Is it normal for husband to joke about killing spouse?

[Malab]

My husband makes up scenarios in his head where he will catch me cheating on him with someone and he will state how my body won’t be found. He’s been saying it more frequently and has become possessive and keeps commenting on my beauty. It’s been freaking me out.

 

[Yaraye]

Not normal. Quickly leave before it becomes a reality.

 

[Shimbiris]

This will be the post they zoom in on at the start of your future documentary. Thank you for dying for a good Netflix flick. Much love.

 

[Malab]

This will be the post they zoom in on at the start of your future documentary. Thank you for dying for a good Netflix flick. Much love.

are you making a joke?

 

[Garaad Awal]

My husband makes up scenarios in his head where he will catch me cheating on him with someone and he will state how my body won’t be found. He’s been saying it more frequently and has become possessive and keeps commenting on my beauty. It’s been freaking me out.

Im a married man and never thought of that. He is mentally sick, tread carefully.

 

[Yaraye]

Im a married man and never thought of that. He is mentally sick, tread carefully.

Tread carefully?! Tread out, sis!

 

[Garaad Awal]

Tread carefully?! Tread out, sis!

This shouldn’t end the marriage. He needs to go to see professional help. But if he refuses then she needs to leave. This is clearly the type of guy that kills his spouse in a fit of rage.

 

[Yaraye]

This shouldn’t end the marriage. He needs to go to see professional help. But if he refuses then she needs to leave. This is clearly the type of guy that kills his spouse in a fit of rage.

The possibility of OP dying shouldn't end the marriage right away?

 

[Bari]

We're missing out on a lot of context. Do y'all have kids, is he the violent type, does he mention it in a joking manner or does it feel like a weird fixation?

 

[Malab]

We're missing out on a lot of context. Do y'all have kids, is he the violent type, does he mention it in a joking manner or does it feel like a weird fixation?

He does have anger issues which he likes to dismiss like once he punched a hole in the door. He has become possessive lately and worried the way other men look at me even though I don’t entertain men and his afraid of losing me even though he doesn’t fix the issues and has started making these jokes more frequently

 

[wonyluvr]

immediate divorce

 

[wonyluvr]

He does have anger issues which he likes to dismiss like once he punched a hole in the door. He has become possessive lately and worried the way other men look at me even though I don’t entertain men and his afraid of losing me even though he doesn’t fix the issues and has started making these jokes more frequently

Just leave him he’s not okay in the head also get him some mental help

 

[wonyluvr]

@Malab im worried please leave him and get him some help no body should ever speak like this about someone they claim to love

 

[Bari]

He does have anger issues which he likes to dismiss like once he punched a hole in the door. He has become possessive lately and worried the way other men look at me even though I don’t entertain men and his afraid of losing me even though he doesn’t fix the issues and has started making these jokes more frequently

You have 2 options, couple's therapy if you believe that the relationship is salvageable or divorce. My personal advise would be to leave the situation as your life is always the priority, the ball is in your court.

 

[NidarNidar]

Stay safe sister don't ignore the warning signs, I suggest talking to close family/friend whom you trust and find help.

 

[Yaraye]

Just leave him he’s not okay in the head also get him some mental help

f*ck getting him help, she needs to get out quick. It's not our job to fix all people, especially those who put your life at risk.

 

[Journey.]

No, it's not normal at all. It's very concerning.

 

[Shimbiris]

Jokes aside, he sounds p0rn addicted. I was once before I got that shit out of my life for good. It, at its core, is a form of cuckoldry. You're being a voyeur and watching other people copulate. It's emasculating for both men and women and fills your head with lots of weird and paranoid thoughts about your partner cheating, often cos that's a popular scenario in p0rn and because you've conditioned yourself to get off on OTHER people doing it whether you think about it consciously or not.

This is also probably why I've met a fair number of women who've confided in me that ex partners eventually revealed some weird cuck fetish despite also being possessive and scared of the girl cheating.

I never got that weird or bad but I still did have the occasional paranoid thoughts about being cheated on and things like that, despite never having it happen to me, which I didn't really voice. Now, after being away from that garbage long enough I've noticed that shit never even occurs to me. I'm very secure in that sense when I'm seeing someone. And if it happened I can tell my reaction wouldn't be nuclear. I'd just shake my head, pack my shit and never speak to them again.

 

[altrae]

Ive heard stories like this and it really does become a Reality many times. I'd advice you to get the hell out before things get worse.

 

[Farsi]

How often do you engage in bedroom activities with him?