I just discovered WHY Femininity in men is increasing in our todays world.

[Amirah]

Your experiences don’t speak for the masses. You clearly have a agenda since you always try to paint somalis men as some deadbeat heartless people, i’m sorry that was your experience but that doesn’t speak for all of us

Yep! I have an agenda! And yes I’m a single mother with 15 kids and deadbeat husband! Yep Somali people have zero issues! And yes Somali men are the most wonderful amazing men on earth! And we are indeed the greatest people in the world! How horrible of me to lie!! God! That Amirah, what an evil evil vile witch!!

 

[Xaruun]

Yep! I have an agenda! And yes I’m a single mother with 15 kids and deadbeat husband! Yep Somali people have zero issues! And yes Somali men are the most wonderful amazing men or earth! And We are indeed the greatest people in the world! How horrible of me to lie! I’m just an evil person! God! That Amirah!

Glad to see you finally accepted the truth

 

[Lostbox]

It’s increasing because men aren’t allowed to be men anymore. They try to shame you by using weird terms like “toxic masculinity”. Another thing is lack of leadership. Only a men can teach a boy how to become a men, with the rise of divorce and court systems favoring women, you end up with women trying to teach boys to be men which is impossible

They go to school where the teacher are all women, surrounded by only female influence, such as their aunts, their own mother single mothers friends. Other Dad's, an even their own uncles have no interest teacher life skills or being apart of their lives

Then everyone shocked when the ghetto thugs being the only men to finally recognise their existence

 

[Angelina]

I've never understood when men use the argument that court system favors mothers and then in the same breath argue that women shouldn't work but look after the kids.

Absolute cognitive dissonance. You cannot hold the view that women are better nurtures and that mothers should stay home and raise kids, but get angry when judges holds the same view and then awards the kids to the mum due to that exact view.

Men need to stop contradicting themselves.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

It’s increasing because men aren’t allowed to be men anymore. They try to shame you by using weird terms like “toxic masculinity”. Another thing is lack of leadership. Only a men can teach a boy how to become a men, with the rise of divorce and court systems favoring women, you end up with women trying to teach boys to be men which is impossible

The education system's basically broken and effeminized beyond belief. Boys and girls learn differently. Boys are restless so learn better through active learning, but the current model is more suited to how girls learn. Couple that with the lack of male teachers and strong role models in their formative years and it's a miracle they're not all wearing lipstick, popping estrogen pills and sucking dick wallahi.

 

[Lostbox]

I've never understood when men use the argument that court system favors mothers and then in the same breath argue that women shouldn't work but look after the kids.

Absolute cognitive dissonance. You cannot hold the view that women are better nurtures and that mothers should stay home and raise kids, but get angry when judges holds the same view and then awards the kids to the mum due to that exact view.

Men need to stop contradicting themselves.

Most people go on about life on what feels right not what is right

 

[Angelina]

Most people go on about life on what feels right not what is right

Men: Women should stay home and look after the kids!

Judges: 'yep, I too believe that, so the mother needs to look after the kids!'

Men: judges are so unfair!

Judge: but isn't a woman's role to raise kids?!

Men: 'tHe CoUrT sYstEm is corRupt '

Very ironic. The court system with regards to custody is a reflection of men's belief.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I've never understood when men use the argument that court system favors mothers and then in the same breath argue that women shouldn't work but look after the kids.

Absolute cognitive dissonance. You cannot hold the view that women are better nurtures and that mothers should stay home and raise kids, but get angry when judges holds the same view and then awards the kids to the mum due to that exact view.

Men need to stop contradicting themselves.

The legal systems shouldn't be playing favorites. Mothers might be better nurturers but they also kill their children more and commit filicide at a higher rate than men do

An Overview of Filicide

Filicide, or the murder of one's own child, is an unfathomable crime. With Andrea Yates's return to trial in the summer of 2006, filicide once again came to the forefront of psychiatric issues in the media. One positive outcome that may be derived from ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[The alchemist]

I see a tendency of people to take their life experience bias and apply it everywhere, even actively seeking patterns to reinforce this, a one-dimensional mental state that affects how they experience life in many ways.

 

[Angelina]

Men who say woman shouldn't work are short-sighted and fucking retarded wallahi.
The legal systems shouldn't be playing favorites. Mothers might be better nurturers but they also kill their children more and commit filicide at a higher rate than men do

The majority of men that complain about the court system on sspot are also hard core traditionalists and argue that women are better suited raising babies.

Tbh, it isn't favoritism its more of a fact that under a certain age, children definitely need their mothers more. Its not even up for dispute. Breast feeding, bonding with mother, the level of care ect is essential.

Yh, with the filicide that is mostly because kids are mostly around their mothers, than fathers. Men do not spend nowhere near as much time with children as women do, therefore it is a futile comparison.

Women are the primary caregivers, so that gives psycho women more of a chance to inflict harm. Also, extreme forms post partum depression can manifest itself in women harming their child.

 

[Caaro]

They do hustle...I’m not saying they sit idle all of them. But the issue rises when they inevitably bounce or when divorce happens. Everything then switches 360. I know plenty of Somali dads who were hard workers and provided but when they hit middle age just left and remarried in Somalia. I know ones who got divorced, and once the ex wife relocates with the kids to a different city never bother to visit ever. I know ones who are divorced living in the same city as their kids and yet only see them on eid.

