Ladies, Im going to give you a cheat code on finding a great man

[Omar del Sur]

We don't do breakdances and I always pray in Salafi mosques because I'm in London lol and I never mentioned doing Mawlid its to my understanding that its practised by some Sunni sects as well.

Oh, I wasn't saying you do any of that. I just mentioned those things to illustrate why extreme Sufism is dangerous.

 

[Malikfiqi]

What if he don't have sisters

Check if he abuses his cat that’s also a tell tale sign, for instance is he always bothering the cat and such will show you how he will bother you

 

[IGotDaAnswers]

If you want to know whether a man, after he satisfies the physical requirements that you have, wlll treat you right, then theres only one test.

No, it is not about how he treats his mom because - like it or not - every man is a mama's boy.

Rather, look as to how he treats his sisters - both younger and older.
For the younger sister, a man should have an overflowing level of love and mercy for her that is second only to the one he has for his mother.
For the older sister, he should have some type of respect for her and willingness to shield her shortcomings even if they dont particularly get along.

If a man has both, hes a keeper.
If he has the first but not the second, hes most likely a keeper.
If he has the second but not the first, be wary.
If he has neither, then run.

What if he ticks all those boxes but doesn’t want to commit to you lool
I don’t know why beautiful women act like they are the prize all the time , especially older deflowered ones they definitely aren’t that much of a prize.

they are only the prize for low to average value men but when it comes to a High value man he is the prize thus he picks and picks as many as he wants, he doesn’t wait to get picked by a woman in other words he lives life on his own terms.

 

[Angelina]

What if he ticks all those boxes but doesn’t want to commit to you lool
I don’t know why beautiful women act like they are the prize all the time , especially older deflowered ones they definitely aren’t that much of a prize.

they are only the prize for low to average value men but when it comes to a High value man he is the prize thus he picks and picks as many as he wants, he doesn’t wait to get picked by a woman in other words he lives life on his own terms.

Well then you find a man that does. Simple as. All of this prize malarky is bullshit. Both men and women need to see each other as prizes in order for the relationship to florish. As a man you're not going to commit to a woman you don't like, well neither are women.

As a man, YOU pay mehr, YOU go up to her father and YOU ask for her hand in marriage. Not the other way around. Her wali decides if YOU are worth being her husband. That is how much Islam values and prizes women. Virgin or not. The rules are set in stone.

Stop this Western red-pill bullshit. Islam has valued Muslim women and if you want to devalue us, you're free to 'pick' non Muslim women and have them chase you..

 

[Xaruun]

Well then you find a man that does. Simple as. All of this prize malarky is bullshit. Both men and women need to see each other as prizes in order for the relationship to florish. As a man you're not going to commit to a woman you don't like, well neither are women.

As a man, YOU pay mehr, YOU go up to her father and YOU ask for her hand in marriage. Not the other way around. Her wali decides if YOU are worth being her husband. That is how much Islam values and prizes women. Virgin or not. The rules are set in stone.

Stop this Western red-pill bullshit. Islam has valued Muslim women and if you want to devalue us, you're free to 'pick' non Muslim women and have them chase you..

Didn’t Khadija pursue the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa salaam)? Maybe what he’s saying is that you should put effort into attracting him as well.

 

[Angelina]

Didn’t Khadija pursue the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa salaam)? Maybe what he’s saying is that you should put effort into attracting him as well.

Yes she did, she saw that he was an amazing man.

He didn't say that though. .

Nothing wrong with women shooting their shot or trying to improve themselves to get the best mate possible. However, his whole point was that a woman is never a prize for a high value man which is false. Also, his point had nothing to do with the thread which was about how to spot a good man. He seem salty that women want a decent spouse?

Honestly, this redpill nonsense is really infecting some men. I've noticed alot of the things they advocate is the devaluation of women, which is obviously at odds with the way Islam views the marriage process. Also, why would you get into a relationship in which you don't place much value on your partner? Strange.

 

[KingSomali999]

Well then you find a man that does. Simple as. All of this prize malarky is bullshit. Both men and women need to see each other as prizes in order for the relationship to florish. As a man you're not going to commit to a woman you don't like, well neither are women.

As a man, YOU pay mehr, YOU go up to her father and YOU ask for her hand in marriage. Not the other way around. Her wali decides if YOU are worth being her husband. That is how much Islam values and prizes women. Virgin or not. The rules are set in stone.

Stop this Western red-pill bullshit. Islam has valued Muslim women and if you want to devalue us, you're free to 'pick' non Muslim women and have them chase you..

lf you think a good somali men will marry a non virgin whose never been married before is a oxymoron, nobody even said anything about virginity. Now a days in the west, from my experience and a lot of other somalis i talk to, a common issue is somali women want you to play your role on how a men should be doing according to islam but soon as they gotta play their role, they’ll turn into SJW. to put it simply, they want a good somali men with islamic values while they live their life according to feminisms

 

[Angelina]

lf you think a good somali men will marry a non virgin whose never been married before is a oxymoron, nobody even said anything about virginity. Now a days in the west, from my experience and a lot of other somalis i talk to, a common issue is somali women want you to play your role on how a men should be doing according to islam but soon as they gotta play their role, they’ll turn into SJW. to put it simply, they want a good somali men with islamic values while they live their life according to feminisms

By non virgin I meant divorced/widowed.

The person I replied to said deflowered btw which means non virgin.

 

[Lostbox]

No, everyone today is looking for a person to serve all their needs not a mutual relationship

Be have become more selfish

 

[unknownworld]

What if he ticks all those boxes but doesn’t want to commit to you lool
I don’t know why beautiful women act like they are the prize all the time , especially older deflowered ones they definitely aren’t that much of a prize.

they are only the prize for low to average value men but when it comes to a High value man he is the prize thus he picks and picks as many as he wants, he doesn’t wait to get picked by a woman in other words he lives life on his own terms.

Who hurt you bro? sounding like a sour grape!
Cuz last I checked REAL men don't get phased by age or virgin status

hint

hint

The greatest man to walk this earth, our beloved prophet S. A.W married a 45 year old divorced woman!!! how bout that?