Marriage in the west is dead

[المهندس]

This absolutely true, it's a slow painful death sentence for the fast majority of males that decide to marry in the diaspora.

I honestly feel sorry for them because I have seen first hand the chaos and long-term damages that it has caused.

If you understand basic female psychology and biology you will understand why you should never marry them, she has absolutely no need for you outside of the bedroom in the diaspora and this is of course assuming she is religious.

We live in an era today were this is predominantly sought through haram means during their prime, but once they hits 30, panic sets it and they seeks the halal only because now biology overpowered them and societal/cultural pressures are still strong. (not having kids of wedlock for e.g. which will change next decade as society becomes more decadent)

They are not even interested in marriage until there late 20's in this generation, something that didn't exist in my generation.

When you ask them "why" they tell you the focus is on career, studies, travel or any other malarky which is nothing more then code word for "wan bashaalaya first".

The worst aspect of this, is that all of the power and laws are firmly placed in their hands by the satanist social engineers for good reason.

They know full well that by doing this it will cause her to have a repulsive biological reaction towards her husband and disdain which ultimately culminates in divorce, so much so society in large is destroyed.

We haven't even discussed the ideological warfare by the Satanist social engineers through various poisonous ideologies like feminism for decades that has polluted the minds making them dumb, deaf and blind.


So what is the solution now that you know the problem and understand it's biological, psychological, ideological, cultural, intellectual and spiritual? for which there is no cure?

My personal advice is to engage in constant self-development, teach yourself a difficult marketable skill that will allow you work from anywhere in the world, don't become a pathetic consumer, save up as much as you can.

Build your own business or go into contracting, make smart well diversified investments that will create multiple passive revenue streams and acquire as much assets as you can (best assets are land)

This will take time, sacrifice and self-discipline to achieve, when you hit 60% in this journey or close to it, get yourself a well vetted wife from a third world country from the same tribe, leave this part to your mother.

Trust me on this, your mother knows it best, she sees things and looks at things in ways that are inconceivable to you, she can tell a good wife from a average wife, and she is the only person that truly has your interest at heart.

If you take this path, you are a free man now that can live in any part of the world you like without limitations, wherever you decide to live, make sure it's not a western country or any country like it, it must be patriarchal and religious (for your Children)

Somalia will get better in time inshaallaah ease always follows after difficulty, and before that ease comes there is a lot of investment opportunities for you.

Brilliant advice

 

[Samaalic Era]

Women have no loyalty this is why they need to be kept in check with the dacas.

With women,the moment you let them loose, they become like this. No loyalty, only her worldly aspirations

Alxamdulillah for Islam and Honor

 

[Samaalic Era]

This absolutely true, it's a slow painful death sentence for the fast majority of males that decide to marry in the diaspora.

I honestly feel sorry for them because I have seen first hand the chaos and long-term damages that it has caused.

If you understand basic female psychology and biology you will understand why you should never marry them, she has absolutely no need for you outside of the bedroom in the diaspora and this is of course assuming she is religious.

We live in an era today were this is predominantly sought through haram means during their prime, but once they hits 30, panic sets it and they seeks the halal only because now biology overpowered them and societal/cultural pressures are still strong. (not having kids of wedlock for e.g. which will change next decade as society becomes more decadent)

They are not even interested in marriage until there late 20's in this generation, something that didn't exist in my generation.

When you ask them "why" they tell you the focus is on career, studies, travel or any other malarky which is nothing more then code word for "wan bashaalaya first".

The worst aspect of this, is that all of the power and laws are firmly placed in their hands by the satanist social engineers for good reason.

They know full well that by doing this it will cause her to have a repulsive biological reaction towards her husband and disdain which ultimately culminates in divorce, so much so society in large is destroyed.

We haven't even discussed the ideological warfare by the Satanist social engineers through various poisonous ideologies like feminism for decades that has polluted the minds making them dumb, deaf and blind.


