Marriage in the west is dead

[Gibiin-Udug]

I wouldnt go there If I you. You are digging a hole for yourself according to your theory

If you're happy in living at your mom's 3 bedroom council house while she sends your wife in Somali a 100 dollars a month then I'm happy for you.

The world is big enough.

 

[karkaar]

By living in their mom's house while sending a hundred dollars to their poor wives in Somalia?


Lmfao.

100 dollars is nothing, at least for me and my family .Alxamdullilah my family In somalia is very well off,and if I do go back its best to keep it in the family.

 

[TekNiKo]

This Covid crisis is temporary. Maximum it lasts two years. A vaccine will eventually be discovered and things will go back to normal.

Economies of the West only dip for 2-3 years max and then go on to booms for a decade or more.

Dont underestimate the longlasting affects of the C virus. It has given powers to the state that only governments can dream of. You think the vaccine wont be mandatory? A digital certificate is coming akin to a Passport that will essentially force you to conform to the vaccine or face ostracization on a massive scale.

Anyways @Gibiin-Udug is right we should stop bashing our Western sisters. They are like us and a victim of this system

 

[Guardafui]

If you're not married to fob girls then why are you worried about western Somali girls? Seems to me you two are mot happy. Happy people don't waste time putting someone down.

Misery needs company.

Exactly why make a thread about it enjoy your fob wives. I think they believe every man thinks like them which is far from the truth a lot Muslim men in the West are the opposite they don’t want leeching wives.

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Dont underestimate the longlasting affects of the C virus. It has given powers to the state that only governments can dream of. You think the vaccine wont be mandatory? A digital certificate is coming akin to a Passport that will essentially force you to conform to the vaccine or face ostracization on a massive scale.

Anyways @Gibiin-Udug is right we should stop bashing our Western sisters. They are like us and a victim of this system

A victim to the system? I'm sorry but Somali girls don't need bums, especially bums who are extremists.


You hate to see a happy, hard working educated somali girl but alxamdullillah.

 

[Samaalic Era]

All men want women that respect and listen to them, white men figure it out later in life and travel all the way to south east Asia to cop a submissive ting

Cadaan women are now calacaling about Cadaan men going asia saying they cant handle "Independant" women

 

[Apollo]

This time its different sxb. This is just the start of a turbulent decade and the coming collapse is intended, not accidental

The beginning of the 2020s will be shit, but I think the end of the 2020s will be remembered as the roaring 20s.

 

[TekNiKo]

A victim to the system? I'm sorry but Somali girls don't need bums, especially bums who are extremists.


You hate to see a happy, hard working educated somali girl but alxamdullillah.

I wish we can be friends again @Gibiin-Udug

 

[karkaar]

Cadaan women are now calacaling about Cadaan men going asia saying they cant handle "Independant" women

You've got to give it to cadaan women,when their nigga leaves they take him for everything he has.I work in customer service and I've seen countless Cadaan men complaining about being finessed by hundreds of thousands

 

[Gambar]

I was born in Toronto, I cant be deported, but I was in Somalia for 4 years straight 2015-2019. I didnt get married until 2017 though. You are right though first year FOB girls would be savage I got tricked many times. I was so naive with them and they took for a ride, they are more savage than you lot. It takes a couple years to weed through thegold diggers.

They are no joke. Very feisty and can sniff a weak man from a mile away. Anyway you can marry a FOB girl but just don’t bash us.

I joke around about UK Somalis but a lot of my family live there, my grandfather was even born there. I spent 50% of my childhood in Somalia/Somaliland and would do the same for my child. It seems having a son can be very unsafe especially if you live in a major city. Ive heard some scary stories and we are fortunate enough to have dual passports so make use of it.

 

[Gambar]

Cadaan women are now calacaling about Cadaan men going asia saying they cant handle "Independant" women

I think that’s ended now due to the cudur. Cadaan waa iska cunsuri.

 

[Khayrre]

I'm gonna get married at 35. To a 17 year old reer xamar chick from banaadir.

They hate to see it wallahi.

 

[karkaar]

I think that’s ended now due to the cudur. Cadaan waa iska cunsuri.

Dun out here

 

[TekNiKo]

They are no joke. Very feisty and can sniff a weak man from a mile away. Anyway you can marry a FOB girl but just don’t bash us.

I joke around about UK Somalis but a lot of my family live there, my grandfather was even born there. I spent 50% of my childhood in Somalia/Somaliland and would do the same for my child. It seems having a son can be very unsafe especially if you live in a major city. Ive heard some scary stories and we are fortunate enough to have dual passports so make use of it.

