Interracial marriage is getting overhand

[Bahabskul]

Brothers, we Somalis are officially the most retarded group in the diaspora. Literally most Somali men I know are married to Ajnabi and most Somali women are on the same boat.

Our excuse is "muh halal to marry any race, don't be racist". Nacasyahaw, cousin marriage is halal too, that doesn't mean you should do it, it just means Allah (swt) won't send you to hell for doing it.

The reason I've begun to be against it, is it pretty quickly leads to our community vanishing and dying out. In 50 years, there won't be Somalis if we continue this rate.

Alhamdulilah, i'm strictly talking about the pious people who married. Zaani trash should be shot on sight.

 

[Juliet]

LMAO not true at all. Vast majority of Somalis (and other ethnicities) are married to their own kind

 

[Bahabskul]

LMAO not true at all. Vast majority of Somalis (and other ethnicities) are married to their own kind

I literally don't know a single one

 

[Recon Expert]

I literally don't know a single one

Who cares, just worry about your own self. There's around 20 million of Somalis from back homes, Somalis won't cease to exist if thats what you're worried about.

 

[Bo$$man]

Where do you live? Most Somalis marry Somalis. It really shouldn’t bother you like this. With the way we breed I don’t think we are endangered.

 

[amaal]

I literally don't know a single one

there is alot out here !

 

[amaal]

ya where do you live .. out of curiosity

 

[Sumaaya]

Brothers, we Somalis are officially the most retarded group in the diaspora. Literally most Somali men I know are married to Ajnabi and most Somali women are on the same boat.

Our excuse is "muh halal to marry any race, don't be racist". Nacasyahaw, cousin marriage is halal too, that doesn't mean you should do it, it just means Allah (swt) won't send you to hell for doing it.

The reason I've begun to be against it, is it pretty quickly leads to our community vanishing and dying out. In 50 years, there won't be Somalis if we continue this rate.

Alhamdulilah, i'm strictly talking about the pious people who married. Zaani trash should be shot on sight.

Yes to a Somali king InshAllah

 

[486th President]

It’s only the diaspora I’m worried about no other ethnic group that’s gone through what we did is doing this

 

[QueenofKings]

I think marry who you like do long as it’s halal.

tbh I think the reason some well to do, pious Somalis marry out is because of lack of access to equally yolked Somalis. There is a gender imbalance within the higher tier Somalis with more girls doing well than boys. There’s being scattered across different countries/cities/towns - so limited access to meet up.
And no culture of arranged/introduced marriages that doesn’t centre qabyaalad but centres the couples actual personality/comparability.

it’s not enough to just say ‘marrying ajinabi is bad’ when the underlying issues are never adressed.

 

[Sumaaya]

I think marry who you like do long as it’s halal.

tbh I think the reason some well to do, pious Somalis marry out is because of lack of access to equally yolked Somalis. There is a gender imbalance within the higher tier Somalis with more girls doing well than boys. There’s being scattered across different countries/cities/towns - so limited access to meet up.
And no culture of arranged/introduced marriages that doesn’t centre qabyaalad but centres the couples actual personality/comparability.

it’s not enough to just say ‘marrying ajinabi is bad’ when the underlying issues are never adressed.

We have a few married people on here, I wonder how many are married to a non Somali?


I’m really just trying to be nosey and find out if your husband is Somali, don’t mind me huuno

 

[Mozart]

I think marry who you like do long as it’s halal.

tbh I think the reason some well to do, pious Somalis marry out is because of lack of access to equally yolked Somalis. There is a gender imbalance within the higher tier Somalis with more girls doing well than boys. There’s being scattered across different countries/cities/towns - so limited access to meet up.
And no culture of arranged/introduced marriages that doesn’t centre qabyaalad but centres the couples actual personality/comparability.

it’s not enough to just say ‘marrying ajinabi is bad’ when the underlying issues are never adressed.

Lmao that’s not true. How does one judge “doing well” ? If it’s income, there are a disproportionate amount of guys earning way more money than their female counterparts.

 

[Desert Flower]

Lmao that’s not true. How does one judge “doing well” ? If it’s income, there are a disproportionate amount of guys earning way more money than their female counterparts.

I can’t believe I agree with this. Men earn more, even if they do the same jobs as women. But to answer OP’s question, I find the men who marry ajanabi to be a little, off. I mean, I don’t think they’d mesh well with a Somali woman anyways.

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[Mozart]

I can’t believe I agree with this. Men earn more, even if they do the same jobs as women. But to answer OP’s question, I find the men who marry ajanabi to be a little, off. I mean, I don’t think they’d mesh well with a Somali woman anyways.

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Loool I used to see him walking his Chihuahua in the mornings when I went sixth form

 

[Desert Flower]

Loool I used to see him walking his Chihuahua in the mornings when I went sixth form

Loooool, sad. He’s so refined. It’s the British accent and subtle chest hair for me.

 

[QueenofKings]

Lmao that’s not true. How does one judge “doing well” ? If it’s income, there are a disproportionate amount of guys earning way more money than their female counterparts.

I feel like you and I have had this discussion before, and you perceive any critique of Somali men as an insult. Which it isn’t. So to save us both the back and forth. Maybe it’s better I ask you, what do you think causes people marrying out? Do you think there are any challenges Somali men/women face that might make it harder for them to find each other.

 

[QueenofKings]

Loooool, sad. He’s so refined. It’s the British accent and subtle chest hair for me.

He always opens just 1 button too much to flash his 5 strands of straggly chest hair I cannot

 

[Desert Flower]

He always opens just 1 button too much to flash his 5 strands of straggly chest hair I cannot

Ma aragtay? But I mean, he knows what he’s doing loool.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Ma aragtay? But I mean, he knows what he’s doing loool.

I find chest hair gross.

 

[Desert Flower]

I find chest hair gross.

Most Somali men don’t have it. So he’s definitely an outlier. Maybe that’s what piqued my interest. Like adeer isku xishood!