So what is the solution now that you know the problem and understand it's biological, psychological, ideological, cultural, intellectual and spiritual? for which there is no cure?

My personal advice is to engage in constant self-development, teach yourself a difficult marketable skill that will allow you work from anywhere in the world, don't become a pathetic consumer, save up as much as you can.

Build your own business or go into contracting, make smart well diversified investments that will create multiple passive revenue streams and acquire as much assets as you can (best assets are land)

This will take time, sacrifice and self-discipline to achieve, when you hit 60% in this journey or close to it, get yourself a well vetted wife from a third world country from the same tribe, leave this part to your mother.

Trust me on this, your mother knows it best, she sees things and looks at things in ways that are inconceivable to you, she can tell a good wife from a average wife, and she is the only person that truly has your interest at heart.

If you take this path, you are a free man now that can live in any part of the world you like without limitations.

Wherever you decide to live, make sure it's not a western country or any country like it, it must be patriarchal and religious (for the sake of your Children)

Somalia will get better in time inshaallaah as ease always follows after difficulty, and before that ease comes there is a lot of investment opportunities for you which you should never ignore.

Don't become the idiot that goes to war with his hands tied behind his back, yes you have exceptions in the diaspora no doubt, but they are so few in number, that I have yet to hear or come across one in over a decade and I am being brutally honest her.

Couldnt have said it better. You covered it all. The west is designed to cripple the man. The only way you can have an Islamic Household is in a Muslim Patriarchal society. This also demands to be financially independant of the west and have your own source of Income

Brilliant post sxb

 

[Jungle]

Im definetly getting married here where i live and im signing no paperwork. Its the way forward i promise you and all i got to say is bros the clocks ticking do you wanna kick ball with your sons?

 

[TekNiKo]

You’re from Toronto like me, it’s getting mad out here for young boys. There are diaspora groups of Somalis but it’s people we kind of grew up with. My parents were like Hindis, they forced friendships on us from their friends kids from the age of 5. Also they were worried about us losing our culture so they made us spend a lot of time back home. Some of us got married to each other and help each other find jobs. I just don’t see the benefit of bashing Somali men and women. We are a small community with issues with growing pains. Hopefully the next gen will be better.

Boys who grew up in metro housing here have become khasaaro atleast some girls are educated lol.

Waxba isma dhamaan laakin

 

[Lostbox]

Best decision I ever made was to marry back home. You want clean wholesome daughters and wise sons they wont be produced in the West.

You must permanantly move back though before its too late. After this virus shit I realized the NWO police state is here and only going to get worst, social distancing isnt going nowhere anytime soon.


The economy will crash and the Dollar will be worthless soon. Better set up your escape pla now folks, youd rather be in Somalia when the chaos ensues.

It won't crash. It will correct it self but there will be a huge sacrifice somewhere

 

[Gambar]

Boys who grew up in metro housing here have become khasaaro atleast some girls are educated lol.

Waxba isma dhamaan laakin

They will never leave metro housing adeer. Guuriga dhexdiisda waa qurux lakiin banaanka naar baa loo malaynaya lol. Ghetto fabulous weeye.

 

[TekNiKo]

They will never leave metro housing adeer. Guuriga dhexdiisda waa qurux lakiin banaanka naar baa loo malaynaya lol. Ghetto fabulous weeye.

30 years living in TCHC ceeb badana

 

[Gambar]

30 years living in TCHC ceeb badana

My mum made me go visit once and I no longer complained. Accudubillahi. One of my relatives has lived there since the mid 80s.

 

[Mahacagalla]

Wallahi I used to think like that until I met a farax who was okay with that. Turned out to be the biggest control freak ever. Can’t imagine being a housewife now tbh

Yeah all my friends that want that out of their wives are low key toxic.

 

[Basic]

Yeah all my friends that want that out of their wives are low key toxic.

The need to dominant stems from insecurity. I can smell insecurity in a guy and it’s putrid

 

[Mahacagalla]

Girls with that mindset are either incredibly selfish and don't give a shit about you or they're idiotic double digit IQ brainlets. The era of the housewife is dead, decades of stagnant wages and job insecurity have made it infeasible to actually support a family on a single income.

