When I was in hargeisa I saw a bunch of dudes walking around in dress shoes and after a couple minutes took out a tissue to swipe off the dust another thing is you will see many guys crossing their legs when they sitGood response, I’m just glad you didn’t attack me lol. But it’s true, we eat food that’s not meant for male body. Really for any body. Full of carbs and sugar. Somali people as pastoralist nomads got their food from milk and hilib. This is why they could walk long distance and survive in rough conditions. You see old pictures, and the men and women all looked so strong and healthy! This whole laxoox, sabaayad and pasta etc it’s result of urbanization and colonization.
The second issue is yes, Somali guys are coddled compare to the women both in the west and back home. I mean my cousin who went to Hargeisa too was telling me that guys over there spend most of their day at cafes or outside just chilling. A lot of the hard work or labour is passed on to Bantus or other foreigners or to the women. Even in the US, it’s embarrassing because in every Somali populated city there’s at least 2 Starbucks were Somali guys 40+ took over, meanwhile you’ll never see that among other minorities.
The world bank was fascinated by this phenomenon that they did 77 page study on it, imagine? Where I live, for example you’ll see an Indian, a trained doctor in India but now a tax driver to make ends meet. Meanwhile you have(I know few personally) Somali men that don’t have any formal training and yet feel too good to do many of the jobs they qualify for. Some say F this and go back home...expecting their wife and/or older kids to fund their lifestyle. So yeah, the reason it appears like the majority never lifted a finger is because they haven’t.
Edit: btw Chinese govt is very smart, every country should be battling the feminization of their men.
Let’s be real most women especially the west are far from feminine either. Most fall in the middle or are masculine. In the west, from the music, tv to lifestyle and food everything seems to be geared towards softening the men and hardening the women.Have we explored Jiini women entering boys and making them feminine??? How come we never see masculine girls? Except Somalia of course. For some reason Somali have more tom boys per capita
Waryaa leave the kids alone lol.. wallahi gen z as a whole are miskeens. Is the millennials that can be jerks.This gen z have the most anxiety, most open and biggest pussy boys you'll ever meet
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It’s true Gen Z are pessimistic about the future while previous generations believed in fixing difficult problems, instead they stick to blaming the boomers.Let’s be real most women especially the west are far from feminine either. Most fall in the middle or are masculine. In the west, from the music, tv to lifestyle and food everything seems to be geared towards softening the men and hardening the women.
Waryaa leave the kids alone lol.. wallahi gen z as a whole are miskeens. Is the millennials that can be jerks.
This gen z have the most anxiety, most open and biggest pussy boys you'll ever meet
Most user born in 1997 to 2012 are gen z
Lol this too funny...they actually dust off smh. I think part of the problem is the women have normalized all these traits. There’s no outcry. You should see my eedo...she’s always praising men that overdress, and are too flashy and meticulous. She’ll say Mash’Allah waa “xarogoonya(sp?)” which something that should be reserved for women lol.When I was in hargeisa I saw a bunch of dudes walking around in dress shoes and after a couple minutes took out a tissue to swipe off the dust another thing is you will see many guys crossing their legs when they sit
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I thought Reddit was half millennials half gen Z. Horta one thing I noticed they are way waaaaay over sensitive. They’re quick with downvotes and also very self-righteous, they think they’re smarter than everyone...that much I can say.It’s why I fucking hate Reddit. These b*tches Gen Z are too depressing, grow a fucking backbone and balls you pussy generation .Y’all still in heels
I don't understand women sometimes, they say they hate men who control them and are domineering but are at the same time attracted to men who have those exact characteristics. Baffles me to no end walaahi.Lol this too funny...they actually dust off smh. I think part of the problem is the women have normalized all these traits. There’s no outcry. You should see my eedo...she’s always praising men that overdress, and are too flashy and meticulous. She’ll say Mash’Allah waa “xarogoonya(sp?)” which something that should be reserved for women lol.
Sitting with your legs crossed is just gay, I said it lol actually in body language when someone crosses their legs like that it indicates submissiveness. That’s why if you ride trains in you’ll see the opposite in males in what’s called “menspreading” which indicates dominance.
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They compete over who can dress the best you will see guys wearing these pins on their suit im not fan of it cause it looks tacky and ruins the outfitLol this too funny...they actually dust off smh. I think part of the problem is the women have normalized all these traits. There’s no outcry. You should see my eedo...she’s always praising men that overdress, and are too flashy and meticulous. She’ll say Mash’Allah waa “xarogoonya(sp?)” which something that should be reserved for women lol.
Sitting with your legs crossed is just gay, I said it lol actually in body language when someone crosses their legs like that it indicates submissiveness. That’s why if you ride trains in you’ll see the opposite in males in what’s called “menspreading” which indicates dominance.
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Nah fam, that actually looks stylish. 10/10 would wear itThey compete over who can dress the best you will see guys wearing these pins on their suit im not fan of it cause it looks tacky and ruins the outfit
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women don’t know what they want until they see itI don't understand women sometimes, they say they hate men who control them and are domineering but are at the same time attracted to men who have those exact characteristics. Baffles me to no end walaahi.
Like what do you want? Men with masculine dominant traits or masculine men with a touch of feminine gentleness? But can a man truly be masculine if he has a feminine side as well? Women are really the greatest test in dunya for men, just as the prophet PBUH predicted.
No we want masculine men, thats respectful and knows his boundaries. Some men confuse masculinity with controlling and domineering. Those are not the same thing. You can be masculine without being an abusive controlling jerk. No women really wants a feminine men. Just strong masculine man that is comfortable in his own skin. But not the whole bs of my way or the highway...that doesn’t make you a man.I don't understand women sometimes, they say they hate men who control them and are domineering but are at the same time attracted to men who have those exact characteristics. Baffles me to no end walaahi.
Like what do you want? Men with masculine dominant traits or masculine men with a touch of feminine gentleness? But can a man truly be masculine if he has a feminine side as well? Women are really the greatest test in dunya for men, just as the prophet PBUH predicted.
How do you explain the case of cadaan and indhoyaar men who are clearly the most feminine among the male populace? These two categories of men usually have a father figure present in their lives and still turn out feminine.Single mothers raising their sons with their daughters is the main cause of male femininity in our community. The black fathers are nowhere to be found and so their sons have no male role model.
We need the sun lol. That’ll cause lack of vitamin D.How do you explain the case of cadaan and indhoyaar men who are clearly the most feminine among the male populace? These two categories of men usually have a father figure present in their lives and still turn out feminine.
As I said before the only way to reverse femininity is to go back to the days when men did everything outside the house and women must remain in the house as full-time housewives again. It's the only solution, unrestrained women cause societal values to collapse.
You must be speaking of our brothers up north, we in central and south Somalia have clan wars now and then, to keep that estrogen in checkIf it’s first world problem then how do you explain the femininity in Somali men in Somalia and abroad?
The image of men walking around with such feminine snobby piece of jewel/pin on a dusty unpaved streets is hilarious!They compete over who can dress the best you will see guys wearing these pins on their suit im not fan of it cause it looks tacky and ruins the outfit
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