Sa_Male
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Cabdu was talking about hodans suitor
I met the farah of my dreams but I have reservations..
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ok, I thought he was talking about me lmao
has the thread deviated so much that you are confused what I am talking about now? I am talking about the original story.
But let me reply to what youre talking about, hes clearly not talking about a 50 year old man were talking the unmarried guy in the post.
Sa_Male
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Unbothered needs to understand that men's idea of sexual attraction is in no way connected to their morals.
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then read my part and you would understand why I mentioned SaMale age
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maybe..
honestly I think @Hodan from HR should ask him directly what he meant. Then again, this is being told from Hodans perspective, how about if we heard about the guys perspective. He could say what you just said in your post, I dont think we can call him Ill at this moment of time. He clearly is interested because he complimented her intelligence. Im pretty sure this is just a slip up from a weird question.
Sa_Male
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Thank you so much everyone! I really appreciate your helpful input. I somehow can't reply to everyone but I'll try to respond to some of the recurring points.
Yes, I brought up the question. In my defense, I use a guide that has questions to ask a potential spouse
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As for physical attraction, he seemed average to me in the beginning but the more I got to know his personality and have hanged out with him, I find him very attractive and all the fun stuff..
I am on the asexual spectrum myself and I need to know someone before I can have these feelings. However, his response raises major alarm bells as @Angelina put it, if he has a mama/ho complex, I'm gonna have to suppress my desires and feel ashamed to approach my husband because he has this outdated view on sex. Since he is an academic, I am horrified he thinks like this honestly..
Sooner or later, I will bring it up and I may have to walk away. Part of me does not want to walk away, that's why I am hesitant. He is almost perfect
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I plan to.
It isn't an easy topic to bring up esp since I am the lady here and I brought it up the first time.. but I will bring it up one of these days and will update you guys inshallah
Sa_Male
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Hodan how nervous did he appear? If he was essentially stone cold calm ask him directly, however if he seemed in any way emotional, angry, or confused after you asked him the question, obviously you have to be careful.
Yeah. He is very smart and won scholarships throughout.
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Okay, but i disagree with u samale thats a really weird thing to ask. In fact I wouldnt even bring up that topic, just bring up a similar topic after the conversation started.
Good plan, hopefully you get this figured out
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@CABDULWALI XASAN.
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Asexuality is a spectrum. Some are demisexual, some are sapiosexual and then there's the extremes ones thee asexuals. They view the act as a chore and a means to an end.
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Good luck, you got this sis
I make a face when someone says something I don't agree with. So when he said the first part, I was like, wut?!
Then, he doubled down with the bikini
Alla hogayeeey!!!
Academics and their love to create nonsense terms
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