Why do you think you rarely see older hooyos and abos still together. If you look at late 40s- 50+ demographics I can easily say roughly 80% of women are left single by then. Meanwhile their husbands are overwhelmingly chilling with 20yr olds in Somalia. The concept of sticking by their wife and kids til death do them apart is completely missing. They don’t even wait around for their kids to get married. Usually once the eldest child hits late teens - early 20s, regardless if the youngest is only 5....expect Somali dad to disappear at moments notice. Now millennials and gen z are young still so we don’t know what will change in 15-20 yrs, but the reality today is what I stated above.

that’s pretty dubious ngl. I mean, how old are you for you to know how 50 year old men were in their 20s? Even IF you were 30 years old you would be a baby when they were that young.

There is no way you were old enough to know the behaviour of these men when they were younger. Not to mention I know plenty of older somali couples, way more than I know single somali mothers at that age in fact.

It’s a complete flat lie for you to say most somali men will just leave in their 40s to remarry in Somalia. You may know a couple of them who did that but do you keep track of the hundreds who didn’t?

not to mention you are assuming the actions of one generation (a generation raised in the darkest era and the worst period for Somalis in history) will translate to a newer generation who grew up in the west.

Like come on now, did you seriously say that just because Somali men are providers when they’re young doesn’t mean they’ll leave you when you’re older and never take care of the kids? That seems like you’re just paranoid and is completely baseless.

I should have known better than to assume you’d think rationally when it comes to Somali men and not just think with your emotions.

 

[Caaro]

I've never understood when men use the argument that court system favors mothers and then in the same breath argue that women shouldn't work but look after the kids.

Absolute cognitive dissonance. You cannot hold the view that women are better nurtures and that mothers should stay home and raise kids, but get angry when judges holds the same view and then awards the kids to the mum due to that exact view.

Men need to stop contradicting themselves.

where did that come from? Are you sure you typed that in the right thread?

 

[Angelina]

where did that come from? Are you sure you typed that in the right thread?

No it was a reply to kingSomali who cited the issue of custody laws. I never understood how men cannot see that the laws are a direct result of their views that women should look after children.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

The majority of men that complain about the court system on sspot are also hard core traditionalists and argue that women are better suited raising babies.

Tbh, it isn't favoritism its more of a fact that under a certain age, children definitely need their mothers more. Its not even up for dispute. Breast feeding, bonding with mother, the level of care ect is essential.

Personally, I believe in joint custody. If the guy is a great dad, but things didn't work out, why burden yourself with raising the kids alone and depriving your babies of a great dad? Half of the time when the kids are with the dad, you can just relax and focus on other things.

Yh, with the filicide that is mostly because kids are mostly around their mothers, then fathers. Women are the primary caregivers, so that gives psycho women more of a chance to inflict harm. Also, extreme forms post partum depression can manifest itself in women harming their child.

Let's be honest man, if men were going schizo and kebabing their kids in the oven at twice the rate women were, we'd have to till out application forms just to be able to even bottle feed the little cunts

 

[Basra]

Good response, I’m just glad you didn’t attack me lol. But it’s true, we eat food that’s not meant for male body. Really for any body. Full of carbs and sugar. Somali people as pastoralist nomads got their food from milk and hilib. This is why they could walk long distance and survive in rough conditions. You see old pictures, and the men and women all looked so strong and healthy! This whole laxoox, sabaayad and pasta etc it’s result of urbanization and colonization.

The second issue is yes, Somali guys are coddled compare to the women both in the west and back home. I mean my cousin who went to Hargeisa too was telling me that guys over there spend most of their day at cafes or outside just chilling. A lot of the hard work or labour is passed on to Bantus or other foreigners or to the women. Even in the US, it’s embarrassing because in every Somali populated city there’s at least 2 Starbucks were Somali guys 40+ took over, meanwhile you’ll never see that among other minorities.

The world bank was fascinated by this phenomenon that they did 77 page study on it, imagine? Where I live, for example you’ll see an Indian, a trained doctor in India but now a tax driver to make ends meet. Meanwhile you have(I know few personally) Somali men that don’t have any formal training and yet feel too good to do many of the jobs they qualify for. Some say F this and go back home...expecting their wife and/or older kids to fund their lifestyle. So yeah, the reason it appears like the majority never lifted a finger is because they haven’t.

Edit: btw Chinese govt is very smart, every country should be battling the feminization of their men.

@Amirah by the way, the food we eat is determine by our genes. Men who have a sweet tooth, it means something is deficient in them.

I know many men who run away from sweet. Their tongue just cant stomach it.


I also know lesbian butch who can't stand sugar too. They rather puke that consume sugar.

 

[Basra]

Let's be honest man, if men were going schizo and kebabing their kids in the oven at twice the rate women were, we'd have to till out application forms just to be able to bottle feed the little cunts

little what?

 

[Angelina]

Let's be honest man, if men were going schizo and kebabing their kids in the oven at twice the rate that women were, we'd have to till out application forms just to even pick the little cunts

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[Nak-Muay-Kru]

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little what?

C.U.N.T.S. I can call my hypothetical children whatever I want ma'am.

 

[Basra]

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C.U.N.T.S. I can call my hypothetical children whatever I want ma'am.

 

[The Honored one]

East Asian is the worst example of this