Is it a good idea to marry someone who has already been married before with a child?
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Villainess
smooth talk on a rainy summer evening
you do realize that there's a difference between dating and courting rightSomalis should encourage proper dating culture, how the hell can you get married (one of the biggest commitments of your life) to someone without thoroughly knowing the person and their character first? That’s pretty much guaranteed divorce and singlemother/fatherhood in the future
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Courting puts a lot of pressure on the guy, he’d have to be all formal and stuff, wheras dating seems a lot more relaxed and you’d be able to see his true colours more easily
you do realize that there's a difference between dating and courting right
Courting puts a lot of pressure on the guy, he’d have to be all formal and stuff, wheras dating seems a lot more relaxed and you’d be able to see his true colours more easily
Single mothers are for beta males who can't get laid, if I'm starting a family it's with a childless woman.
You're 13.
Boogie
Islam wins doesnt take Ls Long Live Somalia 🇸🇴
I don't engage in arguments with misandrists.
You women always quick to use the Prophet (SAW) to say that men are lacking in something, but why can't women be more like the wives of the Prophet? Respect a man's views and accept it like the women of the past, is that so difficult?
Do you lack honesty? Or do you lack reading skills?
I respect men's decisions not to marry divorced women, heck I wouldn't marry a divorced man.
But you think its okay to insult men who do and call them 'beta'? So basically now its acceptable to insult our prophet s.a.w? May the curse be upon those who do that.
Why do you need to insult others? Where is your athab?
Why do you lot think its acceptable to insult and degrade?
I can't believe you're defending someone call men who marry widowed and divorced women beta? Do you honestly think that is acceptable? What type of Muslim are you?
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Okay hol' up who's insulting people, me? I didn't call anyone a beta alright, I just said that some men don't prefer marrying women who have children from other men. It's a complex issue and there are some who'd like to skip such a situation.
I for one wouldn't really mind marrying a woman with a kid from a previous marriage, but I strongly prefer a marriage with only my children to take care of.
This isn't about opinons.
You called men that marry widowed or divorced women beta.
The prophet s.a.w and the sahabas did it and men far greater than you. You insult them for a few laughs on sspot.
I'm not a single mother nor would I marry a single dad.
But some of you lot are finished authobillah
Make tawba.
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These men wouldn’t be able to make a woman even look their way if their lives depended on
it, hence, the bitterness. Dunno where the kibir comes from
Is this some sort of mental illness?
I responded to a man who insulted men who do. You could see this as I quoted him. You then proceeded to attack me and say that we women are quick to use the prophet s.a.w. But no energy for the man who used insults and no athab. You then said I should be like the women of the past be okay with degrading and insults. Authobillah.
I never @ you first.
You're free not to want to be with one. I would be a hypocrite if i had issues with that because i too would not want to be with one. I have issues with men who think calling women 2nd hand, calling men beta ect. That is not opinions, that is down right maliciousness
Boogie
Islam wins doesnt take Ls Long Live Somalia 🇸🇴
@HiraanBorn dont engage in argument with these people it will never end just ignore
Young man. Do you think men calling other men beta for marrying a single mother acceptable?
If you don't, why have issue with me saying this is wrong?
Boogie
Islam wins doesnt take Ls Long Live Somalia 🇸🇴
I never said that. Heck, I didn't even know he said that but can u please stop arguing? Yes he is in the wrong but stop making it worse by engaging in conversation but of course u wouldn't listen because if I say something u dont like or call u out u ignore
Halimo-2018
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Depends how many kids and how much you like the person.
When you replied saying that who insulted the Prophet (SAW) and Sahaba you were literally quoting me. Are you soft in the head or what?
I didn't attack you specifically, heck I didn't attack anyone. All I said was women like to use the Prophet's Character to criticise men. Does "women" specifically mean you? Do you represent all women now or what?