Walaal you are right we shouldnt bash you guys since we are one in the same. Very wise decision to raise your kid 50% in Somaliland, it would work out for the better.

I wish we created a platform where young Western Somali men and women who are cultured and have diin were able to mingle. Its something severely lacking in our community unlike Indians/Pakistanis which always have networking events for marriage.

 

[Samaalic Era]

Dun out here
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Look at this one, nigga got cucked on another level

 

[karkaar]

Look at this one, nigga got cucked on another level

Asian males are unlucky wallahi

 

[Gambar]

Walaal you are right we shouldnt bash you guys since we are one in the same. Very wise decision to raise your kid 50% in Somaliland, it would work out for the better.

I wish we created a platform where young Western Somali men and women who are cultured and have diin were able to mingle. Its something severely lacking in our community unlike Indians/Pakistanis which always have networking events for marriage.

You’re from Toronto like me, it’s getting mad out here for young boys. There are diaspora groups of Somalis but it’s people we kind of grew up with. My parents were like Hindis, they forced friendships on us from their friends kids from the age of 5. Also they were worried about us losing our culture so they made us spend a lot of time back home. Some of us got married to each other and help each other find jobs. I just don’t see the benefit of bashing Somali men and women. We are a small community with issues with growing pains. Hopefully the next gen will be better.

 

[bluebird]

I dont think so, Somalia is the only country in the world in chaos for 30 years, for Somalis a police state would not fly. Our failed state status will prove to be a net-positive.

why do you think I was warning against centralism in the other thread for once the clan elders will come in to use. but if farmajo succeeds, he will surely make a police state

 

[المهندس]

Look at this one, nigga got cucked on another level

Women have no loyalty this is why they need to be kept in check with the dacas.

 

[Inquisitive_]

This absolutely true, it's a slow painful death sentence for the fast majority of males that decide to marry in the diaspora.

I honestly feel sorry for them because I have seen first hand the chaos and long-term damages that it has caused.

If you understand basic female psychology and biology you will understand why you should never marry them, she has absolutely no need for you outside of the bedroom in the diaspora and this is of course assuming she is religious.

We live in an era today were this is predominantly sought through haram means during their prime, but once they hits 30, panic sets it and they seeks the halal only because now biology overpowered them and societal/cultural pressures are still strong. (not having kids of wedlock for e.g. which will change next decade as society becomes more decadent)

They are not even interested in marriage until there late 20's in this generation, something that didn't exist in my generation.

When you ask them "why" they tell you the focus is on career, studies, travel or any other malarky which is nothing more then code word for "wan bashaalaya first".

The worst aspect of this, is that all of the power and laws are firmly placed in their hands by the satanist social engineers for good reason.

They know full well that by doing this it will cause her to have a repulsive biological reaction towards her husband and disdain which ultimately culminates in divorce, so much so society in large is destroyed.

We haven't even discussed the ideological warfare by the Satanist social engineers through various poisonous ideologies like feminism for decades that has polluted the minds making them dumb, deaf and blind.


So what is the solution now that you know the problem and understand it's biological, psychological, ideological, cultural, intellectual and spiritual? for which there is no cure?

My personal advice is to engage in constant self-development, teach yourself a difficult marketable skill that will allow you work from anywhere in the world, don't become a pathetic consumer, save up as much as you can.

Build your own business or go into contracting, make smart well diversified investments that will create multiple passive revenue streams and acquire as much assets as you can (best assets are land)

This will take time, sacrifice and self-discipline to achieve, when you hit 60% in this journey or close to it, get yourself a well vetted wife from a third world country from the same tribe, leave this part to your mother.

Trust me on this, your mother knows it best, she sees things and looks at things in ways that are inconceivable to you, she can tell a good wife from a average wife, and she is the only person that truly has your interest at heart.

If you take this path, you are a free man now that can live in any part of the world you like without limitations.

Wherever you decide to live, make sure it's not a western country or any country like it, it must be patriarchal and religious (for the sake of your Children)

Somalia will get better in time inshaallaah as ease always follows after difficulty, and before that ease comes there is a lot of investment opportunities for you which you should never ignore.

Don't become the idiot that goes to war with his hands tied behind his back, yes you have exceptions in the diaspora no doubt, but they are so few in number, that I have yet to hear or come across one in over a decade and I am being brutally honest her.