Is it a good idea to marry someone who has already been married before with a child?

[Lord]

Is it a good idea to mary someone who has already been married before with a child?Personally i think its a good idea because you have experieance unlike most somali who goes into a relationship clueless.

Unless you are like this

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[cawaale]

A woman’s malab is never the same after childbirth, don’t be ridiculous

 

[Hassan mahat]

Marry the person if you love them. I think that is the largest factor.

 

[Abu Hesi]

Depends if her child is girl or a boy.

 

[Hassan mahat]

Depends if her child is girl or a boy.

 

[Molotoff]

No. I want to go where no man has ever gone before.

 

[Xaruun]

Not sure. I’d say no, but attraction/‘love’ is a drug.

 

[Abu Hesi]

Nigga you a child, this is grown folks shit.

 

[Revolutionary]

I don't want to be a step father

 

[THE SOMALI POLYGLOT]

I don't touch used incubators

 

[dr.leorio]

No. What would you gain from doing that? Absolutely nothing.

We aren't living in normal times. If this was during a different time period I would answer differently but in the modern world, 9/10 she's single because somethings wrong with her. Either she ran off the babydaddy because she's toxic or the babydaddy is a deadbeat loser which automatically makes her a loser. Either way, run!

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Depends if her child is girl or a boy.

Why does it make a difference. A child is a child in the end of the day

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

Poor kid.

 

[Abu Hesi]

Why does it make a difference. A child is a child in the end of the day

Nope, girls are more gentle towards the steps father. Niggaz hold grudges, talking about you ain't my daddy all the time.

 

[Juke]

Why would a guy contemplate a single mother if they have better options

 

[Lord]

Why would a guy contemplate a single mother if they have better options

Because everyone makes mistake in a relationship and you can use that to your advantage. I think experience is important when it comes to relationships

 

[Angelina]

Let people marry whoever they want to marry. Misogynists in this thread are going to come in going on about these women being used goods ect. Many of them have a divorced mum and a stepdad or are product of their mums second marriage. I dare you say that shit to a woman in your family!

Qashin billa akhlaaq men.

 

[Angelina]

No. What would you gain from doing that? Absolutely nothing.

We aren't living in normal times. If this was during a different time period I would answer differently but in the modern world, 9/10 she's single because somethings wrong with her. Either she ran off the babydaddy because she's toxic or the babydaddy is a deadbeat loser which automatically makes her a loser. Either way, run!

How does a woman predict that her husband will be deadbeat, an abuser or just downright nasty?

We don't date for years or cohabit in our community. I know girls who were in arranged marriages who were abused/disrespected by their ex partners.

Honestly, you're got some real issues with women you need to sort out. I'm sure you have some miskeen divorced habayaros, please call them a loser whilst you're at it.

 

[Jungle]

If is just the one and the childs 5 or under not really a deal breaker for me but other shit is that may seem trivial to some of you aint going for.


I seen mid/late 30s faraxs walk into homes with multiple teenage boys and you'd expect fuckery but most of the time people get along. Obviously 99% of the time the farax already has kids before they step into something like this.

Madow men in general (including Somali) barely even take care of their biological kids, what makes you think they’d be empathetic enough to take care of other ones???? Only cadaan guys would be willing to do that

You'd be surprised.

 

[Boogie]

How does a woman predict that her husband will be deadbeat, an abuser or just downright nasty?

We don't date for years or cohabit in our community. I know girls who were in arranged marriages who were abused/disrespected by their ex partners.

Honestly, you're got some real issues with women you need to sort out. I'm sure you have some miskeen divorced habayaros, please call them a loser whilst you're at it.

There are clear signs before marriage..