Ladies, Im going to give you a cheat code on finding a great man

[Sloane Ranger]

Then hes a keeper.
No sisters
No video games.
Clearly thr guy is serious

My thoughts exactly. I hate video games with a passion and I'd rather remain single then marry a guy that is so childish.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

the eternal Sufi strikes again

Alhamdu'llilah .

 

[Omar del Sur]

Alhamdu'llilah .

Whoever does good it's to their benefit, whoever celebrates Mawlid and breakdances in the masjid..... it's to their own detriment.

 

[MuslimManMe]

Whoever does good it's to their benefit, whoever celebrates Mawlid and breakdances in the masjid..... it's to their own detriment.

 

[Distant1]

Very well said. Getting along with sisters seems important.

 

[Omar del Sur]

I can't stop you from promoting Sufi propaganda but I think it should be clearly labeled as being Sufi propaganda- not with clickbaity titles like "how the British deceived the scholars" that are not upfront about their Sufi agenda. Mawlid is an innovation and whoever celebrates it is an innovator.

 

[Omar del Sur]

"If he merely celebrates the Mawlid without any shirk involved, then he is an innovator and he should not be an imam"

-Sheikh Ibn Baz

Praying behind a sufi imam - Islam Question & Answer

islamqa.info

 

[MuslimManMe]

I can't stop you from promoting Sufi propaganda but I think it should be clearly labeled as being Sufi propaganda- not with clickbaity titles like "how the British deceived the scholars" that are not upfront about their Sufi agenda. Mawlid is an innovation and whoever celebrates it is an innovator.

Brother lets not argue here. I know you follow 5 scholars from the Salafi cult that has made it its business to disparage the Muslims but i genuinely love you for your Islam and your contributions to this forum.

 

[MuslimManMe]

Advice to the Ulama of the Najd - Yusuf al-Rifa'i

 

[Omar del Sur]

Brother lets not argue here. I know you follow 5 scholars from the Salafi cult that has made it its business to disparage the Muslims but i genuinely love you for your Islam and your contributions to this forum.

Wallahi it is nothing personal. I had no problem when you wanted to give advice to women on choosing a husband. But you chose to drag Salafis into this.

I do not belong to any sect known as Salafiyyah and I do not think I am a fanatical adherent of any particular Salafi scholars. However, I believe in the Salafi methodology. If a scholar is ever wrong, I think it is not because he is following the Salafi methodology but because he is not in line with the Salafi methodology.

We have to do our best to understand Islam as the first three generations understood it.

It is nothing personal against anybody. It is not about any particular persons. It is about ideas.

 

[MuslimManMe]

I can't stop you from promoting Sufi propaganda but I think it should be clearly labeled as being Sufi propaganda- not with clickbaity titles like "how the British deceived the scholars" that are not upfront about their Sufi agenda. Mawlid is an innovation and whoever celebrates it is an innovator.

Wallahi it is nothing personal. I had no problem when you wanted to give advice to women on choosing a husband. But you chose to drag Salafis into this.

I do not belong to any sect known as Salafiyyah and I do not think I am a fanatical adherent of any particular Salafi scholars. However, I believe in the Salafi methodology. If a scholar is ever wrong, I think it is not because he is following the Salafi methodology but because he is not in line with the Salafi methodology.

We have to do our best to understand Islam as the first three generations understood it.

It is nothing personal against anybody. It is not about any particular persons. It is about ideas.

And yet you brought a fatwa by someone who died 2 decades ago (Bin Baz Raheemahullahu) and you post videos of someone living today (fawza) in a way that shows that you do taqlid of them.

Its ironic

I do taqleed of Malik and his students when it comes to fiqh
I do taqleed of Abu Hassan and his students in Aqeedah

They understood the salaf far better than those you have attached yourself to.

So lets leave off the slogans akhi, this is not 1997 when people were unaware of the fitna of the Salafi sect

 

[Omar del Sur]

And yet you brought a fatwa by someone who died 2 decades ago (Bin Baz Raheemahullahu) and you post videos of someone living today (fawza) in a way that shows that you do taqlid of them.

Its ironic

I do taqleed of Malik and his students when it comes to fiqh
I do taqleed of Abu Hassan and his students in Aqeedah

They understood the salaf far better than those you have attached yourself to.

So lets leave off the slogans akhi, this is not 1997 when people were unaware of the fitna of the Salafi sect

Posting videos of Sheikh Fawzan doesn't prove I do taqleed of him.

To defend Mawlid, you posted a video of someone who is probably still alive.

Saying such-and-such person lived two decades ago isn't proof against them.

Sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah said Mawlid is an innovation centuries ago.

Mawlid is blatantly an innovation. The earliest generations didn't celebrate it. It was invented later on.

 

[Viscount]

If you want to know whether a man, after he satisfies the physical requirements that you have, wlll treat you right, then theres only one test.

No, it is not about how he treats his mom because - like it or not - every man is a mama's boy.

Rather, look as to how he treats his sisters - both younger and older.
For the younger sister, a man should have an overflowing level of love and mercy for her that is second only to the one he has for his mother.
For the older sister, he should have some type of respect for her and willingness to shield her shortcomings even if they dont particularly get along.

If a man has both, hes a keeper.
If he has the first but not the second, hes most likely a keeper.
If he has the second but not the first, be wary.
If he has neither, then run.

this is ain't no cheat code, I got only brothers lol.

 

[Halimo-2018]

This is the best advice I've seen thus far may I also add: enjoy the ride ladies dont drive yourself nuts finding mister perfect no is perfect do your best and leave the rest to Allah. In the mean time be the best you can be in eeveryway and develop your own relationship with Allah

 

[King Khufu]

As a guy my rule of thumb is:
Happy Girls Only

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Whoever does good it's to their benefit, whoever celebrates Mawlid and breakdances in the masjid..... it's to their own detriment.

We don't do breakdances and I always pray in Salafi mosques because I'm in London lol and I never mentioned doing Mawlid its to my understanding that its practised by some Sunni sects as well.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

the manliest for the win...

 

[Ibrahim hassan]

I'm close to my second oldest and youngest sister, I tease them all the time. But I'm scared of my oldest sister she's a tyrant with violence issues.

 

[KingSomali999]

If you want to know whether a man, after he satisfies the physical requirements that you have, wlll treat you right, then theres only one test.

No, it is not about how he treats his mom because - like it or not - every man is a mama's boy.

Rather, look as to how he treats his sisters - both younger and older.
For the younger sister, a man should have an overflowing level of love and mercy for her that is second only to the one he has for his mother.
For the older sister, he should have some type of respect for her and willingness to shield her shortcomings even if they dont particularly get along.

If a man has both, hes a keeper.
If he has the first but not the second, hes most likely a keeper.
If he has the second but not the first, be wary.
If he has neither, then run.

this is false on so many levels. i have older sisters but i don’t respect them because of what and how they do things, after all respect is a two way street.
better advice would be look at how he treats people he cherishes deeply. you dont want a cuck who respects everywhere and people talk on him without having any respect in return.

 

[SOMALIKNIGHT]

You cannot compare someone's relationship with their siblings to how they will treat you. He can treat them good but treat you bad. He could treat them bad but treat you good. Just see how he treats you. My friend's sister is a bad woman and he is a good man so he hates her.