Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
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@TheShinning @VixR @saredochani10 inkaar idinku dhac, may the curse of Abel fall upon you. She just texted me back and said leave me alone. Why did i listen to the advice of feminist radicals.

Now it's back to the drawing board and come with a plan
@Abdalla word of advice, never apologize with just I’m sorry, It’s not enough. Always state why you are sorry and what you could’ve done better.
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
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May Allah bless your marriage.

Her saying you should quit uni is annoying but no reason to be mad. Mine broke a promise
Breaking an Promise can have lifetime repucisson
It dampers an relationship
Mine just want whats GOOD for her
She does not care about how I feel

Yet breaking a promise is on a different level

May Allah help you get through this
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
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Update:
I tried to reconcile yet...
I got an Black Eye, as she dashed an can of cola at me
The agony
Bun this
How long can a man be patient for
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
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@Abdalla word of advice, never apologize with just I’m sorry, It’s not enough. Always state why you are sorry and what you could’ve done better.

I didn't apologise. Just called her to cuss her out.

Always state why you are sorry kulaha, naa tag. I should be sorry for being angry because she broke her promise? Should i put a slave voice on and 'I is sorry madam, I is badly behaved madam, I bring watermelon for you madam'
 
Marriage not my area of expertise.

Relationships, I almost broke up with all my previous flames in an amicable way because I knew them long enough to know their characters before we started dating. All the breakups were due to my lack of commitment to marriage and children. If you know what ticks the person, then you can discuss any issue civilly before it deteriorates to a major bust up. People can mask their real characters long enough for them only to explode as psychos. I’ve seen it happen to friends. Watch out people.
 
My biggest weakness and the reason i expect few divorce in my life time. I have got better....but i think its only so much you can apologies before the other person will always expect an apology. I had some terrible breakups where couple of chicks tried to set me up to get a beating. But outside 1-2 apologies you aint getting more from me
 

Gibiin-Udug

Crowned Queen of Puntland. Supporter of PuntExit
I love this Somali proverb.


If you see someone who’s bleeding and saying they were wronged, don’t believe them, who knows they might have killed the other person.


We need to also hear her side of the story.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
Marriage not my area of expertise.

Relationships, I almost broke up with all my previous flames in an amicable way because I knew them long enough to know their characters before we started dating. All the breakups were due to my lack of commitment to marriage and children. If you know what ticks the person, then you can discuss any issue civilly before it deteriorates to a major bust up. People can mask their real characters long enough for them only to explode as psychos. I’ve seen it happen to friends. Watch out people.

Are you asexual, Aussie?
 
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