The last girl I was seriously talking to had that "I'll take his money and keep mine" attitude. Completely put me off the prospect of marriage for a while.

It makes no sense sxb. This one girl was too funny she basically had a arts degree and worked as a

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So she had very little prospects and a load of student loan debt but doesn’t wanna work? She wants a husband! When I asked her what if the guy can’t support you and kids on his salary or suddenly loses his job she has the audacity to say, “that’s why I am gonna make sure I pick one who has a bright future and a secure job.” Like girl GET A DAMN JOB.

Edit: Honestly I wouldn’t ever marry anyone who wasn’t raised in the west and is a Xalimo but that is a dumb mindset to have given how hard it is to get married this poor girl grew up in community housing all her life and wants a guy that will make 100K every year until age 65.

She wasn’t even a looker Ladies there is nothing wrong with wanting a guy with a good job, but you need to be a willing to work a bit take a couple of years while the kids are young and get back in that rat race!
If you don’t look like a sugar baby don’t look for sugar daddies!

 

[Mahacagalla]

The need to dominant stems from insecurity. I can smell insecurity in a guy and it’s putrid

Yup meanwhile they always have the most bodies to their name.

 

[Samaalic Era]

It makes no sense sxb. This one girl was too funny she basically had a arts degree and worked as a

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So she had very little prospects and a load of student loan debt but doesn’t wanna work? She wants a husband! When I asked her what if the guy can’t support you and kids on his salary or suddenly loses his job she has the audacity to say, “that’s why I am gonna make sure I pick one who has a bright future and a secure job.” Like girl GET A DAMN JOB.

 

[Basic]

Yup meanwhile they always have the most bodies to their name.

Either that or virgins with in.cel ideology’s and no self awareness. It’s always those guys from both extremes tbh.

Nothing more attractive than the balanced faraxs in the middle

 

[Mahacagalla]

My mum made me go visit once and I no longer complained. Accudubillahi. One of my relatives has lived there since the mid 80s.

Some are pretty decent looking but dangerous.

 

[Mahacagalla]

30 years living in TCHC ceeb badana

Some people are just poor man no need to shame em.

 

[Nak Muay]

It makes no sense sxb. This one girl was too funny she basically had a arts degree and worked as a

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So she had very little prospects and a load of student loan debt but doesn’t wanna work? She wants a husband! When I asked her what if the guy can’t support you and kids on his salary or suddenly loses his job she has the audacity to say, “that’s why I am gonna make sure I pick one who has a bright future and a secure job.” Like girl GET A DAMN JOB.

Edit: Honestly I wouldn’t ever marry anyone who wasn’t raised in the west and is a Xalimo but that is a dumb mindset to have given how hard it is to get married this poor girl grew up in community housing all her life and wants a guy that will make 100K every year until age 65.

She wasn’t even a looker Ladies there is nothing wrong with wanting a guy with a good job, but you need to be a willing to work a bit take a couple of years while the kids are young and get back in that rat race!
If you don’t look like a sugar baby don’t look for sugar daddies!

Just reading that nearly gave me a fucking brain aneurysm, wallahi I would've spat in her face. The gall of someone with a useless art degree and mountains of debt to have such ludicrous expectations.

£54,000 puts you in the 90th percentile in the UK, some of these girls have lost their minds sxb.
f*ck marriage for now wallahi, it's not like I have a biological clock I need to account for. Besides, I want to enjoy the fruits of my labour before I commit financial and get hitched.

All the women in my family are mostly independent, educated and self-reliant, that's why bum b.tches like the one you've described get on my nervous.

 

[Gambar]

Some people are just poor man no need to shame em.

No they’re not, they are just comfortable living there.

 

[Jacki]

If western Somali men decide to go back hom for wives, who’s going to marry the Somali women in the west and the Somali men in Somalia?