Half Swedish half Somali girl knows good Somali

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It’s really funny because her tribe technically in the Islamic sense isn’t Somali but her Somali is very good. Usually kids with Somali dads don’t really care about their identity nor the language and usually marry out

She isn't Somali lineage wise, but she is half Somali ethnically speaking.
 

bidenkulaha

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It’s really funny because her tribe technically in the Islamic sense isn’t Somali but her Somali is very good. Usually kids with Somali dads don’t really care about their identity nor the language and usually marry out
Women don’t have qabiil let’s be honest.

I feel sorry for any half Somali man without a Somali father tho
 

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Who ever taught her Somali, she claims its her mom only, thats freaking impossible, I say pad yourself on the back, you have succeeded, but no way is it just her mom.

Angilina, mothers speak mom language to their kids, the proper language is taught by teacher or dad. As you can see she has had a Somali step dad from young. It probably helped he is Rer Wuqooyi, growing up I noticed Rer Wuqooyi are very tough on their kids when it comes to language.
 
total BS, mothers speak mom language to their kids during the crucial developmental ages, its the dad the kids usually learn the proper language from or school.
Those early years are a child's formative years and thus most influential to their future identity. I dont know where you get the idea that they master the language from their father? school obviously. Plus plenty of fathers not being in their child's life, etc.
 

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Those early years are a child's formative years and thus most influential to their future identity. I dont know where you get the idea that they master the language from their father? school obviously. Plus plenty of fathers not being in their child's life, etc.
Her adopted father from young is Somali, she probably has half siblings who are full Somali. This girl Somali didn't come from her mother alone.


I have spoken in real life to a girl half swedish half somali, similar to this girl, she speak fluent Somali, I asked her mother, she didn't even acknowledge her kid was mix race, and was almost offended. These are scorn women who were dumped by their white lover and returned with their mix race kid to Somali men who ended up raising them.
 
I disagree although the mother does have impact than the father when it comes to language acquisition it really depends on whether they are raised around other somalis or not. My eedo and her kids live with her cadaan husband in an cadaan suburb and those kids can't speak a lick of somali.

While on the other hand my abti (not close family but still) has kids who do speak somali competently and the main reason for that is that they live near and interact with fellow somalis hence they pick up the language easier and get to use it more.
It doesn't matter how good the mother speaks the language if the kids don't have an informal setting within which they get to use the language especially amongst relatives, friends and neighbors.
Your edo purposely did not teach her kids Somali which is surprising as fob Somali women tend to feel more comfortable speaking af Somali. Where are the kids when she is talking on the phone or when relatives come over ect. Who is mostly at home? She clearly only spoke to them in English. If she spoke to them in Somali from when they were babies they would know. But she is the one that choose to speak to them in English.

Kids pick up on languages whilst they're in the womb. Even as newborns they can differentiate their mum's language from others. Forget specific languages, it is mothers that teach babies how to talk, full stop. Any father that ends up teaching his children af Somali especially if he is in a traditional marriage in which he mostly works and the mum is spending more time is incredibly commendable. The reality is that fathers don't spend the same amount of time with their children.

The hooyo is the primary caregiver, the first teacher and instructor. We have unfortunate cases of full Somali kids living in Somali areas with Somali relatives not knowing how to speak Somali because the mum keeps on talking to them in English, especially when they're below the age of 5. Those women purposely didn't make an effort and this will be an issue for this generation. Forget mixed kids, full Somalis born from Western Somali mums and dads now have that issue. I have young cousins who live in Somali populated areas and their kids Somali is atrocious! These young mums keep on talking in English.
 
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Her adopted father from young is Somali, she probably has half siblings who are full Somali. This girl Somali didn't come from her mother alone.


I have spoken in real life to a girl half swedish half somali, similar to this girl, she speak fluent Somali, I asked her mother, she didn't even acknowledge her kid was mix race, and was almost offended. These are scorn women who were dumped by their white lover and returned with their mix race kid to Somali men who ended up raising them.
Even if that's the case it wouldnt be the rule, generally speaking kids are more influenced by their mother's language and culture as they spend more time with them, this tend is how it's in the west atleast.
 
Your edo purposely did not teach her kids Somali which is surprising as fob Somali women tend to feel more comfortable speaking af Somali. Where are the kids when she is talking on the phone or when relatives come over ect. Who is mostly at home? She clearly only spoke to them in English. If she spoke to them in Somali from when they were babies they would know. But she is the one that choose to speak to them in English.

Kids pick up on languages whilst they're in the womb. Even as newborns they can differentiate their mum's language from others. Forget specific languages, it is mothers that teach babies how to talk, full stop. Any father that ends up teaching his children af Somali especially if he is in a traditional marriage in which he mostly works and the mum is spending more time is incredibly commendable. The reality is that fathers don't spend the same amount of time with their children.

The hooyo is the primary caregiver, the first teacher and instructor. We have unfortunate cases of full Somali kids living in Somali areas with Somali relatives not knowing how to speak Somali because the mum keeps on talking to them in English, especially when they're below the age of 5. Those women purposely didn't make an effort and this will be an issue for this generation. Forget mixed kids, full Somalis born from Western Somali mums and dads now have that issue. I have young cousins who live in Somali populated areas and their kids Somali is atrocious! These young mums keep on talking in English.

Why would a Somali woman that married out even teach her kids Somali, anyway? I see no benefit in it, without a clan your children are just gonna be relegated to bottom-feeder status. It's best they teach them their fathers language & culture, that makes more sense to me.
 
Why would a Somali woman that married out even teach her kids Somali, anyway? I see no benefit in it, without a clan your children are just gonna be relegated to bottom-feeder status. It's best they teach them their fathers language & culture, that makes more sense to me.
Every race of women do it. Its mother tongue and learning languages is beneficial. Why do we learn Spanish, Arabic, French?! So why the hell would you not learn a language your that of your mother that you have blood ties to?! Why would they not want to communicate with their grandparents who might speak limited Somali or their abtis ect.

Honestly, some of you men might not accept mixed Somalis, but once born their families do. They have Somali loved ones ect.

They might not be technically Somali, but I hate the fact that some of you lot don't understand the importance of your reer Abti ect. Women aren't human incubators for flip sake.
 

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Even if that's the case it wouldnt be the rule, generally speaking kids are more influenced by their mother's language and culture as they spend more time with them, this tend is how it's in the west atleast.
No its not rule, but its the reality with this one, I think its about 51/49 in favour of the Somali dad over Somali mom, when it comes to offspring learning Somali, and I give it to the dad because he is head of household, he probably decides the future of the child more than the mother and pays for it as well.
 
Every race of women do it. Its mother tongue and learning languages is beneficial. Why do we learn Spanish, Arabic, French?! So why the hell would you not learn a language your that of your mother that you have blood ties to?! Why would they not want to communicate with their grandparents who might speak limited Somali or their abtis ect.

Honestly, some of you men might not accept mixed Somalis, but once born their families do. They have Somali loved ones ect.

They might not be technically Somali, but I hate the fact that some of you lot don't understand the importance of your reer Abti ect. Women aren't human incubators for flip sake.

Why the qashin? You know I already accept Half-Somalis, clan or not. I don't think you get me, what I'm saying is why do some Somali women insist on complaining about this whole "only fathers pass down the clan" thing, when you can use it as a get out card? Run and don't look back lol
 
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