I don't understand women sometimes, they say they hate men who control them and are domineering but are at the same time attracted to men who have those exact characteristics. Baffles me to no end walaahi.
Like what do you want? Men with masculine dominant traits or masculine men with a touch of feminine gentleness? But can a man truly be masculine if he has a feminine side as well? Women are really the greatest test in dunya for men, just as the prophet PBUH predicted.
I think many people have the wrong idea of what masculine traits are being an asshole with poor communication skills, controlling, insecure and jealous are not masculine those are the traits of a toddler apatient, understanding and firm man is a masculine man I think thats what girls want