Is Your Wife Texting and FaceTiming Men Valid Grounds for Divorce?

Are you married?

She’s straight up emotionally cheating. Did you even read the thread? See here:

She’s literally flirting with other men AKA commiting zina of the tongue. She didn’t just have a friendly conversation (which she isn’t halal). This is cheating and will lead to full on zina. If my SO did the same then I’d divorce her instantly.

that’s not the definition of zina. Flirting is not a zina, it’s not good but under Islam it does not fall under zina. Also you need several witnesses for something to be classified as zina. OP has yet to clarify so far exactly what he meant when he said “she was flirting” and even with whom exactly.
 

Amazonian

Cirka Gacan Saarte 💪🏾🇸🇴
Men and women cannot be friends.
She can facetime her family and her relatives all she wants. But no man will accept having a wife that facetimes random dudes
 

Hassan Garguute Buldanana

AUG 25, 2023
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she was flirting with 2 guys in one night, I’ve told her to stop being friendly and to protect my trust but she deceived me


I really want to forgive her and reconcile but in the long term I know I can’t mend her she’s too loose. A Muslim doesn’t get bitten from the same snake hole twice
She keeps doing this, boowe you have to send her ass packing. People have to do research on the person before getting married and dont let physical attraction be the number 1 reason for marriage. This goes for both gender. Inshallah khair, sit down together with both sides of the family.
 

Mercury

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The definition of “flirting” in and of itself can change depending on who you’re talking to. For example, a guy that I use to talk to would get upset and accuse me of flirting if I was on the phone with him and another guy greeted me and I dare greet him back or if he ever heard me laughing with another guy present. None of it was flirting ofc, I was just friendly and knew a lot of people since we’re in a program together. So my point is people have different definitions based on their past experiences or trauma leading them to become way too guarded for their own good sometimes, you just never know is my point.
Exactly some people who are friendly people mistake it for flirting but prior to getting married they should have talked about things like having friends of the opposite sex
 
The definition of “flirting” in and of itself can change depending on who you’re talking to. For example, a guy that I use to talk to would get upset and accuse me of flirting if I was on the phone with him and another guy greeted me and I dare greet him back or if he ever heard me laughing with another guy present. None of it was flirting ofc, I was just friendly and knew a lot of people since we’re in a program together. So my point is people have different definitions based on their past experiences or trauma leading them to become way too guarded for their own good sometimes, you just never know is my point.
Let's be real here, he most likely doesnt mean what your previous man has said flirting was, the definition is clear and she doing this with men, especially ones he doesnt know, while being married, and the marriage only starting a month ago is red flag after red flag, you're being oblivious to this of course. If she had a problem its for her to come out with it and not start flirting with other men, thats it
 

Hassan Garguute Buldanana

AUG 25, 2023
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Exactly some people who are friendly people mistake it for flirting but prior to getting married they should have talked about things like having friends of the opposite sex
:gucciwhat:Talk about flirting with random guys as a married woman? what is there to talk about? that goes without saying that its unacceptable. He clearly said flirting.
 

Xaruun

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that’s not the definition of zina. Flirting is not a zina, it’s not good but under Islam it does not fall under zina. Also you need several witnesses for something to be classified as zina. OP has yet to clarify so far exactly what he meant when he said “she was flirting” and even with whom exactly.
OP seems normal enough, his wife was most likely properly flirting with those men. He even said she was ‘loose’ and had ‘no respect’, so the logical conclusion is that she said some dirty shit i.e. zina of the tongue. She’s obviously trying to start an emotional/sexual affair and OP needs to bail out ASAP. Also, you don’t need witnesses to classify zina, you need witnesses to prove zina.
 
Aren’t you like 15 or something? What do you know about marriage? Also to say she’s “cheating” so definitively is haram. Word of advise kiddo don’t take such hard stance on anyone’s affairs, just try to advise them what you’d wish someone else would advise you or your SO if you were in their shoes.
How she is not cheating isn't flirting cheating with a man tht is not your husband tht is haram and the husband has right to divorce her
no one doesn't know if she committed zina sexly act but it is kind cheating her flirting with other man or man's and facetime in front of him or behind him
 
The definition of “flirting” in and of itself can change depending on who you’re talking to. For example, a guy that I use to talk to would get upset and accuse me of flirting if I was on the phone with him and another guy greeted me and I dare greet him back or if he ever heard me laughing with another guy present. None of it was flirting ofc, I was just friendly and knew a lot of people since we’re in a program together. So my point is people have different definitions based on their past experiences or trauma leading them to become way too guarded for their own good sometimes, you just never know is my point.
U talking about a guy tht is not your husband Ofc he won't mind
The person tht made this thread is talking in marriage not outside marriage and I think he marry tht woman and she is clearly cheating
 
Crazy thing is my mother told me to marry her, I trusted her

This girl wears niqab and goes to a Islamic university and went to Islamic school her whole life
 

Boogie

Islam wins doesnt take Ls Long Live Somalia 🇸🇴
Crazy thing is my mother told me to marry her, I trusted her

This girl wears niqab and goes to a Islamic university and went to Islamic school her whole life
Trust your gut
 
Crazy thing is my mother told me to marry her, I trusted her

This girl wears niqab and goes to a Islamic university and went to Islamic school her whole life
Did you ever asked her what does she think she’s doing? What was her answer? Did you ask her why are you talking to these men? What was her answer? Did you tell her this marriage won’t work if you continue this? What was her answer?
 

Amazonian

Cirka Gacan Saarte 💪🏾🇸🇴
Crazy thing is my mother told me to marry her, I trusted her

This girl wears niqab and goes to a Islamic university and went to Islamic school her whole life

Start talking to other girls on your phone, matter a fact put it on speaker and wait for a reaction from her. If she doesnt care or doesn't show any signs of envy. Then your wife mostly lilkely moved on and is cheating on you sxb
 

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