects that are used by their husbands/ex husbands, that is your own retarded view.

Also what exactly am I deflecting?

Am I a doqon to think so low of myself and fellow women that I deem myself as an object and that marriage is basically men using women?

At this rate, saying women are humans makes us feminists.

Men and women view each other differently

A virgin woman and a previously married woman are not the same in the marriage market. To you it may seem absurd but that's how it is.

Most men want a woman who is a virgin

 

[Afrique]

All these people cant support themselves as youtubers and has to grow up soon. The naag nool has already left youtube. Other ones has very very small following. The market for xalimos putting on her make up and acting deep on youtube is over-saturated

Why do you think she left youtube Jaydan?